Recently, the biggest scandal on the entire Internet is undoubtedly the "Fat Cat Jumping into the River" incident. The protagonist of the
incident is a 21-year-old game power leveler. He likes to play Mengqi , so he calls himself "Fat Cat" .
The relationship between Fat Cat and his parents is not very good. The only people who have contact with his original family are his older sisters. Therefore, he did not enter college like ordinary people. Instead, he entered society early. As an adult, he made a living by doing game training.
Of course, he also dated someone online, who was 28 years old.
For this reason, he did not hesitate to go to Chongqing to show off.
But this so-called girlfriend did not tolerate Fat Cat's difficulties. Instead, she asked him for help in various ways such as "wanting to open a shop", "no food to eat", "preparing to get married", etc.
Just like that, relying on playing games worth 20 yuan day and night, in two years, Fat Cat transferred 510,000 to this online dating partner.
And what about him? There are not even quilts in the house
rents, and most of them are cheap takeaways.
For him, his youthful experience and desire for love made him regard his girlfriend's words about marrying her as a guideline, and he was happy to do so.
So, he doesn’t mind if it’s a bit hard and tiring.
Because of this, he said to his girlfriend "I have five thousand this week, and others have only one thousand." At that time, he had infinite longing for the future in his heart and was proud of his efforts.
But after all, he couldn't understand this game called "love" set up by his girlfriend.
In April this year, his online dating partner had a "cliff breakup." After many attempts to save her, Fat Mao committed suicide by jumping into a river in Chongqing. He was stuck at the age of 21 forever.
After Fat Cat passed away, his sister found the chat history with his girlfriend on his mobile phone, and also learned the truth about his brother's death, so she put relevant information about the incident online.
As the Fat Cat incident spreads on the Internet, more and more people who have interacted with Fat Cat have posted chat records with Fat Cat.
has his clients and other boosters.
Overall, Fat Cat had a very hard and tiring life.
His life in the past two years has been almost all about making orders. In his words, "Except for eating and sleeping, he has been making orders."
Because he has a sense of responsibility and a strong love, he has to save money. Come to support a girlfriend who spends a lot of money.
However, even so, there are times when he cannot bear it. Staying up late and working extremely hard, his body was extremely exhausted, even to the point of vomiting blood.
A kind-hearted customer asked him to go to the hospital and rest quickly.
He just said, "I don't have money to go to the hospital. It's almost the Chinese New Year and I have to spend a lot of money on her. I'll spend less."
In order to save money, he even went to the cheapest restaurants in a group. takeaway.
Sometimes he waited for five or six hours just for the fifty cents.
When faced with his girlfriend's request for money, he has always been generous.
can easily amount to thousands. He never hesitates and transfers it immediately.
The day before he decided to jump into the river, he was still worried about his girlfriend and even ordered a bouquet of fresh flowers worth 780 yuan for her.
At the end, he transferred all the savings in his card to the other party, saying "voluntary gift".
In fact, countless netizens expressed deep sympathy for the fat cat’s experience, but at the same time they were also very angry.
Fat Cat, a hard-working and kind-hearted person, what did he do wrong?
In fact, he did nothing wrong, but his inner desire for love and warmth was taken advantage of.
A fat cat who has lacked the warmth of family since he was a child, he wants to have a small family of his own, so his girlfriend's simple sweet words and the promise of "marriage" make him fall for it.
He doesn't want much, but it is precious enough to him.
Therefore, he thought that as long as he gave without any bottom line, he could get the other person's love back.
However, what awaits is the despair of breaking up and being abandoned.
Looking back, have we seen too many "gods of pure love" like Fat Cat in recent years?
A recent example is Su Jianren in "City Within a City".
He was originally the second generation of a banker, and power and money were his daily life. He could have lived his life freely, but he met Zhou Lin instead.
As someone who has been in the workplace for decades, he knew from the beginning what Zhou Lin's appearance meant. It was a beauty trap arranged by Xie Zhiyuan for him and Zhao Hui.
But he doesn't care, if he likes it, he likes it.
Therefore, when Su Jianren was dismissed from his post because of the watch given by Zhou Lin, he was very angry and unwilling at first. He even drank and went to Zhou Lin's house to prepare for an attack.
But after the sweetheart said he didn't know, he started to trick himself again and instantly forgave the other person.
Also, when he learned that Xie Zhiyuan reported Zhao Hui, he was very happy because he hated Zhao Hui, but at the same time, he was worried that this incident would affect Zhou Lin.
So, he took the initiative to go to the bank to take all the blame on himself.
Compared with Zhao Hui, Su Jianren's love was never just words.
For Zhou Lin, he could give up his future and his hatred for Zhao Hui.
So, he said to Zhou Lin, "Let's fly far away, leave this place, go to a foreign country, and have a vigorous love that neither of them deserves."
In front of Zhou Lin, Su Jianren is always undefended and sincere, full of love. With love and tolerance.
