is riding the wave this year. As always, the sisters are competing for their talents, looks, popularity, and hard work. But what surprises me is that Guo Biting also came to compete! Although there was no splash on the stage, there were a lot of wonderful quotes.
A program that emphasizes "success learning" and "effort theory", she abruptly opened up a track of "alternative relaxation".
introduced herself, she did not mention classic works, but instead shared with great interest the ordinary life of raising pets, spending time with children, and growing flowers and plants at home..
On the first stage, other sisters attended in costumes and racked their brains on their talents. Guo Biting appeared in a simple off-shoulder dress and sang a quiet song "Little Happiness" that has been quiet for a long time. "No big wishes, nothing to rush. , donāt rush to give an answerā, what is hummed in the lyrics of is a portrayal of her life.
When it came to the team selection stage, other sisters were either actively competing for people or recommending themselves. Only she said to the sister next to her indifferently, "Let's sit slowly and walk all the way to the end."
There is no such thing as "win" "Desire, obey the destiny, and take care of it as it comes.
Although it is incompatible with Sister Lang's painting style, to be honest, after watching Guo Biting's performance in the show, I have greatly changed my opinion of her.
I have only watched a few of her film and television dramas sporadically before. I may not have the desire to get to know this person in depth, so I will subjectively conclude that her beauty is empty, her marriage is sloppy, and she was carefully selected by her mother-in-law to "carry on the family line." Tool man.
But now I feel that can still be so relaxed and comfortable in an environment that exaggerates tension and pressure. She is emotionally stable and self-consistent, has clear ideas, is neither arrogant nor impetuous, and her spiritual core can be said to be quite stable.
Donāt compare with others, live your own life and focus on the present... These are the words that we middle-aged women often say to comfort ourselves. But it is difficult for most people to "unify knowledge and action", and they are always forced to compare, envy, and be jealous.
So at this stage of life, I especially want to tell you that life is too busy and tiring, and you must allow yourself to "let go" appropriately, stop and walk and look at the scenery, tell yourself "Actually, I don't have to live. So tired."
1
Beauty is the biggest highlight of Guo Biting. Cai Wenjing and Qi Wei commented on her: Her beauty is so easy, but her own beauty is very complicated.
It is said that beauty should be her proudest feather, but it seems that she is not that obsessed with beauty. Not only is she a bit plain and simple in appearance, she also has a double chin and layered hair that are not afraid of people's jokes.
Guo Biting also revealed that she has a blind spot in appearance. is her cheekbones that show off her face. The long and black hair is not her favorite, but the hairstyle she is always asked for. During the previous filming, the director also asked her to get face-lift injections or cosmetic surgery. , accusing her of gaining weight and not having professional qualities. In fact, she had always been extremely thin when she was young, weighing only 84 pounds for a 170-cm tall woman.
However, she didnāt take the concerns about appearance in the industry too seriously. Some unpleasant words just fell on deaf ears. She bluntly said that she had a bone problem and injections would not make her face slimmer, and she was not in a hurry to lose weight after giving birth. , on the contrary, I am accustomed to a slightly chubby body and loose style, and I feel more and more like a dĆ©jĆ vu.
is also very casual in her lifestyle and looks like a stay-at-home mother.
She also has her own logic in how she behaves.
Faced with the large-scale social celebrity scene of 36 sisters, He Jie was busy handing out snail noodles, Cai Wenjing tried her best to get close, Guo Biting greeted everyone from a distance and then sat down alone, her psychological monologue was "I told everyone from a distance in my heart You're fine."
Some netizens said that she was rude and out of touch with society. In fact, she was just as withdrawn when she was not married into a rich family. She even had a language barrier when she was a child. She was always curious about why girls like to go to the toilet together while she likes to be alone quietly. Stay.
was inexplicably voted as the captain by other sisters. Guo Biting had no confidence in her talents, but faced everyone's doubts, she did not give up, saying: "Actually, I also do a lot of management, and there are dozens of people in my family. There are dogs, and I have to manage them." After saying this, she couldn't help laughing.
When asked if she was sad when no one was interested in her team, Guo Biting said frankly that she felt very calm now that she knew that everyone was either choosing someone who was very capable, liked someone, or someone she was familiar with.
Finally a sister came to join her team. The director asked her if she felt like she had been rescued. Her thinking was different and she said: "No, I can do it alone...On the contrary, there are many It will be more difficult for everyone to queue up and choose the sisters for the captains... It is a problem for everyone to reject others. "
Yi Gong Xiaoqian PK, the three people in their team have white voices, which is incomparable with other groups. , Jin Mengjia's mentality immediately collapsed, and she shed tears anxiously. Guo Biting was not too affected by the emotions of her teammates, and calmly enlightened:
"A lot of pressure? Get over it step by step, and you will grow into another person... The last one Itās not shameful, itās nothing, this is just a process of life. ā
When Yi Gong performed, the director was asking what to do when she saw the wonderful stage performance of other talented actors, but she still said calmly: " Whatās the big deal? Who has never seen big storms? I survived it step by step.ā
It can be seen that her āBuddhistā speech was not to gain respect for herself, or to find a way out, but was genuine from the bottom of her heart. No ambition or desire.
