The Sun family is extremely lucky to have this daughter.
In June 2024, Sun Yue accepted an exclusive interview with "People". The long interview was published when Sun Zhuo's college entrance examination was at its peak, once again bringing the family to the forefront.
In this exclusive interview, Sun Yue revealed many unknown stories, and especially mentioned the "women's dilemma". This topic is an area that Sun Yue has always focused on and outputs unique insights, and she herself is also the power of women. Another pronoun of.
This time, she "screamed" for her mother Peng Siying.
Of course, the most eye-catching person in this family is Sun Haiyang.
He is loyal, affectionate, persistent, business-minded, hard-working and hard-working. He is an opinion leader in the family search group and a key figure in the abduction group becoming so popular today. He is a hero and was filmed. The movie was praised and praised by people.
It is true that Sun Haiyang was the person who stood in front of the stage in the story of searching for Sun Zhuo, but the reason why he was able to stand in front of the stage was inseparable from Peng Siying's hard work and support. In the years when Sun Zhuo was lost, behind Sun Haiyang, who was always on the road, the entire family, the children and the elderly at home, and even most of the family's economy for a long time, relied on Peng Siying alone to support it.
In the media reports related to Sun Haiyang’s search for his son, there were two cruel scenes that were widely circulated.
First, after Sun Zhuo was lost, Sun Haiyang and Peng Siying went from initially holding out hope of finding their child to gradually despairing, accusing each other in great pain. Peng Siying rushed to Sun Haiyang with a kitchen knife and begged Sun Haiyang to kill her. The headbutt to the ground resulted in a bloody mess.
Secondly, Peng Siying and Sun Haiyang once participated in a program. In the program, a psychological consultant hoped that Sun Haiyang would let go of the mountain of searching for a child and let him carry the dummy on his back until he was exhausted. Had to give up.
After Sun Zhuo returned, this program was picked up, and everyone lamented that Sun Haiyang's fatherly love was as strong as a mountain and he insisted on never letting go. In contrast, the image of Peng Siying in the program is that of Sun Haiyang's poor wife who was afraid that the family would be separated after Sun Haiyang fell into paranoia and searched for a son, so she used divorce to persuade Sun Haiyang.
These stories are full of Peng Siying's fragility, and they also make Peng Siying, who should also be the hero in Sun Zhuo's abduction incident, invisible in the public eye.
Sun Zhuo was lost while being guarded by Sun Haiyang.
This may be one of the reasons why Sun Haiyang felt so guilty that he could not accept the facts and was determined to find his son until he died.
But in the first few years after Sun Zhuo's disappearance, Peng Siying had always accepted Sun Haiyang's "lies" accusing her of not taking good care of her children. She did not argue or resist. Sun Haiyang said that she just listened.
The pain of losing her son also attacked the mother who was ten months pregnant, causing Peng Siying to turn gray at the age of 37. Her health was so bad that she would get sick every month and need infusions for relief.
But she still bore Sun Haiyang’s guilt-related rage alone: “I’ve known him since I was 18 years old. He’s a very tough man. I’ve never seen him cry, no matter how hard it was. That time when the child was lost This was the first time he cried. I knew that it was absolutely impossible to suppress him again. No matter what he said, it was me who lost the child. "
Until a long time ago. Later, when Peng Siying talked about this topic again, he said: Don't you know in whose hands the child was lost?
Sun Haiyang has been running around looking for his son all year round, not giving up every clue. The bun shop cannot be opened, the business has stopped, and the child has been ignored. Later, he decided to rent an entire building and become the second landlord, which finally gave the family some hope. Wealth accumulation.
But how can Sun Haiyang have time management?
At that time, Peng Siying was pregnant with Sun Hui. With a big belly, she climbed up and down dozens of floors every day in an old building without an elevator, squatting on the ground to clean the toilet. A pregnant woman should take care of herself and her belly. The child has to make money and take care of Sun Yue who is going to school.
On the day Sun Zhuo returned, Sun Haiyang was too excited to hold the child and refused to let go. It was Peng Siying who acted as a mood stabilizer and advised Sun Haiyang not to scare the child.
In Sun Yue's impression, his mother was very fierce. When he was young, he preferred his mother to rush out to protect his father when he was being punished. Later, when I grew up, I recalled that my father had been away from home all year round. Although he always talked about how to educate his children and never beat them, in fact, it was the mother who had always been responsible for educating the children.
Now, Sun Yue often feels like the third parent in the family. She became, in another sense, the inheritor of Peng Siying’s female power.
She witnessed the scene where her mother rushed out with a knife and hit her head on the ground, and experienced the pain of the family almost falling apart because of the search for Sun Zhuo. But fortunately, Sun Haiyang and Peng Siying still gave her enough love, making her an important psychological support after Sun Zhuo's return.
She is a role model for the children in her family. She has traveled to several countries, exchanged in Italy, and studied in Singapore. She has good grades and a broad horizon. Sun Zhuo had great expectations for this sister before he returned. It was a life that young people in small towns had almost never imagined. After returning, he was depressed for a long time. It was Sun Yue who took him to travel, watch movies, and go to amusement parks. Little by little, over.
She began to correct Peng Siying's way of educating her children, preventing her mother from treating Sun Zhuosun Hui with the attitude of "no matter how hard the parents work, it's all for you". When Sun Zhuosun Hui wanted to play video games, she persuaded Peng Siying to give her children appropriate care. Space and freedom.
Without Sun Haiyang, Sun Zhuo may not be able to be found. Without Peng Siying, the family may have been separated long ago. Without Sun Yue, the Sun family may not be able to move forward steadily in the storm of public opinion.
Sun Haiyang is a hero, and so is Peng Siying. It is a pity that the contribution and achievements of women are hidden behind men by simply saying "a good wife".
In the family search groups, there are many people who have suffered divorce due to the direct or indirect loss of their children. Among these people, it is often the mothers who choose to continue looking for their children. The irony is that women clearly account for more than half of the country, and whether it’s a movie or a family search report, most of the cameras are still focused on men.
