People who are at peace with themselves are really attractive.
Recently, Guo Qilin said in the variety show "The Three of Us" that he has no hobbies, which aroused the resonance of many netizens: "I have no hobbies, which is very annoying."
I feel that if someone likes something, oh, it feels very good to them. There is pursuit, but I don’t.
Regarding Mao Buyi's hobby of watching football, Guo Qilin said bluntly: "Watching football is a hobby that can't bring me anything."
From this sentence, Wei Daxun instantly understood Guo Qilin's point: Guo Qilin subconsciously , believes that no matter what you do, you need to feel that it is rewarding and meaningful.
"It doesn't mean that you need to do meaningful things all the time, then you can't. Everyone is doing meaningful things every minute and every second. Look at me, my life will always be meaningful, no How is that possible when things are like that?"
Hearing this, Guo Qilin used the action of bending down to pick up things to relieve the emotions that were poked and warmed by Wei Daxun, and then followed Wei Daxun's words: "Don't think too much. Utilitarianism, thinking too much about everything must be meaningful and everything done must be useful.”
The topic of everything must be meaningful has led to two waves of discussions among netizens. The first wave of
resonates with Guo Qilin.
"Every time I have free time, I feel very decadent if I don't do something. I hope to do something meaningful, otherwise I feel like I am wasting my time and will be internally consumed."
"I like to spend money, but I don't have much money, and I don't have much else. I don’t have any hobbies. ”
“I don’t have any hobbies. There is nothing meaningful that can make me happy.”
“I have been too anxious since I was a child. I feel that it is very evil to lie down.”
The second wave, I feel that Wei Daxun and Qin Lan are so good.
"We are worthy of being matched with Qin Lan, and our views are very similar."
"Wei Daxun and Qin Lan are in good condition."
"Wei Daxun and Qin Lan are a perfect match, and the emotional value of both of them is full!"
I have watched "Hua'er" Audiences of "With the Youth" all know how valuable Qin Lan's emotions are. Her golden words can really cure your current depression.
While eating, Reba accidentally knocked down the coke, and the coke bubbled up. Everyone screamed. Reba, who had made the mistake, nervously covered the coke and thought about what to do.
Suddenly a word came into his ear: "Happy New Year! This is a celebration, it feels like fireworks."
This sentence made Reba instantly feel relieved and laugh. It was Qin Lan who said it.
Reba said that Qin Lan is like a support and she will give him a lot of emotional help.
Qin Lan, who is emotionally stable, made netizens say that Huang Xiaoming missed the treasure girl after all.
Qin Lan’s spiritual core is so strong that when faced with any unexpected events, she can methodically solve the low energy that may exist around her with humorous language.
Regarding friction and conflicts, she said -
"People and people It's normal to have friction and conflicts when getting along. If you don't have conflicts, how can you know where the bottom line is? It's normal to make mistakes. No one makes mistakes. Everyone wants me to find a partner who is a perfect fit. No, there is no such thing. There are only screws. The factory has it, but people don’t, so you have to believe in the power of belief."
Regarding interpersonal communication, she said -
"No matter whether you are familiar with it or not, problems will occur or problems must be solved, but the most important thing is communication. Effective communication, after communication, everyone will get closer and closer."
Regarding internal friction, she said -
"Every one of us can shine for ourselves, just like stars, some people may see it, and some people may see it. No, some people can understand it, and some people can't understand it. We can't make everyone like us, but just shine for yourself. "
Yes, just shine for yourself in this life.
So, it doesn’t matter whether we have hobbies or not, and whether hobbies have meaning or not. Our presence on this planet has a meaning in itself.
