is worthy of being a woman who fell in love with the son of the richest man. She became a hot search as soon as she came back.
Liang Luoshi fell in love with Li Zekai at the age of 19 and gave birth to three sons. They eventually broke up without getting married and was ridiculed as an "abandoned wife of a wealthy family."
recently participated in Lu Yu's talk show and responded to the past grudges for the first time.
talks about sugar daddy: I am a love brain, I just love him.
Talking about breaking up: The other person is too popular with women and can’t stand it, so he wants to live with confidence.
Talking about marrying a wealthy family: If you give up, you will not regret it. If you try it again, you will choose this way. Regardless of whether
is telling the truth or establishing her character, netizens found out: She was only 35 years old when she returned from running away for half her life, and she has a net worth of hundreds of millions. She has a son but no husband. Is there any more exciting heroine than this?
It’s true. Lu Yu, sitting opposite her, has no husband and no children. His 53-year-old face is no different from that of 35-year-old Liang Luoshi, and his career is still rising.
Although he was once scolded by the entire Internet for his lack of emotional intelligence and level because of "Is it true? I don't believe it."
But she didn’t explain, didn’t respond, and didn’t stop working. All kinds of big names wanted to be on her show. Even Liang Luoshi, who refused many interviews, only spoke his mind to her.
Let’s just say, how can a person who once wanted to be "Oprah of the East (a world-class celebrity)" be a fool?
Is it embarrassing to talk about "mudslide" or to match "Wang Bingbing"?
Let’s first take a look at where Lu Yu’s bad reviews come from?
As a chat show host, there is no way she can’t stop chatting.
Zhou Xun: People who want to cooperate are suddenly in front of me. Can you imagine how happy I am?
Lu Yu: I can’t imagine.
Zhou Xun was so embarrassed that he ran away overnight.
asked Liu Qian about his favorite magic trick. Liu Qian said that he couldn’t pick one, just like asking a mother to pick her favorite child.
Lu Yu: Your mother is the only child of yours.
’s speech is not very nutritious. He is crazy about questioning and asking random questions.
Guo Jingming: If the staff doesn’t care about me, I will forget to eat.
Lu Yu: Impossible.
Yao Ming: I live alone these two days, sweeping the floor, washing dishes, doing laundry and folding clothes every day.
Lu Yu looked shocked: I don’t believe it.
Interview with Yang Liping: Were you beaten when you were a child? Can you kill a pig? Would you use that thing to smash the cake?
The worst scolded person is arrogance and rudeness.
Yuan Longping said that he sat next to Gong Li at the event and did not recognize her. Lu Yu: You are going too far.
also had an interview with left-behind children. The children ate pickles and rice at school. Lu Yu asked: Why doesn’t eat meat? Is meat easy to spoil?
Why not eat minced meat, which became Lu Yu’s label. Netizens wonder: Why is Lu Yu so popular despite his poor interview skills?
Let’s take a look. What was Lu Yu’s level before the house collapsed?
joined CCTV before graduating from college. He still has baby fat and his smile means "the first generation Wang Bingbing".
During the interview, her impolite hosting style began to show, and she directly interviewed the interviewer: "Why do the directors of the Arts Department all have big beards? You, Zhao An, and Zhang Ziyang."
The other party was stunned, and she continued to ask: "You three are the central Taiwan's youngest and most promising directors, is the competition between you fierce?"
Director described the interview as "vicious", "sharp" and "nowhere to hide" .
After being selected, Lu Yu was responsible for hosting the "Art Garden Scenery" program. After two years in the industry, he became "one of the top ten most popular program hosts on CCTV."
Broadcasting entertainment programs could not satisfy her ambition, so she went to the United States to study. In 1996, she returned to China and joined Phoenix TV, hosting "Phoenix Morning Bus".
The news at that time was all about sitting down and writing down the manuscript. She found it boring, so she created the style of "telling news" in the history of Chinese television.
wakes up at 4 a.m., reads global newspapers, and digests information quickly. At 7 a.m., he gives an unscripted live broadcast for half an hour.
