Text | Zhao Caimiao
Editor | Xiang Wanwan
"Son, you are not suitable, I advise you to break up!"
In 2014, Batu went home and confessed to Song Dandan that he and actor Wang Bogu were together, and Song Dandan categorically objected. .
When it comes to Song Dandan, I believe many people are familiar with it.
Song Dandan is a well-known artistic performer and a national first-class drama actor in the Beijing People's Art Drama.
She has appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage many times and starred in classic hit dramas such as "Family with Children", "Kintaro's Happy Life" and "Li Chuntian's Spring". She has won numerous well-known awards and is deeply loved by the people.
Outsiders know that she has a son Batu who is held in the palm of her hand.
It stands to reason that parents should be very happy when their son brings his girlfriend home. Why is Song Dandan so opposed to his son's relationship?
What did the actor Wang Bogu do to make Song Dandan so disgusted with .
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Wang Bogu was born in Beijing in 1983. She is an authentic Beijing girl.
She has a simple and straightforward personality, and she will work hard to pursue whatever she likes.
Therefore, she dreamed of becoming an actress since she was a child.
My parents were opposed to it at first because they felt that the entertainment industry was like a big dye vat and they were afraid that their daughter would get caught in it.
"Study hard and don't talk about unrealistic things all day long!"
Due to his parents' opposition, Wang Bogu had to temporarily put aside his dream of being an actor and enter the journalism department of Chongqing University.
But despite this, the seed of acting is still firmly rooted in her heart, waiting for the opportunity to break out.
Although he studied journalism, Wang Bogu still did not forget his dream of being an actor, and he went to the set to join the show whenever he had time.
uses his spare time to act. Over time, not only can he gain a sense of presence in various crews, but he can also hone his acting skills. In this regard, Wang Bogu is smart.
Opportunities always come to those who are prepared.
Wang Bogu's outstanding performance in the TV series "Landing, Please Turn On" was noticed by Haiqing . After
, Hai Qing introduced her to director Teng Huatao . With her solid acting skills, she got a chance to perform in the TV series "Wang Gui and Anna".
This also left a deep impression on Director Teng Huatao.
In 2011, Wang Bogu had accumulated several years of acting skills and was selected by director Yu Chun to star in the TV series "Li Chuntian's Spring".
It seems that there is God's will in the dark. Wang Bogu met Song Dandan's son Batu in this drama. This is where the story of the two
people begins.
02
Although Wang Bogu and Batu met in a drama, Wang Bogu did not notice the humble Batu at first.
The real encounter between the two of them was really accidental.
Once Wang Bogu was playing games in the lounge, Batu, who was good at games, couldn't help but give Wang Bogu some pointers.
Wang Bogu looked up and saw that it was Batu.
Later, Wang Bogu recalled the scene when the two met and said with a smile:
"At that time, I just thought this person was so stupid."
Afterwards, the two of them kept in touch, and their relationship gradually warmed up.
Sometimes fate is like destiny.
Wang Bogu and Batu Gang met on the set of "Li Chuntian's Spring" after finishing filming, and then met again on the TV series "Kintaro's Happy Life".
At this time, Wang Bogu not only met Batu again, but also met Batu's mother Song Dandan.
Although his son was not well-known, his mother Song Dandan was already a popular actor in the industry at that time.
Soon, Song Dandan learned about the relationship between Wang Bogu and his son Batu.
Batu and Wang Bogu went home hand in hand, but Song Dandan did not agree with their relationship.
"I disagree, the age gap between you two is too big!"
It is true, Batu is only in his early 20s, and Wang Bogu is 7 years older than Batu.
Moreover, Wang Bogu had a bad habit of smoking. After Song Dandan found out about it, he even denied their relationship.
At that time, Wang Bogu didn't argue or make any fuss, he just silently put down his things and left. Did
choose to give up?
Absolutely not. Wang Bogu has been very persistent in the things he likes since he was a child.
Therefore, she decided to do something to make Song Dandan recognize herself.
When Song Dandan was filming, Wang Bogu would cook some soup and porridge and send it to the visiting team, and by the way, he would also give some to his colleagues on Song Dandan's crew.
can not only capture Song Dandan's favor, but also gain recognition from people around Song Dandan.
Wang Bogu knows that sometimes the environment can affect a person's choice.
I have to say that Wang Bogu’s methods are very clever.
Instead of competing with the other party, it is better to use actions to impress the other party.
The final result proved that Wang Bogu did it, and her good behavior was remembered by Song Dandan.
Moreover, Song Dandan did not agree with Wang Bogu’s original intention, because he was afraid that Wang Bogu would be detrimental to his son in the future.
Seeing such a virtuous Wang Bogu, even though Song Dandan was picky, he had nothing to say.
So in 2017, Wang Bogu and Batu successfully entered the marriage hall.
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Although the two are married, it does not mean that the two will live happily in the future.
There is an age gap. Even after marriage, they still face strange looks from people around them.
Being criticized has become the norm in their married life.
But they don't care about this. On the contrary,
manages his small family of two carefully.
The two use patience to overcome the trivialities of daily life and let life flow into poetry.
