"She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd

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'She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd  - Lujuba

"She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly appearance. , was ridiculed and reviled by the crowd, it was such a tragedy. "

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On the evening of April 20, 2024, singer Xu Meijing appeared on the hot search list. The key words are: Xu Meijing’s concert, the audience shouted for refund.

That night, Xu Meijing held a concert at the Wutaishan Stadium in Nanjing, named "'Dream' Xu Meijing Meet the Concert." This is the first offline concert held by Xu Meijing after May 2019. Many fans and ordinary audiences are full of expectations for it. Some people even came from abroad to attend the concert to realize their youth dreams.

But the scene that night was full of conditions. The biggest controversy of

is "the goods are not right". On the day of the performance, many of Xu Meijing's popular songs, such as "We Are All People Returning at Night" and "The Sunshine Always Comes After the Storm", were all performed in the form of full chorus, while songs such as "Spread" and "Regret" were performed in chorus. Completed by live guests and band members. Many spectators at the scene were very dissatisfied with this, and some people in the audience shouted "refund the ticket" and "substitute".

Another controversy concerns the duration of live interactions. An audience member said that Xu Meijing spent nearly an hour interacting with several fans in the audience, listening to them tell stories and talk about their youth. The interactive moderator was Xu Meijing's agent. There were many inappropriate questions and words used in his questions, which also made the audience slowly lose their patience during the long wait. Many netizens complained about this and said that they spent money to listen to the music and not to attend the tea party.

The most controversial scene in the entire performance was that when the audience shouted "Refund", many people heard Xu Meijing's manager shout "You are dreaming", which completely aroused the audience's resistance. mood. Afterwards, some spectators tore up the support banners and posters on the spot, while others simply left the scene. Some spectators in the front row even made uncivilized gestures in front of Xu Meijing. After the performance of

, on social media, dissatisfied audiences and onlookers jointly launched a denunciation of Xu Meijing. The performance was also called "a premeditated harvest of emotions." As the discussion increased, some of the conditions at the scene were described in many self-media headlines: Xu Meijing only sang 5 songs in the whole process, the interaction lasted for an hour and a half, and Xu Meijing sat on the stage the entire time. With...

Zhao Senhua (pseudonym) is a photographer. That night, he shuttled through different areas of the venue to take pictures. When chatting with People again about the situation on the day of the performance, he said that when the manager said, "You are dreaming," he was holding a camera to take pictures of Xu Meijing on the stage. The real situation at that time was that a fan in the audience took a The poster wanted Xu Meijing to sign it. As the host, the manager jokingly replied "You are dreaming" at an inappropriate time. Subsequently, this sentence completely amplified the conflict between the two parties at the scene. Afterwards, the live video recorded by the fans in the front row also confirmed this. a little.

According to Zhao Senhua, a total of 18 songs were sung that night. After the opening, Xu Meijing completed 5 solo songs. The sixth song "We Are All People Returning at Night" was sung by Xu Meijing with the whole audience. After that, The interaction lasted 30 minutes. During the second half of the interaction, some audience members began to complain. After the interaction, Xu Meijing came off the stage to change clothes. During the period, the violinist and the accompanist sang "Spread" and "Regret" respectively. When the third accompanist sang "Moonlight in the City", Xu Meijing came on stage again and finished with the audience. chorus. During this period, there were already some calls for "refunds" on the scene.

'She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd  - Lujuba

Zhao Senhua said that in the chaos at the scene, Xu Meijing also suffered a lot of disturbance. Later, while communicating with fans, she briefly had problems with the order of words and unclear voice. "In the next three choruses, she showed less energy." This is exactly what she was criticized for on the Internet. Most viral video clips.

But even so, according to the established arrangement, after the three choruses ended, the manager came on stage again for a 15-minute interaction. After the interaction, Xu Meijing sang 6 songs solo, and before the final encore track "Give Way", the relevant video of "Allure" was played live. Zhao Senhua said that during the entire performance, except for leading the audience to sing along, Xu Meijing sang 11 songs alone, and "99% of the time, she stood and sang."

