The collapse of the house hit the uncle's circle, and Gao Yalin, a good father's professional household, collapsed. He was accused by his ex-girlfriend of cheating, domestic violence during pregnancy, and rape. One of them is enough to drink a pot. There are three of them...
has been on the trending searches these days and has made a fuss. Bullets are flying. Now, the chain of events is gradually becoming clearer, and it seems that this melon has come to an end. Let’s talk today about why the track of lolita and uncle in the entertainment industry frequently overturns.
Honest Uncle Dishonest
Gao Yalin has been in the industry for more than 20 years. In "Family with Children", he played the role of Xia Donghai as a loving father. Originally, his private life did not attract much attention. However, when his ex-girlfriend Wei Jia made a fuss, he The past in life has also been picked out one by one. She first married Shi Wei, who was 11 years younger, and then divorced without any official announcement. Then she had a child out of wedlock with Wei Jia, who was 20 years younger. After the child was born, he cheated on Xu Zijun, and there was a 26-year age difference between Xu Zijun and Gao Yalin. is really a hearty love story between young and old. This is in line with the saying: Men are the most dedicated, no matter how old they are, they will always like girls under the age of 18.
Since the incident, Wei Jia first exposed and accused Gao Yalin on the Internet in the form of a short essay + chat records, but Gao Yalin has never responded directly. Xu Zijun, the "mistress" in Wei Jia's words, also posted a short composition and chat history in an attempt to clear his name. It seems that this girl does not have a public relations team and is not smart herself. For this short essay, she might as well remain silent.
This is self-defeating. Well, I have no feelings for you but it doesn't stop me from collecting your money. Doesn't this confirm Gao Yalin's positioning of Wei Jia in her chat records?
If you keep silent, it will be a triangular relationship dispute. After the heat is over, you will still be a good girl. This one is paid to do things without emotions, and your image will be determined. It will really screw you up.
"Loli's rise to the top" is by no means a shortcut
Young girls in the entertainment industry use big bosses to rise to the top. How many of them are really successful?
This time, Wei Jia and Xu Zijun, to put it bluntly, it is difficult to say that they did not want to use Gao Yalin to gain a position at the beginning. Including Chen Yulin, who had been with Wu Xiubo for seven years, didn't he also think that he had a long-term and stable backer? Looking at it now, the ending is not very ideal.
The reason is that the relationship between them is not corrected. When choosing to start a relationship with an uncle, especially an uncle in the entertainment industry who is used to seeing sensual things, the two people's granularity is not aligned.
Number one: Have the illusion and obsession of achieving righteousness.
thinks that if he gives his feelings to the other person, he will be able to influence him, and blindly believes that he is the last one. She took care of the trivial matters of his life and took personal care of him, and even went so far as to give birth to children for him in exchange for his status.
Second: My little girlfriend is like a snake and wants too much.
Thousand-year-old foxes in the entertainment industry can still be active on the screen in their forties and fifties, but they are not fuel-efficient lamps. In the eyes of some young girls in the entertainment industry, being favored by a big boss is equivalent to a steady stream of opportunities coming to them. Is this true? How can these old men allow a little girl to covet the connections and assets that these old men have accumulated through years of hard work? Just provide some symbolic resources to coax.
In addition to being an actor, he is also a man. A young girl who is simple and easy to control is only worthy of being a canary in a cage. She can be given some sweetness, but she must not be released, let alone allowed to fly higher than herself.
Wei Jia's latest statement said that he had accompanied Gao Yalin to pay off the debt for three years. When they separated, the agreement stated that they would buy a house for their children to solve the household registration problem. However, Gao Yalin did not fulfill the obligation, which made Wei Jia angry and angry. He also said that Gao Yalin is actually not as rich as the outside world thinks. This seems to be a defense for Gao Yalin: it's not that he doesn't want to give, but that he doesn't have the money to give.
I really don’t understand. Although this girl is quite tough, she is still not transparent. It’s not that he doesn’t have money to give it to you. Even if he has money, he doesn’t want to give it to you at all. If you look at the transfers made to Xu Zijun, they can easily start in the tens of thousands.
老虎道行深
In recent years, male stars in the entertainment industry have fallen out because of their relationship, and most of them come from the women's essays.
Let’s just say, the Internet is really easy to use, and it works well every time... Like this time, netizens have become Internet judges in the entertainment industry. With the help of public opinion, the ex-girlfriend got what she wanted and solved the problem. The "mistress" was originally an unknown 18th-line fool, but she accidentally lost her sense of existence.
It seems that the women have the upper hand, Wei Jia also took advantage of the incident to do a round of work promotion. But how long can this kind of love affair remain popular? As the storm subsided, Gao Yalin, the main culprit, never responded publicly. The entire incident and his comments were posted online by his ex-girlfriend Wei Jia and his mistress Xu Zijun. I have to say that Gao Yalin is indeed a senior "big boss" in the entertainment industry. He is so smart. No matter how turbulent the outside world is, I have stayed put. I will not deny, confirm or defend. I will never fall into mutual quarrels, and I am not stupid enough to stand on the front line and give the public a chance to have a public trial. Every injustice has its owner, and every debt has its owner, and there is no need to take any unnecessary action.
From the chat records released by Wei Jiagang, we learned that Gao Yalin's attitude towards solving problems is also very positive, and his words are mature, rational and calm. Compared with the crazy Wei Jia and the logically confused and self-defeating Xu Zijun, Daoxing is many times better.
Some people say that Wei Jia is the biggest beneficiary, but that is not necessarily true. Gao Yalin responded to the issue of registering her children, saying that she could choose Beijing or Shenzhen. She felt that the problem that was difficult for Wei Jia was just something that others could easily handle. Can you survive this? So Wei Jia also died down. She also knew that if the trouble continued, she would have nothing to gain. If the fish dies, the net may not be broken. Besides, both of them are not married, so the law has no control over it. It is a moral matter at best. As for Xu Zijun clamoring for Gao Yalin to apologize, don't worry, it won't even cause a splash.
Conclusion
Some people compare Gao Yalin to Wang Sicong, but after Wang Sicong's girlfriends broke up, none of them broke up with him, and basically no one said bad things about him. Some of them were even grateful. puts it plainly, one party is satisfied with real money and silver, and the other party needs to be content and happy. Go for love, break up and get together easily. If you go there for money, negotiate the price in advance.
In a few days, Gao Yalin's matter will be covered by new hot topics, and his career will most likely not be greatly affected. In the entertainment industry, the track between lolita and uncle is an increasingly narrow one.
