When talking about Xu Jinglei, labels such as "talented woman" and "goddess of literature and art" come to mind. But you know what? Her life is more exciting than these labels, and she is simply a legendary template for modern women.
At nearly 50 years old, she lives like a 20-year-old girl, with money and leisure, and her figure and face are as supple as when she first debuted. What is even more enviable is that she has also found a perfect partner who is connected to her soul and whose compatibility is incredible.
Although Xu Jinglei has been in a "retired" state in recent years, her legend is still spreading in the entertainment industry. Her previous boyfriends, bold statements, works and talents are all the talk of the town.
So, what are the unknown stories in the life of this legendary goddess? Now that she has settled in the United States, how is she doing?
I think back then, when Xu Jinglei was still a young actor, she became famous all over the country with her movie "Love to the End". At that time, she was innocent and lovely, with big eyes that seemed to be able to talk. But who would have thought that this seemingly weak girl has huge energy hidden in her heart.
Not only does she have outstanding acting skills, she is also a talented director. From "Letter from a Strange Woman" to "Du Lala's Promotion", her works have gained good reputation and box office. Xu Jinglei used her talent and hard work to prove that women can not only gain a foothold in the entertainment industry, but also become leaders in the industry.
In addition to her career success, Xu Jinglei's emotional life is also colorful. Her previous boyfriends were all elites from all walks of life. From Wang Shuo to Huang Lixing, each relationship made her grow a lot. Although her emotional journey was full of twists and turns, she always maintained her love for life and her expectations for love.
Today, Xu Jinglei has settled in the United States and enjoys a leisurely life. She occasionally shares her daily life on social platforms, and it can be seen from the photos that her life is very fulfilling and happy. Although she is far away from the hustle and bustle of the entertainment industry, her legendary story is still sung in people's hearts.
Xu Jinglei: From repressed childhood to flying freely
Xu Jinglei is a well-known name in the entertainment industry, but her growth path has not been smooth sailing. Born in an ordinary family in Beijing, her parents were both factory workers. Her childhood did not have much luxury and fun.
Father Xu Zijian is a typical male chauvinist. The atmosphere at home is always shrouded in his authority. The emphasis on knowledge and diplomas stems from his own regret of not being able to study when he was a child. Therefore, Xu Zijian's academic requirements for his children are so strict that they are almost harsh.
When Xu Jinglei recalled her childhood, what impressed her most was the endless interest classes she attended. While other children were playing, she would ride her bicycle through the streets of Beijing, either to learn calligraphy or practice chess. Perhaps only she can understand that kind of hard work.
But it was this experience that allowed Xu Jinglei to develop good calligraphy and painting. Her characters were used in the light box advertisements of her father's neon light factory, which not only gave her experience but also helped her family save costs. And painting has been an art she has loved since she was a child.
During the college entrance examination, Xu Jinglei originally wanted to choose an art-related college and major, but her results were not ideal and she regretfully failed. However, life's encounters are always full of drama. It was precisely because of this failure that she was admitted to the acting department of Beijing Film Academy by mistake, thus starting her acting career.
After entering college, Xu Jinglei seemed to have found her true self. Freed from her father's strong suppression, she was like a wild horse, enjoying unprecedented freedom. This kind of freedom not only allowed her to achieve academic achievements, but also made her more independent in character.
Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing: Freedom and persistence in the long-distance love race
The entertainment industry is changing, but there are always some stories that warm people's hearts like a gentle breeze. Xu Jinglei, this talented actress, finally found the person she shares with her in her colorful love life - Huang Lixing.
The fate of the two people began in the movie "Du Lala's Promotion".Xu Jinglei is both the director and the heroine, while Huang Lixing is the charming male lead.
The passionate collision in the play extended to outside the play. Huang Lixing was deeply attracted by Xu Jinglei's talent and charm, as if she had cast a spell on her.
But Xu Jinglei was focused on her career at that time and was cautious about relationships. Huang Lixing did not back down, and his persistence and sincerity finally touched Xu Jinglei's heart. Although the two fell in love in a low-key manner, it is not difficult to see from Xu Jinglei's social platform that she is full of sweetness and satisfaction in this relationship.
The long-distance love affair between Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing lasted for 14 years. During this time, they respected and supported each other. Xu Jinglei pursues freedom, and Huang Lixing gives her enough space; Xu Jinglei insists on the concept of "no marriage and no children," and Huang Lixing respects her choice. This mutual understanding and support makes their relationship even deeper.
Although the outside world often doubts their relationship, the two always stick to their original intentions. Xu Jinglei responded to the pregnancy rumors with practical actions. She humorously said that she was just fat.
Regarding the concern of career fans, she also frankly stated that she has settled in the United States and is enjoying her two-person world with Huang Lixing.
Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing not only lived a romantic and fulfilling life in their own world, but they also took good care of their respective families. Xu Jinglei shared warm pictures of dinner with her family on social platforms, showing her happy life with a fruitful family and career.
Although it is rumored that Huang Lixing's father once urged Xu Jinglei to have a child, Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing still adhere to the original intention of "unmarriage and sterility". They interpret the true meaning of love in their own way: no interference from the outside world, no burden from the world, only caring about each other's feelings and happiness.
Xu Jinglei's life is like a wonderful movie. She lived her own wonderful life with an independent and sober attitude. She listens to her inner voice, is not afraid of worldly opinions, and bravely pursues her love and career. Her story with Huang Lixing tells us: in the long-distance race of love, mutual respect and support are the keys to maintaining a relationship; and on the stage of life, being brave enough to be yourself is the most important thing.