As for why a performance ended in such a mess? Many fans have talked about one wording - meet and greet or concert? It is reported that during the preparation stage of the performance, many fans of Xu Meijing received information: This is a music meeting, and the original intention is to meet fans. However, in the future, on the ticket sales website, the definition of this performance was a "concert", and the ticket price was high, which ultimately led to the dissatisfaction of some ticket-buying audiences.

In addition, Zhao Senhua also mentioned a detail. Before the concert started, Xu Meijing's manager had launched a poll among the fans to ask the fans what songs they wanted to listen to. The fans tacitly avoided the popular songs. And several unpopular singles were selected - on the day of the performance, Xu Meijing did sing these unpopular singles solo.

However, the fact that the show collapsed has been irreversible. Emotions on social media are still fermenting. The comment area of ​​the ticketing platform is full of one-sided negative reviews. Some viewers asked the ticketing platform to refund their tickets, and many people called the Nanjing Culture and Tourism Bureau. Complaint phone number.

fan Mul’s mother (pseudonym) told People that she sat in the front row on the night of the Nanjing performance. She understood the dissatisfaction of the audience, “If you just want to listen to those popular songs, you will be very disappointed. The manager's low emotional intelligence, and the outsider musician actually sang a hit, which ruined the atmosphere of the scene. Some people were dissatisfied and understood. "But as a fan, she could also see Xu Meijing's helplessness and brokenness, "She was on stage. , unable to speak clearly, nervous and at a loss... I sat in the third row and called her name loudly, and got a response from her. She smiled beautifully, but there seemed to be no light in her eyes, which was heartbreaking. "

'She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd  - Lujuba

" Unable to shake her status"

Xu Meijing was born in an ordinary family in Singapore. Her father is a car repairman and her mother is an ordinary employee of a hardware company. Before entering the entertainment industry, she never thought of becoming a singer as a child. Her wish at that time was to become a flight attendant. In an interview with "Sing Chew Interview",

said that she was a bit rebellious when she was a girl, "she was so courageous", her parents were conservative and didn't like her being in public, so she did the opposite and signed up for a beauty pageant. After several rounds of competitions, Xu Meijing stood out with her unique temperament and won the titles of "Miss Friendship" and "Miss Photogenic" in the Miss Singapore Chinese Competition. It was 1992, when Xu Meijing was 18 years old.

A year later, Xu Meijing was admitted as a stewardess by Singapore Airlines. But not long after, she saw an advertisement "Looking for Superstars" in the newspaper and signed up. At that time, there were more than 800 candidates for this competition, and only one person could sign and debut. She sent a demo to the record company, successfully entered the re-examination, and had the opportunity to enter the recording studio. Standing there for the first time, Xu Meijing felt curious, "I really want to try it, what would it be like to sing in it?" ?”The person in charge of this star-hunting project of

is Chen Jiaming, the creator of the famous Singaporean band Metro. There are rumors that Chen Jiaming heard a ditty hummed by Xu Meijing when he was passing by the dressing room, and left a sentence: "Singapore will never find a voice as beautiful as yours." In 2000, Hong Kong host Li Zhishan was in When asked about this process on a radio program, Xu Meijing smiled and did not deny it.

In the end, Xu Meijing became the only one left.

After that, Xu Meijing gave up her job as a stewardess, signed with Jiahe Records, and officially began her several-year cooperation with Chen Jiaming.

'She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd  - Lujuba

In 1994, Xu Meijing's first solo album "Mingzhi" was released in Singapore and Malaysia. Four of the songs were written and written by Chen Jiaming himself.

Surprisingly, the response and reviews for this album were good.A year later, the album "Regret" that made Xu Meijing popular was released. A small episode is that in this album, "Moonlight in the City" was not favored by the company at the beginning. At that time, the company designated another song "Take Me Away" as the title song. They did not even plan to release "Moonlight in the City" as the title song. When shooting the MV for "Moonlight in the Moonlight", I only shot clips of Xu Meijing's performance that day, and finally edited it into a video.

But unexpectedly, "Moonlight in the City" and "Regret" were both hits, and promoted the sales of the entire album. In Taiwan, the album sold more than 200,000 copies. At that time, Xu Meijing's "Regret" and "Moonlight in the City" topped the list of FM933, Singapore's most famous and influential music list, for six consecutive months. Some news media described it this way: "No matter how hard other kings and queens in Hong Kong and Taiwan attack, they still can't shake her status."

