A few days ago, I was chatting with a friend about the happiness of a person who travels all over the world by plane and a person who has never been out of the mountains. I said that happiness should have a reference and then a gap ratio. For example, others have luxury houses and cars, but you don’t have them and you also want them. Then he is happier than you. Mind you, only if you want it too. The novel "The Ordinary World" by
says: If you haven't read so many books, you won't know that there is a big world outside the village. Working at sunrise and breathing in at sunrise every day is a kind of life. The attitude towards life is nothing more than knowing too much and wanting more. Some people say: When you reach middle age, if you no longer believe in fate, it means your understanding is too poor. But what I want to add is, which of all your cognitions is not the accumulation of your experience? If you have not experienced joys and sorrows, how can you taste the joy of love and the happiness of reunion? Therefore, everything has a queue, and reaching the end is nothing more than teaching us choices.
The so-called choice is also a philosophy in life. Most people would say that making a choice is a state of mind, a wise decision after weighing the pros and cons, a compromise out of desperation, and an attitude of letting yourself go. But I believe that choice is a kind of spirit and understanding, an ability to see into human nature, and contains the wisdom of simplicity and a clear perspective.
When you encounter some confusion, if you can understand the confusion from multiple angles, then whether it is relief or a choice, you will ultimately make a choice and compromise between the pros and cons. Maybe it’s empathy, maybe it’s letting go of obsessions, but being more transparent and simple, isn’t letting go and letting go a kind of wisdom in life? Life is philosophy. (Li Xing)