Even after seeing Zhou Lin and Zhao Hui together, Su Jianren's first reaction was not to blame Zhou Lin but to scold Xie Zhiyuan.
What made everyone feel Su Jianren's tenderness and affection the most was the scene where he hugged Zhou Linqiu. He hugged tightly, then quickly let go, and said, "I have strength again."
Obviously, he was greedy for these moments of care and regarded Zhou Lin as his spiritual sustenance.
Facing Zhou Lin, he can definitely be regarded as the "god of pure love".
In the play, there is such a scene.
Su Jianren appeared at Zhou Lin's doorstep in a very depressed mood, and invited him to have a drink, but Zhou Lin did not refuse.
After getting tipsy, Zhou Lin took advantage of the alcohol to complain that Su Jianren was a big fool and that he threatened to marry her.
As for Su Jianren, he just listened to the other party's words patiently, but when he heard the word "marry me", the moment Su Jianren quietly raised his eyes, it was full of tenderness and doting.
However, Zhou Lin still did not respond directly to Su Jianren at this time.
In order to make Goddess Bo smile, Su Jianren went on stage and danced, which also completely moved Zhou Lin.
Just as Su Jianren said himself, "Even if people who go to see the world laugh at me and call me stupid, as long as I can get your sincerity, it's worth it!"
Unfortunately, Zhou Lin failed to live up to Su Jianren's expectations. The so-called " "Kiss goodbye before marriage" completely made Su Jianren lose his mind and cost him his life.
In this era, whether in reality or in movies and TV dramas, the ending of "Pure Love God of War" seems to be not very good. Why are so many innocent and affectionate people let down? The author feels more and more that something bad is happening.
People who are loyal to love are deceived by those who play with love - the former is too innocent and kind, while the latter is selfish, greedy, direct, and extremely vicious. This kind of love has been a fruitless game or a tragedy from the beginning, but those innocent people are trapped in it, trapped by love, and lost in love.
For example: Two years ago, a Shandong man rode a shared bicycle for 200 kilometers and broke into the school barefoot to seek an explanation from his cheating wife.
Compared to Fat Cat or Su Jianren, he was not that lucky.
works alone to support his family, so that his newlywed wife can study in school, and all the earnings are handed over; but his wife has already given birth to a child in school, and according to the calculation of time, he is not the father of the child.
Last year in Chengdu University, a boy was betrayed by his first love.
has been dating for four years, and because of the long-distance relationship, the number of meetings has decreased. Unexpectedly, when the boy rushed to see the girl, he saw that the girl he loved was actually kissing another boy.
In the end the boy could only collapse and shout, "You are my first love! It was you who chased me back then! Tell me why you are doing this!".
Sometimes I think about how love in this era is defined and why so many pure lovers are let down.
The pig head chased the swallow. For her, he took it for granted, but he also just wanted to give her a home, but the swallow still left;
There was also a Cadillac chasing the high-speed rail, but what they got in exchange was "the car sinks into the fish tank, and the star falls into the sea" ending.
ran thousands of miles for love, but suffered the betrayal of his girlfriend and the words "go back". He loudly complained about the failure of his relationship, and the boys at the scene were silent.
Some people say that this is a "modern fable".
is like a fat cat. He always simply thinks that as long as he gives everything to the other person, the other person will definitely love him.
If you don’t love it, it must be that you haven’t given enough.
Uncle Fan doesn’t comment on whether this kind of love is right or wrong, because from the beginning, that’s what the other party wanted from Fat Cat. Coupled with Fat Cat's growth environment and social circle, he is more dependent on the woman, and the emotional value he is occasionally given will be regarded by him as the meaning of loving her.
So, in the end, he bought flowers and transferred money, just to love again.
But is this kind of "love" really reasonable?
is obviously unreasonable, but there are many such "unreasonable" loves nowadays.
I don’t know since when, there is such a test in love, “Anyone who doesn’t spend money on you will definitely not love you.” But when verifying this test, everyone may have overlooked one point, "people who only ask you for money also don't love you" .
Therefore, in love, regardless of man or woman, please have the ability to love yourself first, and then love others.
I really like what the heroine said in "Heartbreak", "We can't control falling in love with someone, but we can control staying away from that love" .
There is no inevitable relationship between liking a person and whether you want to stay with him or not.
In love, if you find that the other person's character is not good, you can break up; in marriage, if you find that the other person is not a good person, you can divorce. There is no contradiction between stopping losses in time and loving bravely.
is just like Tang Yan, who once was so in love with Qiu Ze that she was nicknamed the "love brain" by netizens, but after being betrayed and broken up, she was still spoiled like a girl when she met Luo Jin.
So, finally, I would like to remind everyone that there is no need to fight with a bad person or a bad relationship.
is not worth it and is not necessary.
(Movie Rotten Tomatoes Editorial Department: An An)