At that time, at a celebration banquet, Xu Meijing took over four albums from the vice president of the record company. A small flag sign, she placed the small flag on a cake with a map of Asia. The four locations were Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan and Hong Kong.

In the next two years, Xu Meijing released two albums, "Everyone Returns at Night" and "Listen to 13 Wonderful Songs". The sales were higher than Andy Lau who released the album at the same time, and she was also called the "Killer Sister". Soon, Li Zongsheng's Rolling Stone Records issued an invitation to cooperate. Rolling Stone also sent people to Singapore six times to lobby Xu Meijing. But Xu Meijing declined politely. She thought about the reason carefully, "I only cooperate with Chen Jiaming. I like to work with him. He will accept other people's opinions and understands my music style and market taste."

Later, Xu Meijing It has also been a great success in Hong Kong. In 1997, Xu Meijing sang "Allure", written by Huang Weiwen and composed by Chen Jiaming. Today, more than 20 years later, this song is still considered a rare classic in Hong Kong music. Hong Kong host Li Zhishan once recalled that in 1998, Hong Kong TV station replayed the TV series "The Big Era" every night during prime time for a period of time, and the whole family stayed awake. Before the show started, the TV was playing the music video of Xu Meijing's "Knowingly". Later, Li Zhishan often heard Xu Meijing's singing, and what came to her mind was the image of Xu Meijing pacing alone in the room.

In the Mainland, Xu Meijing’s songs also represent the youth of many people. Singer Li Yuchun once said that when she was in middle school and high school, she listened to Xu Meijing's tapes repeatedly. Sometimes the battery ran out of power and the sound became smaller and smaller after listening to half of the song. She would quickly take out the battery, bite it twice, and then put it back. , listen to the song to the end.

Regarding the uniqueness of Xu Meijing, music critic @eardi commented: "It is impossible to imitate Xu Meijing. She has eliminated the shape of her voice and nakedly exposed the true nature of her voice. She is really cold in her heart. The reflection is as hard to grasp as the moonlight, and it is impossible to imitate. That is why it has been so unique for more than 20 years. It can reach people's hearts effortlessly and hear the voice of Xu Meijing singing this song again. The beauty of brightness and tranquility, incompleteness and perfection, dreams hanging high in the world and falling to the world, can never be replaced..."

'She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd  - Lujuba

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"Her voice is like a pair of hands, gently grabbing your person, making you want to cry. ” In the promotional copy of Xu Meijing’s first album, Chen Jiaming wrote that behind the singing is “Meijing’s innate neurosis, which teaches people to love and cherish her.”

Xu Meijing once talked about her childhood in an interview. She said that when she was a child, she lived in the countryside and often hid in a corner alone, observing other people's expressions and feeling their emotions. "Why would one person be jealous of another person?" "Why does a person get hurt?" She always remembered that when she was in a bad mood, she would run to stay under her mother's bed. At that time, Qi Yu's "Olive Tree" was playing in the room, and she listened to it over and over again. Then he fell asleep.

This kind of high sensitivity to the people and environment around her gives Xu Meijing a strong sense of perception and a delicate and direct expression ability, but at the same time, it also puts more pressure and consumption on her emotions and heart. .After

entered the entertainment industry, she went to Taiwan for promotion for the first time. In the hotel, she was on the verge of collapse and anxious because she couldn't tell the difference between shower gel and shampoo. She thought, "Don't come here again." "I thought to myself, Meijing "Are you sure you can do something in Taiwan? There are so many talents here," she said to herself.

In fact, how to gain fame in the flashy and noisy entertainment industry? In addition to talent and talent, you also need the ambition to fight and climb all the way and the strong nerves that can smooth out countless waves. But many people who have been in contact with Xu Meijing have said that she is too quiet and rarely fights for herself.

