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Originally, because of my grandma’s death, I was very depressed, and Aunt Liu was very aggrieved by Mai Chenghuan’s various persecutions in the name of love. However, when I saw Yao Zhiming and Mai Chenghuan’s “bubble kiss” on the bus, I was so excited. shout out.
knew that their official match would be together, but he didn't expect that it would happen so quickly at this time.
Mai Chenghuan expresses his love openly and turns his head to kiss her.
His face is shy, like Yao Zhiming, a young boy who has just discovered his love.
This is obviously not the first time he has fallen in love, but he still gives people a sense of sweetness and first love.
This kind of satisfaction that is filled with happiness on the face because of love is something that could not be seen on Mai Chenghuan's face. To be precise, it was something that could not be seen when he was with Xin Jialiang. It only belongs to love. appearance.
Mai Chenghuan will ask Yao Zhiming for help because of a quarrel with her mother, will share the joy of love with her best friends, and will openly admit her relationship in front of her friends.
But all this seems to have never happened when I was with Xin Jialiang.
Think about it carefully. She was with Yao Zhiming just after they broke up. Xin Jialiang also contributed to Mak Chenghuan's "Transfer of Love"
Three years of unwillingness
Even if a relationship breaks up, you will always miss the love of the past. After Mak Chenghuan and Xin Jialiang officially broke up, they were not reluctant to give up, but more unwilling to give up.
We have been in love for 3 years, and all we have left is that we are not willing to give in.
Why didn’t I realize in my wonderful youth that Xin Jialiang was a “shrinking tortoise” who could only run away and hide when things happened.
No matter how much emotion there is, it will be wasted in the infighting between the two families.
Mai Chenghuan's feelings for Xin Jialiang, in my opinion, are more of a relationship of "more than friendship, not enough love".
Look at the way Mai Chenghuan and Yao Zhiming get along together. They are sweet and dependent. They exude the sour smell of love. This is the correct way to open love. On the contrary, when I think back to when Mai Chenghuan and Xin Jialiang were together, they felt more like playmates and "nannies" who took care of their daily lives.
Life is not on the same frequency, so how can feelings be on the same frequency? In the end, one-sided efforts only moved myself and made me feel aggrieved.
Mai Chenghuan’s entire bag was filled with her boyfriend’s things, such as power banks, stain remover pens, etc., all prepared to take care of Xin Jialiang.
Even when the other party had no money to play games, he borrowed money from Mai Chenghuan.
This is not about having a boyfriend, he is clearly a man, right?
Therefore, it is not difficult to understand that after three years of relationship, in the end there was only a word of "unwillingness" without any love.
It's okay to be friends, but if it comes to marriage, Xin Jialiang is definitely not a suitable person for Mai Chenghuan.
Emotional compatibility
Love is about feeling, but also about suitability, which is also called emotional compatibility
What love is about is never the rich family background of the other person, but also how two people feel when they are together. However, it is not easy to meet someone with the same emotional compatibility. As Mai Chenghuan said, relationships are like opening a blind box. You never know what you will get next.
Life is also a blind box experience. You will always meet all kinds of people around you, and you don’t know who will be the one to accompany you all the way.
And often, only some lucky people can meet the right person in life and spend a lifetime together.
Grandma found it, but unfortunately my wife left first.
And now, Yao Zhiming has also found the right person for him.
At first, I was still lamenting that Mai Chenghuan fell in love with Yao Zhiming too quickly!
However, looking back and looking at the girls Yao Zhiming has dated, it is not without reason that he can be with Mai Chenghuan.
Yao Zhiming had many girlfriends before, and was ridiculed by Ho Tung for this. He was very kind to every "ex". He not only introduced people to jobs, but also helped them many times.
does not force feelings, let nature take its course, and break up peacefully with every passer-by. Adult love, love or not, can come freely.
This kind of generosity in emotions, free and easy without being sloppy, to be honest, Xin Jialiang was completely defeated from the beginning.
will only say "I'm sorry" when encountering problems, act coquettishly, try to muddle through, avoid the problem, and leave the mess to Mai Chenghuan alone.
Forget it once, it will happen every time, and everyone will be tired.
Mai Chenghuan looks weak on the outside but strong on the inside, but no matter how strong the heart is, there are times when it is fragile.
It’s like when the rebate sheet was made public during the bidding process. Xin Jialiang abandoned Mak Chenghuan in public and ran away. He hid alone without facing her and left his girlfriend alone. The moment he turned around and left was really chilling. .
has neither the responsibilities of a man nor the thoughtfulness of a boyfriend, so it’s okay not to want such a partner.
There is no comparison. I really don’t know how useless Xin Jialiang is.
Mai Chenghuan also encountered difficulties. After they got together, Yao Zhiming did not stand idly by and let her face it alone. Instead, the two of them worked together to overcome difficulties, whether it was quarrels between family and mother, or troubles at work. He is always there for her, her punching bag, and the tree hole where she listens to her troubles.
This is the meaning between lovers. It can provide the correct emotional value to the other party. This is companionship and love. In my opinion, the advantages of
are obvious.
Don't think about it, if Mak Chenghuan were to choose again, he would definitely choose Yao Zhiming instead of Xin Jialiang.
Love attracts
Yao Zhiming and Mak Chenghuan are together. In my opinion, it is no surprise that they have reached this point.
After all, Xin Jialiang, the "reverse predecessor"
, has clear goals in life, and knows how to plan and plan in career. They are two similar people, and they are also attracted to each other.
Yao Zhiming envied Mai Chenghuan's loving family. Even though it was noisy and noisy, he still saw his mother's love, his father's concern, and his younger brother's protection. These were things Yao Zhiming had never felt before, or even felt. Live the warmth of family.
This is also the reason why Mai Chenghuan attracts Yao Zhiming. Only when his family is full of love can he know how to love someone now. Yao Zhiming saw the shadow of happiness in Mai Chenghuan and was deeply attracted.
Together they are like two magnets with positive and negative poles, looking at each other from a distance, but always intersecting at a certain moment.
But it is undeniable that the reason why Mai Chenghuan got together with Yao Zhiming so quickly was because of Xin Jialiang's encouragement.
If this ex had not been used as a "negative example", Mak Chenghuan would not have known that her feelings for Yao Zhiming were true love. When
was with Xin Jialiang, he didn't feel the sweetness that love should have, and he worried about his ex who had never grown up every day.
However, when you are with Yao Zhiming, you can feel very happy even if you do nothing. This happiness is the courage and belief to go on for a lifetime.
So, looking at it this way, Xin Jialiang also contributed to Mak Chenghuan's "Transfer of Love". Only by leaving the wrong person can we wave to good love and the right person.
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