The mothers in the drama " Fireworks " are indeed very selfless in their maternal love. But recalling the details is a bit suffocating.
Let’s talk about Qiao Haiyun (played by Song Chunli) first, who obviously prefers the eldest daughter Meng Mingwei (Xu Fan). Because the eldest daughter is adopted.
The poor neighbors could not afford to raise their children. Knowing that Qiao Haiyun was kind and well-off, he took advantage of Meng Mingwei's illness to abandon his children.
Because Meng Mingwei was ordinary, did not study well, and had disabilities in her legs and feet, Qiao Haiyun not only arranged her daughter's marriage, but also gave her a house as a gift.
Even though the eldest son-in-law Li Chengzhi (Li Chengru) is becoming more and more out of character and still unfilial to her mother-in-law, she endures it for the sake of her daughter.
But if you think about it carefully, Qiao Haiyun interfered too much in Meng Mingwei's life because of his love, which made her lose many opportunities to enter the world.
made her life with mediocre qualifications even more boring. Meng Mingwei should be allowed to try it out when he was young. Even if he fails, it is still an experience.
As a result, Meng Mingwei has no foresight and follows the same pattern, hoping that her daughter Li Yijin (Ma Sichun) will change her destiny by marrying a good man.
No matter how stupid Meng Mingwei is, she still has advantages. She is careful and organized. These are all advantages. She is suitable for opening a nursing home.
Let’s talk about Meng Mingwei, because she was loved by Qiao Haiyun in all directions, her character became more and more cowardly and independent.
She had too little life experience and wanted to copy and paste the maternal love she had received into Li Yijin, but she ignored that the era was different.
How can women in the new era accept their parents’ opinions on their marriage with peace of mind? What's more, Meng Mingwei has no strength.
Look at the blind dates that Meng Mingwei or his trustee arranged for Li Yijin. None of them are reliable. They are simply a fire pit.
Although Zhou Zhou (played by Wang Tianchen ) has a poor family background, after all, he and Li Yijin have been boyfriend and girlfriend for many years, and they are still each other's first love.
If a mother feels that thoughtfulness is not worthy of her daughter, she can raise reasonable objections, but she cannot impose interference or obstruction.
Doing this will not only fail to persuade the two young people to break up, but will easily arouse the rebellious psychology of the two young people. Meng Mingwei's maternal love is extremely suffocating.
went on to talk about Meng Wanqing ( Liang Jing). Even though she and her daughter Tao Shuna ( Sun Qian) seem to be friends, there is also a gap.
This can be seen from their attitude towards Tao Dalei (played by Liu Jun). Meng Wanqing knows Tao Dalei's true identity, but her daughter does not.
Therefore, once the drama the couple plays in life is exposed, they think that keeping it secret is good for their daughter, but in fact it will do the most harm to them.
If Meng Wanqing cannot handle her relationship with Zheng Bin (played by Wu Qijiang), it will also worry Tao Shuna and even affect her daughter's friendship.
Sometimes a mother's love that is too hands-off, a mother's love that selfishly thinks "I am for your own good", can unknowingly suffocate the daughter.
Finally, let’s talk about Meng Yian (Li Xiaoran), although she is already the most tolerant and open-minded to children among the four Meng mothers and daughters.
If Meng Yian cannot handle his feelings well, even Qiu Xia (Song Ningfeng) and Song Junfan (Geng Le) will love Qiuqiu.
Even Xiao Yao (played by Zhao Xin) loves Qiuqiu very much, but too much repeated love will make Qiuqiu fall into the thought of "I want to have two mothers"
and "Does my mother like my father or my uncle?" , not all reorganized families can give their children 2+2>4.
Although Meng Wanqing and Meng Yian's motherly love is relatively open-minded, if they cannot handle personal emotional issues well, their daughters will feel suffocated.
The motherly love of Qiao Haiyun and Meng Mingwei seems great but is actually selfish and too all-encompassing. They are tired and their daughter is even more tired. It is too suffocating.