In the album copy written by Chen Jiaming to Xu Meijing, he mentioned: "Meijing is used to putting herself in an unimportant position: 'As long as they are happy.'"

once created "Happy and Guilty" Xu Changde, the musician of songs such as "If the Cloud Knows", has collaborated with Xu Meijing many times. His most profound memory about Xu Meijing is when they were in Singapore to shoot the MV and cover photo for "We Are Home at Night". Taiwan often releases records in winter, and the clothes the group brought were all winter clothes, and one year Singapore is hot all year round. Xu Meijing stood on Orchard Road wearing a winter coat. She didn't complain or ask for air conditioning during the whole process. She changed her clothes until the end of the shooting. The stylist told Xu Changde that the winter coat was soaked. Throughout the whole process, Xu Meijing was "as quiet as a tree."

'She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd  - Lujuba

As a creator, Xu Changde can also feel Xu Meijing’s sensitivity and uneasiness. “Meijing is actually very nice and kind, but she is also very sensitive and defensive about people, even when dealing with staff. She will keep her distance. No matter whether she is a man or a woman, she cannot touch her body. If you take a step forward, she will take a step back. "

But on the other side of Quiet and sensitive, Xu Meijing also has a kind of straightforwardness that is rare in the entertainment industry. In 1998, Xu Meijing filmed the movie "Three Men" directed by Du Kefeng. However, recalling the filming process, Xu Meijing bluntly said that the collaboration was not as pleasant as expected. During the filming, Du Kefeng wanted her to wear more revealing clothes. , she will also be asked to use some swear words to express the character, which are different from Xu Meijing's previous imagination. She said openly at the time: "I will not make another Dou Kefang movie."

She said that she cares more about her own experience at each stage of life than the numerous development opportunities. She wants to honestly Respect yourself, "If you don't pay attention to yourself, there will be no honesty in what you sing and what you express."

As more and more people know his name, his name was even once shared with Faye Wong It was mentioned that the quiet Xu Meijing was also suffering from unknown uneasiness and pain.

A reporter keenly discovered that after 1996, every album she released would have one or two fast-paced songs. Xu Meijing herself has also noticed this change. She explained, "The pace of life is faster, and the songs are also faster." During performances, she often sees some artists who are easily unhappy while sitting backstage. "The pace of this environment is very fast. Singing is a very emotional thing, but when it is very urgent, it becomes a kind of work." , a burden, a pressure. "

In 1998, Xu Meijing released a new album "Hao Meijing". When she was in the dressing room, reporters found her falling asleep two or three times while doing styling. After waking up, Xu Meijing said a little embarrassedly: "My new look is to sit there and wait for a new me to appear, letting them cut my hair, try on clothes, try again and again, and cut again and again."

sang It gradually became a hard job. Xu Meijing described: "Singing is dangerous for me, because in fact, many times, I am left alone, and I am very scared! I feel very uneasy and tired for a long time. No rest, not enough to eat, working all the time, like a slave. "

These changes made Xu Meijing want to escape. In 2000, she released the album "Static Electricity", which was her first album to try electronic music style and the last album of her current singing career.In the promotional poster for this album, she no longer had a simple short hair, but changed to an afro, with light smoky makeup, tight denim bell bottoms, and slender limbs. At that time, she was nearly 1.7 meters tall. Weighing less than 100 pounds. In the album's promotional program, she made a homemade collar out of denim and wore it around her neck, with veins looming.

During the filming of the "Static" MV, Xu Meijing and the staff went to a muddy grassland. She didn't dislike it at all. She happily said to the camera that her father had always lived in his ancestral house in the countryside. When he came home , she likes to step on the ground barefoot and jump around. She feels natural and unrestrained. After the song was released, the 26-year-old Xu Meijing chose to withdraw.

She went to live in Italy for a few years. In sporadic news, she described her departure this way, "I have always kept a low profile. I know everyone has been trying to contact me, but I don't want to actively contact them. I want to One day, everyone will meet, so let it be.

'She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd  - Lujuba

After the concert of "Crazy Woman" and "Happy Patient"

in Nanjing, among the voices of rights defenders expressing their dissatisfaction, an extremely harsh voice was always heard. In - Crazy Woman, on social networks, some viewers wrote that Xu Meijing had no ability to control the scene at all, "and she was also nagging." Netizens who had not been to the scene also followed suit and commented, "She is not crazy. Can we also hold a concert? ”

In this siege against Xu Meijing, the unspeakable mental crisis and stigmatized disease in her life have once again become a label for her to be criticized and attacked. Six years after

left the entertainment industry, in 2006, Xu Meijing once again appeared in the public eye as a hot figure. The headline of the entertainment news at that time was: The outdated queen went crazy in the hotel.

