I thought that the Gao Yalin incident had come to an end, but unexpectedly, Xu Zijun, the other heroine in the incident, spoke out.
It’s okay that she didn’t speak out. After speaking out, netizens’ views were refreshed.
Xu Zijun said in the article that she has always regarded Gao Yalin as a respected senior, and it was Gao Yalin who has been pursuing her.
In the process of Gao Yalin's pursuit of her, Xu Zijun also accepted many transfers. Xu Zijun didn't know that Gao Yalin had a girlfriend. She only knew that Gao Yalin was divorced.
Before the two had established a relationship, Xu Zijun knew that Gao Yalin had a girlfriend, so he severed contact with Gao Yalin.
Xu Zijun posted screenshots of chats in which Gao Yalin contacted her unilaterally many times, but Xu Zijun ignored them.
Until here, there seems to be no problem. Xu Zijun seems to be an unknowing victim. But Xu Zijun went on to say:
As soon as this statement came out, I had a feeling that it would become a new meme on the Internet. Xu Zijun’s three views are really hard to agree with!
First of all, we have to say that Gao Yalin does have a problem. She should not have called Xu Zijun a chicken in the chat history. According to Xu Zijun, the two of them had no feelings beyond friendship, and they did not sleep.
The title of Gao Yalin has caused great damage to Xu Zijun's reputation. Everyone now knows that Xu Zijun is Guan Xiaotong's classmate, and Xu Zijun is equivalent to a social death.
There are also many wonderful comments on the Internet, such as "It is impossible to imagine Gao Yalin's huge body in Xu Zijun's chrysalis", "Guan Xiaotong talks about top-notch, Xu Zijun talks about Lao Niu" and so on.
However, Xu Zijun's argument that "accepting money does not mean accepting love" is very similar to the current definition of "fishing for women" in society.
"Finding women" refers to trying every possible means to obtain money from men without giving affection or true feelings.
The heat of the incident between Fat Mao and Tan Zhu has not completely dissipated. As a man, Fat Mao paid a lot of money, but did not get the love and care from his girlfriend.
If girlfriend Tan Zhu doesn't like Fat Cat, she can tell Fat Cat clearly and refuse to accept the money. If it hadn't been for losing both people and money, Fat Cat might not have ended up like this recently.
Back to Xu Zijun, according to her, she doesn't like Gao Yalin, so she can reject him directly. After discovering Gao Yalin's true identity, she could return such a huge transfer to Gao Yalin to express her determination to cut off ties with Gao Yalin.
Even if the money is not returned, when Xu Zijun responded this time, said that "accepting the transfer does not mean accepting the relationship." 's remarks were really shocking.
We can say, "Accepting a date does not mean accepting a relationship" and "Agreing to go out to eat does not mean accepting a relationship", but money is a relatively sensitive thing after all, especially money worth hundreds of thousands.
Some people think that Gao Yalin is taken advantage of because he spent hundreds of thousands to pursue a girl; but others think that to Gao Yalin, hundreds of thousands is probably just a dozen yuan, which is nothing at all.
Wei Jia posted an article saying that the reason for making such a fuss was to register the child. Everything is over and Gao Yalin is willing to take responsibility.
Some people said that Wei Jia could have not exposed Xu Zijun’s information, and Xu Zijun would not have to be tried, but Wei Jia still released it. Xu Zijun suffered too much negative attention.
If Xu Zijun is also a victim, it may not be fair to Xu Zijun. However, Xu Zijun is now a victim, so it is estimated that it will be difficult for him to gain public sympathy for his words.
