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People often understand what the words "too late to regret" feel like after they have lost something. Why did
go there so long ago? Why didn’t you know how to cherish it in the first place?
Regret, what's the use.
In terms of relationships, as an emotional counselor, I have warned many young people: Never hurt the person who loves you very much. You have let her down many times and you are used to it, but one day you will regret it. and. No one will always pamper you and wait for you to grow up. Time has passed, and if you lose it, it is lost. You can never find her again. Sometimes once you lose her, you will pass her by for the rest of your life, and there will never be any intersection again.
In the variety show "Infinite Transcendence Class", Ji Lingchen responded positively to Cengkan Qingzi's popularity. He said with tears that this was the truth. How could he be here without her.
"It's because I didn't and couldn't feel how fragile being an actor is. I didn't know how to understand her or what it felt like. So at that time, I was more selfish and arrogant and didn't think about it. She feels like a clown living in her own world. In fact, I am really grateful to her. Without her, my mother would not be here, so I am very grateful for her presence in my life for four years. It was wonderful. I like the sea, I have liked you, this sentence is also very romantic, these are all true."
He also said: I feel sorry for Kan Qingzi, and at the same time I want to tell her, I wish you happiness.
Ji Lingchen's attitude this time was quite sincere. I didn't think it was fake, but rather real. After all, Ji Lingchen's own acting skills were not that good. His true feelings must have been revealed!
Kan Qingzi and him can be regarded as separated from each other, and they are happy.
We might as well compare the situation between the two of them after they broke up: Kan Qingzi was not affected by anything, he regrouped and worked hard in his career, and then he agreed to her boyfriend's proposal last year. If there are no surprises, Kan Qingzi should be getting married soon. . Ji Lingchen has been called a scumbag since the breakup, and his career has gone downhill. He has also fallen in love, but in the past few years, whenever he appears, netizens criticize and abuse him. Ji Lingchen's face still changed, and he no longer had the same look as before when he was with Kan Qingzi.
In fact, everyone will age. Sometimes, don’t overestimate your age advantage. After so many years, hasn’t Ji Lingchen turned into a greasy uncle? Kan Qingzi is five years older than Ji Lingchen, but so what, he is still young and beautiful now.
has a saying that is right: after the breakup, Ji Lingchen could never find a girl as good as Kan Qingzi. Back then, Kan Qingzi loved him so much and took care of him. Everyone saw it. She wholeheartedly waited for him to propose marriage. As long as Ji Lingchen made that move, Kan Qingzi would get married immediately. It's a pity that Ji Lingchen was too naive at the time. He couldn't see the goodness of Kan Qingzi. He just felt that he was still young and there was no need to be in such a hurry to get married. In the final analysis, I still don’t love
that much, so I missed it.
A blessed girl does not enter the door of unblessed people. It is not a bad thing for two people to be separated. It only means that you two are not suitable for each other.
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Kan Qingzi once appeared on a program, "My Girlfriend". At that time, she and Ji Lingchen had broken up for two years.
"Not getting married means not loving, but many boys will think that when I get married, I must have a house and a car. When I earn more than you, when I can afford to support you, I will marry you again, but if I earn more How much is too much? Material conditions are just excuses. You can get married and raise a child no matter what. How much does a marriage certificate cost now? It’s still ninety-nine yuan. They won’t give me the certificate for ninety-nine yuan. It’s just a matter of a few dollars. I don’t care about material conditions. In fact, for me, marriage is just a commitment to companionship.”
These words spoken by Kan Qingzi can really touch the hearts of many women today.
Some girls really want to get married, but their boyfriends always use material conditions to shirk it, "Wait a moment, I don't have the money to marry you yet." Are they really unable to afford it? I still haven’t had enough fun at all and don’t want to enter married life.
has been in love for a long time, but has never been willing to enter marriage. In the final analysis, I still love myself more.
Kan Qingzi knows this very well, otherwise he would not have resolutely broken up with Ji Lingchen. How long will it take to wait? They have been in love for a long time, but they have been reluctant to get married. Kan Qingzi is older than Ji Lingchen, and accompanying him It kept him young for several years, but in the end it was gone with the wind.
Not loving is the answer. The so-called inability to get married due to material conditions are all excuses.
This is also a reminder for girls in love: If you have been in love for many years and you have mentioned to your partner many times that you want to get married, but he always refuses and takes no action, then you should consider whether you should break up. He can afford it, but you may not be able to afford it. If he really loves you, he won't keep saying no. It's better to see clearly the love between you, whether you love it or not, and how much you love it, you actually know it very well in your heart.
Sometimes it's not a bad thing to be separated. The two of you have been stuck in the same place and are at odds with each other. It's better to separate and find another one. Isn’t it just that a few years of youth have been wasted? But if you don’t press the stop button, how long do you want to be delayed?
Is love for the purpose of marriage?
I think so, and I agree with the saying that we should enjoy love, but aren’t we still rushing to get married in the end? If you can't marry the other person, then it's better to make it clear in advance and don't waste each other's time.
It's quite sad to talk about love. I have paid a lot, but in the end there is no result. Although I like it very much, I can only break up. The meaning of marriage is the companionship of commitment and love. Maybe you have never wanted to be with me in your future life.
Kan Qingzi has talked about topics related to marriage more than once.
Before she broke up with Ji Lingchen, she once participated in a show and said: "If a man doesn't want to marry you, he doesn't love you enough."
Liu Tao also asked them in "Dear Inn" when they planned to get married. Kan Qingzi said, "He is not ready yet. He thinks he must have a house and a car before he can marry me."
But a few years later, even Kan Qingzi himself knew that if he wanted to marry you, his material conditions would not be sufficient. It's not an excuse, especially for a girl who really loves you, as long as you simply propose marriage, she may get married quickly.
just doesn't want or love you. He only thinks about himself and doesn't care about your feelings.
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Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi have been together for a long time. It has been eight years since
broke up in 2018. As long as Ji Lingchen appears, everyone will still think of Kan Qingzi. Maybe everyone is very sorry for their relationship. They feel that it is a pity that they were together for many years and then loved each other so much, but finally separated. Also because Ji Lingchen has been very popular on the Internet during this period, his participation in "Infinite Transcendence Class" caused a lot of embarrassments, and even Kan Qingzi was on the hot search.
wins the grandson, it’s been 800 years since we broke up, and I’m still being searched for by my ex from time to time.
However, both of them have long since become a thing of the past, and Ji Lingchen, who cannot learn to cherish, will only regret his life.
Cherish the person who loves you and treats you well. Don’t take his kindness to you as a habit, because no one will always be kind to you, so you still have to be grateful.
Those who know how to cherish will last forever, and those who don’t know how to cherish can only miss each other.
There is nothing to regret. It is all your own choice and destiny.
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