It was June 22, 2006. According to news descriptions, on that day, Xu Meijing followed a stranger into a hotel room in Singapore and shouted "call me god" to the stranger. She also broke into the guest's room and asked the guest to ask her kowtow.

But according to a friend who was next to Xu Meijing at the time, the real situation was that Xu Meijing and her friend were waiting for someone, and the man passed by and thought she was a prostitute. Xu Meijing was very angry about this and had a conflict with the other party. The man left after insulting Xu Meijing. Later, Xu Meijing found his room and wanted to seek justice. In the process, she suffered from auditory hallucinations. After

was taken away by the police, after examination by a doctor, Xu Meijing was diagnosed with schizophrenia and depression.

Later, Xu Meijing also frankly stated that she was indeed experiencing a mental crisis at the time and had already suffered from mental illness. The time when the incident occurred was the most serious time of her illness: "I always have auditory hallucinations and feel like someone is talking to me. , so he would do a lot of things that ordinary people can't understand."

Shortly after the "hotel incident", Xu Meijing received treatment in the hospital for 28 days. Xu Meijing once told the media that the treatment process was very cruel. She could clearly feel the electric current stimulating and passing through her body. This treatment process also caused Xu Meijing to lose some of her memory. "It was very nerve-wracking and some memories were gone." "

Regrettably, when the public talks about Xu Meijing again, whether in the real world or the online world, "mad woman" has become the strongest label on her, and few voices remember her former singing voice. How touching, and how few people worry about her health and life. In entertainment news and gossip forums, the most common discussion about her is speculation about "Why is Xu Meijing crazy?"

'She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd  - Lujuba

"Crazy Woman" has become a window for countless people to get to know Xu Meijing again. For a long time, labels such as "driven crazy by a scumbag", "mentally ill", and "living on the streets" closely followed Xu Meijing. When public opinion was at its peak, some media took photos of her with her hair down and waving her arms in the hotel lobby, claiming that she was crazy about love and that the object of her infatuation was Chen Jiaming.

For a long time, many media and the public have spread rumors that Xu Meijing's "madness" is related to Chen Jiaming. According to rumors, Xu Meijing is obsessed with Chen Jiaming, who is 10 years older than her. However, the other party already has a family. Xu Meijing has been waiting for a long time. , but has not been promised for a long time.A few years later, Chen Jiaming fell in love with a young assistant again. Xu Meijing was emotionally hurt because of this and had to leave the entertainment industry. The pain caused her to lose her mind.

He Hua, a famous writer in Singapore, also mentioned in an article: "Most of Xu Meijing's songs were written by Chen Jiaming. The emotional entanglement between the two not only fulfilled Xu's experience and voice, but also hurt her. It was a good relationship but also a bad relationship. As time passed, regrets and unhappiness became fate. Since it was fate, there were no regrets and unhappiness. "

But in fact, Xu Meijing has never admitted this relationship. She has also seriously stated in many interviews: "This is not the case at all. The reporter who reported this news never interviewed me."

Over the years, although she has been watched and discussed as a "crazy woman", Xu Meijing still She has been trying to return to the public eye with a healthy and relaxed attitude. As sensitive as she is, she has always used this method to show her magnanimity and strength.

In 2008, when attending the CCTV Mid-Autumn Festival Gala, Xu Meijing confessed that she was still taking antidepressant drugs. She calls herself a "happy patient" and lives a fulfilling life in Singapore. She has her own hobbies and continues to create and prepare new songs. She said that after suffering from mild memory loss, she took photos and drew pictures to help preserve some memories. In the past few years, she has taken many photos and is preparing to make a photo album for her fans.