Every day, when you go out late and come home early, wearing heavy makeup, the janitor can’t help but ask: Girl, what do you do? The
program was very successful. Phoenix TV boss Liu Changle commented: Lu Yu said that the style of news will occupy its own place in the history of Chinese television.
html At the turn of the 20th century, there were turbulent times, including the return of Hong Kong, Princess Diana's funeral, the U.S. presidential election, the Iraq War, Beijing's Olympic bid... Lu Yu must be broadcast for major events, and she became a pillar of Phoenix Satellite TV.
Later, Phoenix TV produced "A Date with Luyu" tailor-made for her, which was even awarded a medal.
There are many similar interviews now, but at the time, this program was definitely ahead of the market. Lu Yu learned from the American "Oprah Talk Show" and wanted to do a Chinese talk show interview. was talked about in a lot of decent news interviews. Extraordinary human touch and variety.
This was the most popular talk show of the year, and was hailed by Time Magazine as "one of China's most valuable TV programs in the past 15 years."
In 2007, CNN in the United States wrote about Lu Yu: China's "Oprah." In 2010, Hillary Clinton visited China and designated only her show.
Zhao Zhongxiang once praised her specifically: You were born for this show.
Pretending to be a pig and eating a tiger
Tear it off without pain or itching, leaving a group of kindness
How did Lu Yu become stupid?
First of all, we must admit that after the recording frequency of "A Date with Luyu" increased from once a week to once a day, there was less preparation time and the quality began to vary.
But the more important reason is that pretends to be a pig and eats the tiger, but it is actually my interviewing skills. The widely circulated rollover videos of are somewhat taken out of context.
For example, when he embarrassed Zhou Xun, if you watch it for a few more minutes, you will find that Lu Yu is praising her, saying that she already has status and experience, but still retains humility and enthusiasm.
There is also the most criticized question "Is it because meat spoils easily?" The second half of the sentence is "Or is it for some other reason?"
This guides the children to talk about the situation that meat is too expensive and they cannot afford it.
At this point, we can actually figure out some rules.
For celebrities who have routines, she will be sharp and not follow their words to force them to answer directly.
For example, when asked about the relationship between Ng Man Tat and Stephen Chow, Lu Yu jumped in and said:
Blocking all the high-sounding words, Ng Man Tat said: As long as I don't die and he hasn't retired, we will still cooperate.
also interviewed Mao Amin and asked about tax evasion. Mao Amin said that he was cheated by the organizer.
Lu Yu asked: I was tricked the first time, how could it happen a second time?
For big entrepreneurs, she will ask about the specific issues that ordinary people care about under the grand narrative during daily conversations.
Interview with Wang Jianlin be like:
And Dong Mingzhu said that Gree has prepared houses for married employees. Most people would probably praise it, but Lu Yu asked: Are there no single employees who have been employed at for many years? A person can be considered a family.
Sister Dong’s pattern is also quite big↓
There are enough occasions for business exchanges, and moderate offenses will lead to surprises.
Amidst Lu Yu's outspokenness and pretending to be weak, many celebrities unknowingly spoke the truth.
Sun Honglei shed tears as he spoke, which scared himself.
Hu Ge choked up and talked about his ex-girlfriend: She is really good.
Especially after some celebrities’ personas collapsed, I looked back and found that Sister ’s interviews really had something to offer and she had a lot of attitude.
And when Lu Yu did not appear as an interviewer, high emotional intelligence began to show.
Especially when I was connected with Oprah, Oprah was aggressive: Why can you talk about certain topics, such as AIDS, divorce, and domestic violence? Isn't this taboo in your country?
Lu Yu quickly answered: To me, the topics you just mentioned are just extraordinary stories shared by ordinary people with us.
This answer is very clever and true.
Celebrities, saints, poor people, and people with moral flaws are all ordinary people here in Luyu. They don't look up to them or sympathize with them too much, but they can find out more truth and true feelings.
So when she directly asked the gambling king Si Tailiang Anqi: Can you really tolerate four wives sharing one husband?