Compared with external success and fame, the peace and stability of the inner world can bring her more satisfaction.
Of course, many netizens complained about her on social platforms: If I could have a beautiful face, a strong husband-in-law like her, and not worry about life and the future, I would also be able to live her free and easy life.
But in fact, this is not the case. For example, her husband Xiang Zuo, as the biological son of a landlord, lives a hard life and does not please the public.
2
When it comes to Xiang Zuo, netizens gave an appropriate summary: A capable father, a strong mother, a beautiful wife and a useless him.
He also recently appeared on a variety show "Wireless Beyond 2.0". Not only did he not earn much face, but it made the public laugh.
In the interview test, he prepared his own performance "The Death of Mozart", but the performance turned out to be shoddy. The original intention was to highlight Mozart's complex emotions of being unrecognized for his talent and struggling painfully in the face of an unfair fate, but the expression of the performance was difficult to describe in one sentence.
In many things, he seems to be a bit trying too hard.
participated in a variety show. He placed 7 photos of his family on the table. The reason was that he missed his family very much and wanted to be surrounded by them. When
was interviewed, he was asked about his relationship with Guo Biting. He answered very confidently: "We and Biting is very affectionate, 10000%, it can be said that the affection is to the extreme. "
However, Guo Biting also had an affair scandal during her pregnancy. It was rumored that he only appeared in a hurry to take a group photo at the child's birthday party. This kind of contrast is inevitable. Don't let people think that "there is no three hundred taels of silver here".
has no representative works. He said this: : "Since I was 18 years old, no one has ever given me space to act, including all the directors and producers in Hong Kong, China, so I feel like a useless person." Like parents It has become an obstacle to one's own development.
But he didnāt say that his debut film was Jet Liās version of āFearlessā, and he later starred in āThe Legendā, āThe Handsome Manā and āSu Qierā. Although they were all supporting roles, the co-directors and The leading actors are all top stars in the entertainment industry, not to mention that his father invested hundreds of millions and gathered big names to tailor the movie "Legend of the Gods" for him.
In fact, Xiang Zuoās hard work can be seen with the naked eye, and he can really endure the hardships of a martial arts actor. . If you said that I am not professional enough, I will retreat for seven years (when I am 26-32 years old) to concentrate on cultivation. I will not look at my mobile phone at all and insist on it every day. 10 to 12 hours of high-intensity training. You said that I am a rich man who "doesn't eat the fireworks of the world", but I lived penniless for half a year.
Regarding his efforts, Wu Zhenyu hit the nail on the head: "Those are experiences of life that are divorced from life."
3
So it has to be said that when faced with a son who is still looking for a life goal in middle age, Xiang Tai is also It was a bit overwhelming, but fortunately she had a good eye for choosing a daughter-in-law, and finally found an "emotional stabilizer" for her son.
Although the current Guo Biting seems to be Buddhist and indifferent, she likes to raise flowers and dogs, and walk her children quietly, but in fact she was not born this way.
When she was a child, Guo Biting even had a tomboy side. But she, like her husband Xiang Zuo, has a strong and domineering father.
She has strong athletic ability and likes to play football and is very good at it. In the end, her father forcibly persuaded her to quit. The reason is: "I gave birth to you so beautifully that you played football for me." She was also obsessed with painting. , was also stopped by my father.
In her father's plan, Guo Biting's beauty is what God will reward her with, so she can film movies and commercials well, and when she gets old, she can just find a wealthy family to marry, and there is no need to develop other hobbies and interests.
This made Guo Biting fall into confusion and despair. She began to experience that sometimes the control of life is not in her own hands.
Therefore, faced with Xiang Taiās āselectionā, Guo Biting accepted the offer. It seems a bit unbelievable to the outside world that a beauty paired with a beast and stepped into the "cage" of a wealthy family, but it was the best decision that the 36-year-old Guo Biting could make for herself at the time.
She knows what she wants. She understands her own personality and trump card. Compared to the colorful entertainment industry, she prefers a quiet life surrounded by small animals, children, flowers and plants.
html Thinking about work, love, marriage and life at the age of 136 is the same as thinking about the same issues at the age of 26. People may have completely different perspectives and decisions. Guo Biting may be planning the next step in her life with the same thinking as when her father forcibly persuaded her to quit.
There are also many dissatisfactions after marriage. For example, Guo Biting clearly feels the difference between a man before and after marriage. She does not explain or argue when facing public opinion about marriage changes. Her stable little universe is still running and has little relationship with the outside world.
I can only say that God is fair. It gave Guo Biting some good cards, and this beautiful girl also made good use of the weight in her hand to get what she wanted most. It's definitely not perfect or complete, but it's enough for her.
On the other side, Xiang Zuo, who is also 40 years old, obviously has not seen his trump card clearly. He is still fighting and refusing to admit defeat...
Therefore, public sentiment will always be biased towards Guo Biting. One is no longer confused, and the other is still confused.
If we talk about the emotional value that Guo Biting can provide to ordinary people, perhaps it is the courage to respect her own personality and listen to her heart. Although she is an "almost" sister, she can just satisfy herself.