In 2013, Xu Meijing participated in a mainland variety show for the first time. On the stage of "The Age Show", she wore a pink dress and smiled very sweetly. The host described Xu Meijing as "fading away for a long time", and the guests in the audience blamed her on how she could abandon her fans like this. She stated that she had lived a rich life in the past few years, reading, painting, and doing volunteer work. That was all.

Later, she created her own Weibo and started live streaming online. On the screen, she wore her hair down, put on dark red lipstick, and played and sang with a guitar. Only about 30 people watched the live broadcast, and no one interacted with her at all. Some people looked at the screenshot and commented, "Like a female ghost." After the live broadcast ended, Xu Meijing immediately logged out of her account.

But for music and the stage, Xu Meijing has always been sentimental. She said that for a long time, she missed interacting with her fans. Every week she would walk to Chinatown, where the Chinese in Singapore gather, and watch people eating at food stalls and drinking. The warmth and liveliness made her miss it. . She once told her fans that those few moments every time she stood on the stage were a great healing, "I feel like I am alive."

After the Nanjing turmoil, Xiao Hun, a self-media blogger, published an article about Xu Meijing. In the article, he recorded the only experience of watching Xu Meijing perform. He wrote: "That was the "Simple" performance in Shanghai in 2015. Life Festival", the venue was very small and open-air, with only a simple shed. It was raining, but she still sang for more than half an hour. Her physical condition was no longer what I remembered her as. She looked a little weak and tired, but she always had a faint smile on her face and greeted the audience from time to time, saying some simple but sincere blessings. "

But she was only close to Xu Meijing. Only people know what she is going through physically and mentally when she steps on the stage again - Zhao Senhua told People that the first time he met Xu Meijing was in 2016. At that time, Xu Meijing was opening a music festival in Jiangsu, and Zhao Senhua went to He said that at that time, he could clearly feel Xu Meijing's hand shaking and shrinking back.

'She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd  - Lujuba

The light disappeared

After experiencing the chaos and hustle and bustle of the Nanjing scene, many Xu Meijing’s fans mentioned the performance that was also held in Nanjing in 2019.

Zhao Senhua remembers that it was May 18, 2019, also at Wutaishan Stadium, Xu Meijing held the only fan meeting in the mainland called "Interlaced Lights". The market response at that time exceeded the expectations of many fans. All the tickets were sold out and it was hard to find a ticket. The price increased by about 1.5 times. "The 980 yuan ticket was finally bought from a scalper, probably between 1,500 and 1,900." " Zhao Senhua said.

That time, Zhao Senhua got the ticket.That night, Xu Meijing had to sit down to finish singing many times due to her poor health, but the fans didn't mind. In the sea of ​​lights, fans waved cheering sticks, and everyone sang together, singing for the beautiful Xu Meijing in their hearts. Recalling that night, Zhao Senhua choked up, "Everyone gathered together, just like the intertwined lights in the night sky."

Unfortunately, this time, also in Nanjing, the light seemed to be completely extinguished. What is even more regrettable is that to this day, whether in the audience or on the Internet, many people still point their anger at Xu Meijing, condemning her consumption sentiments and deceiving consumers. In "Regret" NetEase In the cloud music comment area, a latest message read: "There is a group of idiots in the audience. They are full of blood and shouting for me to sing, but I can't make a sound."

Seeing Xu Meijing in such a predicament, Many people who are familiar with her began to speak out for Xu Meijing, trying to tell everyone what kind of person Xu Meijing is.

singer Liu Wei once recorded on Weibo that the two met on "Golden Melody" in 2018. Unexpectedly, the two met on another show 6 years later. Xu Meijing clearly called his name and the show ended. Later, I wrote him a letter, "This is all beyond my expectation."

In the article supporting Xu Meijing, the first sentence written by Xu Changde, who has collaborated with her on six albums, is : I believe Xu Meijing.

Xu Changde said: "I have never seen her do anything for fame and fortune... In fact, since she retired from the music scene in 2000, there have been several times in the past 20 years that many people have wanted to use me to get her to act in commercials. Her reply She could only sing a few songs, and most of them refused outright. Until a few years ago, Wong Kar-Wai invited her to sing the theme song for the movie "The Grandmaster." In Xu Changde's view, the rebuke of Xu Meijing's greed for profit was completely unfounded. It's illogical, because "in recent years, classic songs from the 1990s have become very popular in the market. As long as she nods and is willing to sing a song in any variety show, her income will be more than this concert."