It can be seen from the social platforms of the two people that they are each other's partners and good playmates in life.
"The happiest look is just when you are making fun of me and I am laughing."
If two people have different interests, then they can each play their own way; when they meet something fun and delicious, they will also join together.
Think back to the beginning, how many people thought that with such a big age gap between the woman and the man, would she be particularly powerful in the family?
But they all thought wrong.
Although Wang Bogu is older than Batu, she has never been stingy in praising Batu in life.
In the variety show "Men Doing Housework", when her mother-in-law Song Dandan was invited to Wang Bogu's home, Wang Bogu would show Batu's "report card" on doing housework to Song Dandan, and he would not forget to praise:
"Your son is awesome." You are promising."
directly praised the two people with these words, so happy that Song Dandan could not even lower his lips.
Anyone who is familiar with Batu knows that Wang Bogu uses this trick very skillfully and knows how to prescribe the right medicine.
In the early days, Song Dandan experienced several marriages. As his son, Batu, he frequently encountered changes in life and suffered deeply.
Inferiority and sensitivity once enveloped Batu's adolescence.
Even his mother Song Dandan would often belittle him in front of everyone:
"My son is a waste."
"My son does not deserve the surname Ying."
Even if it is an unintentional remark, it is undoubtedly a sharp knife in Batu's heart.
Later, Batu met Wang Bogu.
Wang Bogu's virtuousness made up for Batu's shortcomings; Wang Bogu's understanding also inadvertently embraced the sensitive and inferior Batu.
Batu would often receive compliments from Wang Bogu in his life:
"Brother is great, brother is doing really well."
Wang Bogu's compliments one after another made Batu full of confidence in life and found a better one. Own.
I think this is Wang Bogu’s cleverness in managing their marriage.
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Wang Bogu’s skill is not only in handling the marriage relationship with Batu, but also in her ability to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
As we all know, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China has always been a potential bomb in a family, and a single accident can destroy a family beyond recognition.
However, Wang Bogu made good use of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to add glory to his small family.
Since 2018, Wang Bogu has given birth to two children one after another.
Since Wang Bogu became a mother, he has focused on his family and rarely goes out to film.
In the variety show "Housework Man", when Song Dandan offered to help take care of the children for a day, Wang Bogudun said in surprise:
"Is it really possible? You are really our savior. Our family really can't survive without you."
Many women may be a little confused. Isn’t it natural for a mother-in-law to take care of her grandson? Why did his mother-in-law Song Dandan propose to take care of the child for once? Wang Bogu was so happy.
Wang Bogu didn't think so. She felt that the child was her own family, and she was very grateful that her mother-in-law agreed to help her take care of the child.
There is a certain limit between mother-in-law and mother-in-law, which is Wang Bogu's skill in handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Not only that, Wang Bogu also publicly admitted on the show that he very much agreed with his mother-in-law Song Dandan’s education method.
Not only did she not object to Song Dandan educating her two sons, she also praised Song Dandan for educating her two sons well. She could rest assured that she would leave her two sons to her.
Having said that, her mother-in-law Song Dandan is also very happy to take care of her children. Not only does she not feel tired, but she also enjoys it.
Many people think that you are just sweet-talking, right? What's the big deal?
However, many people don't know that being sweet is not a means, but an ability.
There is a saying that goes like this:
"Be careful of flattery, or you'll slap the horse on the leg."
Wang Bogu knows how to grasp this degree. Holding it well shows that she has high emotional intelligence, rather than just being sweet-mouthed.
This is a sign of her high emotional intelligence and her ability to manage family relationships.
Some people say that Batu is really lucky to marry Wang Bogu.
In fact, the role of force is mutual, and so is the role of love.
Wang Bogu is able to use his "means" well in the family, largely because of the silent support of his husband Batu.
When Song Dandan denied Wang Bogu, Batu firmly wanted to be with Wang Bogu.
When Wang Bogu gave birth to his second child, Batu would carefully connect everything involved in the birth.
He will specially choose a confinement center where Wang Bogu can live with his children.
After Dabao finished school every day, he took his children to the confinement center to visit his wife and newborn child, not neglecting any of them.
In this way, Wang Bogu will not suffer from postpartum depression, but he can also feed his newborn baby well, and he will not let Dabao ignore his psychology after having baby.
Rather than saying who is lucky because of whom, it is better to say that it is because of their careful management that the whole family is happy.
is written at the end
It has been seven years since Wang Bogu married Batu.
In these seven years, they not only had two lovely children, but also managed their married life in a lively and exciting manner.
In terms of career, although the two rarely film, they also go to live broadcasts to bring goods and make a lot of money.
Mother-in-law Song Dandan felt extremely happy when she saw how sweet the young couple's life was, and finally admitted that her daughter-in-law was really good.
Some people say that Wang Bogu became more beautiful after they got married.
Batu didn't forget to show his affection: "Maybe I raised him well."
The meaning of happiness and sweetness are beyond words.
Bing Xin said: "A beautiful family is the source of all happiness."
deeply agrees. I believe that the two of them will rely on this power of happiness to go farther and wider on the road of life.
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