TV series " Little Days ", attracted a lot of "hate" as soon as he appeared. If we talk about Zhang Shanya, the mother-in-law of Gu Moli (played by Tong Yao ), she originally had a lot to complain about. Then the appearance of Zhu Dali completely diverted the audience's "firepower". In front of Zhu Dali, the things about his mother-in-law were nothing more than minor problems.
Zhu Dali is a very traditional middle-aged man, especially the aspect of "macho chauvinism", which he has almost taken to the extreme. Before Zhu Dali retired, he was a "little leader" with sesame and mung beans. He had tasted the sweetness of power. Therefore, he has always had a mysterious self-confidence in him. He feels that he is like a "savior" who can guide the world.
There are many details in the plot, which illustrate that he feels that he has nowhere to display his talents and urgently needs to prove his ability in front of the world. Whether it's setting up family rules or trying to teach your granddaughter's teacher, there is no doubt that they want to show off their abilities. After Zhu Dali retired, he no longer had power in his hands. The only people he can control are his lifelong wife Zhang Shanya and his son and daughter-in-law.
Gu Moli's mother-in-law, in the eyes of today's young people, it may be strange for a woman to be so afraid of her husband and to be ordered around by her husband. However, given the social background of their time, there were not a few women who were oppressed by "macho chauvinism". My mother-in-law has long regarded all of this as truth in her deep-rooted traditional thinking.
The mother-in-law actually has a good heart, but she is used to treating her daughter-in-law the same way. This is actually where many problems tend to arise between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The ideological conflict between the two generations is inevitable after all. However, the root of their family's problems does not come from their mother-in-law, but from their father-in-law Zhu Dali. As long as they can cure Zhu Dali, both the mother-in-law and Gu Moli's marital crisis can be solved.
It seems that the men should be changed here, but in fact, the women in the play should be changed the most. The focus is on the awakening of women. Gu Moli's smartest way is not to confront her mother-in-law, but to find a way to get her mother-in-law to unite with her. The mother-in-law is actually reasonable. Although she has some mistakes, her starting point is definitely to hope that her son and daughter-in-law can live well. For seven years, a mother-in-law has worked hard to help her son and daughter-in-law with housework and take care of household chores. She is definitely not a selfish person.
My mother-in-law took care of Zhu Dali all her life, and she also had to take care of her son, and finally she had to help take care of her granddaughter. Therefore, my mother-in-law subconsciously felt that the value of her life was to only take care of others. In fact, Gu Moli can make her mother-in-law realize that women no longer need to depend on men. Women are also independent individuals. Marriage is only a way for women to pursue happiness, not the only way. Gu Moli's mother is a good example. In fact, her mother-in-law also subconsciously envied Gu Moli's mother. Otherwise, the defense will not be broken just because of a bag.
The reason why my mother-in-law has endured humiliation for so many years is that she believes in her heart that only by obeying Zhu Dali can the family be stable and complete. She even thinks that the most important thing for a woman is to support her husband and raise children. After she learned that Gu Moli had divorced her son, her attitude towards her mother-in-law was to persuade Gu Moli to look back. She felt that a divorced woman felt as if the sky had fallen.
In fact, the mother-in-law did not realize that her marriage to Zhu Dali was not that she needed Zhu Dali, but that Zhu Dali needed her. Now his son Zhu Jincao has already married and started a business. If her mother-in-law can stand on her son's side, Zhu Dali will be left alone. The reason why Zhu Dali was able to suppress his son was because his wife was willing to obey him.
If my mother-in-law wakes up one day, she will know that Zhu Dali's views and actions are wrong. If she can bravely resist her husband, then she can really save this family that is on the verge of being broken up.Zhu Dali is good at using moral kidnapping to control his son. He even wants to use this 50-square-meter house to make his son and daughter-in-law obey him. This is why he refused to let the woman pay, life or death. If the woman paid, he would lose his absolute right to speak.
However, if the mother-in-law is willing to change and come out to support her son, her absolute right to speak will be invalidated. As long as Zhu Jincao can get the support of his mother, Zhu Dali will not label him as unfilial. As long as Zhu Dali has no one to control him, he will be a polished commander, and he will be completely unable to make waves. In short, it seems that Zhu Dali is difficult to defeat, but in fact, as long as Zhang Shanya makes a slight move, he is not afraid. Never underestimate any woman. I believe that Zhang Shanya will make changes for her son, and it will be just around the corner for her and Gu Moli to join forces.