Zhao Senhua also remembers that in 2019, Xu Meijing's music meeting in Nanjing was "unprecedented". Fans from other places hoped that she could join the show and visit more cities. But in the end, Xu Meijing gave up considering her physical condition. An extra scene.

In March this year, at Li Yuchun's concert, Xu Meijing appeared as a guest singer and sang "Regret". While chatting on stage, Li Yuchun wanted to help Xu Meijing promote the music meeting in April, so he asked her: "Did you forget something?" Xu Meijing looked at Li Yuchun steadily and said with a smile: " Happy birthday."

'She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd  - Lujuba

In the end, it was Li Yuchun who took the initiative to say that Xu Meijing would have a music meeting in a while. He hoped that the fans watching the live broadcast would also know this news. Only then did Xu Meijing understand the intention of Li Yuchun's question. She smiled. She blushed, but she didn't take the initiative to mention her concert until the end.

Xu Changde said that Xu Meijing is a person who does not explain much for herself. Therefore, at the end of this article written for Xu Meijing, Xu Changde directly named the planning company of this performance, "I hope that for her The company that planned this concert can deal with consumers sincerely... I hope that in the future, this commercial performance company will face its own unprofessionalism professionally."

Regarding the Nanjing performance controversy, Xu Meijing. The management team also responded afterwards. The explanation they gave was that they underestimated the audience's expectations to hear the original singer sing classics. They did not expect that the interactive session would be too lengthy for some audiences and will make adjustments in the future. However, due to the audience's dissatisfaction with this explanation, a new round of condemnation has also taken place again - the latest news shows that Xu Meijing's concert originally scheduled to be held in Wuhan on May 25 has been announced to be cancelled.

Regarding this, Xiao Hun also expressed his helplessness. In an article on his public account, he wrote, "She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she was responsible for most of it. Criticisms and accusations... It's really tragic that a singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up leaving the show in such an unseemly way, being ridiculed and scolded by the crowd. "He was also worried about Xu Meijing's condition." If she understands her current situation, will it make her condition worse and cause a devastating blow? "

In the noisy public opinion field, not many people still care about what the facts are. Take this opportunity. Chasing hot topics to vent their emotions, and once again watching the past of Xu Meijing as a "crazy woman", obviously has more traffic - during this turmoil, in September 2019, Xu Meijing held playing cards on the streets of Singapore and announced that she would be separated from her family and Chen The photo of Jiaming severing all ties once again made the headlines of countless entertainment self-media. In the comment area, the most hotly discussed topic is still "Why did Xu Meijing go crazy because of love?"

In fact, during this performance in Nanjing, Xu Meijing frankly mentioned the illness. She said that she fell ill again after returning to Singapore after the concert in 2019. Then, she said the most important thing during the Nanjing performance. Words that should be remembered: "If I still have the ability to survive, I hope I can still sing for everyone."

However, it seems that not many people have heard this sentence, and not many people remember this sentence - just In recent years, few people have really cared about Xu Meijing.

'She was used, manipulated, and squeezed out of the last bit of residual value, and then she bore most of the criticism... A singer with such a cold, distant, and noble temperament ended up with such an unseemly, It’s such a tragedy to leave the show in such a way that the crowd  - Lujuba

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1, Exclusive Interview|Xu Meijing: It’s incredible to be able to come out of the world of schizophrenia, The Paper

2, Single Women’s Camp, Broadcasting

3, Taose News - Xu Meijing’s Happy Innocence Radio Interview

4, Duet " "Moonlight in the City" Xu Meijing: I feel very lucky as I went back to the past, Lianhe Zaobao

5, Xu Meijing: The company was not optimistic about "Moonlight in the City" back then, Lianhe Zaobao

6, He Hua: Such a quiet beauty, Lianhe Zaobao

7, Xu Meijing : We are all people who return home at night in the city, Xingzhou Exclusive Interview with

8, [Daxi Exclusive] Xu Meijing is not singing on the street! She was asking for help on the street, Daxi Entertainment

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