"I just like to be more sincere and less clichéd. I have low emotional intelligence. How can I understand it with just a few words?"
Back then, Zhao Liying participated in a variety show and was nicknamed "Zhao Xiaodao", and was also labeled as someone with "low emotional intelligence". Zhao Liying thinks it is too hasty to define her as a person with low emotional intelligence based on just a few clips. When
mentioned this incident again, the host Ke Lan asked Zhao Liying if she felt wronged and angry. Zhao Liying's answer did not blame anyone who labeled her, but reflected on it.
"It's more about feeling that I'm not good enough and wanting to do better."
I often think about my own mistakes, but this doesn't apply to everyone.
It is suitable for people with strong internal drive. This kind of people mainly focus on one thing: if they have something, they will change it, and if they don’t have it, they will encourage it. She will not suffer from internal friction, understand where she really needs improvement, and will start improving the points that need improvement.
Zhao Liyingshu belongs to the latter.
Recently, with the finale of "Walking with the Phoenix", Zhao Liying's forehead has been frequently searched. Among them, two hot searches aroused my desire for expression.
The first one is, "You are the most successful."
The second one is that Zhao Liying's umbrella has supported one person after another.
These two items are all based on Zhao Liying's "gangster-like progress", which is not problematic in itself, but I personally think that the most worthy item is: her power, female power.
In 2017, Zhao Liying tore open those negative comments one by one in "Starry Sky Speech" like tearing scars: the director called her like a pig's mouth, and some people ridiculed her that she could only play a maid for the rest of her life, with a rustic temperament and a fashion insulator.
These negative reviews did not repel Zhao Liying.
instead aroused her fighting spirit: OK, if you say I can’t do it, then I must do it!
Zhao Liying, it does work.
You said that I can’t play a heroine with a round face, but I have to play a heroine that makes people applaud.
If you say that I have low emotional intelligence, then I will talk less. I will not participate in variety shows and focus on acting. I will let my works speak for themselves.
So, there are Ming Lan in "Know or Not", He Xingfu in "Happiness Comes to Ten Thousands of Houses", Xu Banxia in "Wind Blowing Pinellia", and Shen Li in "Walking with the Phoenix".
Judging from the commonalities between these roles, Zhao Liying's choice of scripts and roles are completely inconsistent with her expectations for female characters in "Starry Sky Speech".
"I don't want female characters to always be stuck in petty love affairs, always fighting for men, and depending on men. I hope they can have richer thoughts and actively pursue their beliefs." The translation of
's words is : Women can have love, but it is a snack, not a staple food. The staple food is to be financially and spiritually independent, have a clear life plan and strong execution ability.
Zhao Liying comes from a grassroots background.
When she was in technical secondary school, she definitely received less acting guidance than those in majors, but now her acting skills are as good as those in majors, and even far surpass those of some actors in majors.
My favorite sentence in the entire "Starry Sky Speech" is when Zhao Liying said firmly: "Don't let me seize the opportunity. Once I have it, I will seize it with all my strength."
Now she will play the best out of a pair of bad cards. Zhao Liying was so shocked that she personally told those women who were struggling in the mud with bad cards like her: "Fate gives you a lower starting point than others. It wants to tell you that you can use your whole life to strive for success." A story of a desperate counterattack. "
"The Ferryman" has this question: If destiny is a lonely river, who will be the ferryman of your soul?
The answer is: yourself
Perhaps, "When I can't stand it anymore, I often want to find a place to rely on, but no matter how I look for it, I will find that some mountains are covered with thorns, and some mountains are full of wild beasts, so you should be that person." A mountain. "
That's right, the most indestructible backer for you and me is only yourself.