Liang Anqi was not angry, and said: I think you are very sincere, so I have to tell you sincerely.
Later, Lu Yu appeared as a guest on a talk show, and everyone was surprised to find that they had misunderstood her!
She works as a comedian and understands both talk shows and performers.
commented on Niaoniao, accurately describing her as "explicit social fear", which is luckier than most people's implicit social fear.
commented on Pang Bo: "I used to think that comedy is king in talk shows, but now I find that you can shed tears when you watch it."
On women's issues, she is both sensitive and empathetic.
Bu Jingyun always takes her husband as the topic of conversation and is criticized by the audience. Lu Yu encouraged her: You must insist on , you can see the whole world from home.
When the actor talked on stage about how painful it was to undergo cosmetic surgery, she was the only one to accurately express the inappropriateness of it.
Overnight, word-of-mouth reversed, netizens said: The soul has been sublimated, please weld her to the position of the comedian!
A strong pessimist
and a free life who pays first
Lu Yu himself probably did not expect that after doing interviews for a lifetime, he was scolded by the entire Internet for being unprofessional because of several clips.
also participated in a comedy show and said a few words casually, and his ability was recognized by everyone again.
But Lu Yu is still the same Lu Yu, always loyal to herself. She once wrote:
"I hope I have the courage to try to stand face to face with many people. That is not selfishness, but ego. I believe that my feelings are also extremely important."
She It seems that she has the talent to be a heroine since she was a child, and she has made it clear early on that she will not live two lives in the future:
"First, don't wear embarrassing clothes when you grow up. Second, don't become a woman who complains about men every day."
and is willing to Pay the effort and price for it.
She has the pragmatism and courage to try her best to do what she wants to do: "In dealing with life, it is useless for Daiyu to bury the flowers or Qingwen to tear up the fan. You must directly Mulan join the army or Mu Guiying takes command. If you want to say it, express it , If you want it, go for it. "
"A Date with Luyu" has been recorded for more than 20 years, interviewing tens of thousands of people, five days a week, and the program directors rotate. Only Luyu is open all year round.
And she doesn’t use a teleprompter or hand card. In order to pursue a more realistic effect, we did not communicate with the interviewees in advance.
Lu Yu has the self-requirements of a typical top student. In a high-intensity, high-uncertain job, she once said that she feels anxious every day and criticizes herself more harshly than outsiders.
What’s interesting is that such a person sometimes has the freedom to break social expectations and standards.
For example, talking about the popular sense of relaxation, she said: "Relaxation is good, but I have the right to keep my tension."
When it comes to anxiety, Lu Yu's solution is: I think the worst thing will happen It will happen, but I believe that I have the ability to accept all the results. If I am not papery, I will not be anxious.
Lu Yu is not born free and easy. It is more like she has gained limited but solid freedom after restraint and hard work.
In terms of love, she is not decisive in giving up love and pursuing a career, and she even has a bit of a love mind.
was once married and divorced. He pessimistically believes that love will always leave, but he also feels that true bravery should be like Shu Linxi, who "deadly clings" to the one he loves deeply, even if the other person does not love him enough, even if he spends a miserable life. .
But at the same time, she also allowed herself to be emotionally blank and allowed to love again at the age of 50.
may seem contradictory, but in fact, the underlying logic is to follow one's own will. You don't have to go against your own life for the sake of popular personas. When you are "extremely different from most people", you can also afford to pay for your choice.
Along the way, she has really avoided the life she did not want to live when she was a child, and has done a job she likes. She is still making breakthroughs today.
moved the studio of "Date with Luyu" outdoors, launched the documentary interview program "See You Later", and launched the podcast "Flowers in the Rock", inviting outstanding women in various fields to talk.
I am 50 years old, unmarried and have no children, but I still insist that loving someone should not be because he is suitable or correct. The reason for having children can only be that you are eager to go through this process.
At the same time, she also dared to pay the price. Among all rights, the price of freedom is the highest.
It can be as small as not being able to open the bottle of soybean curd when eating porridge, or no one is waiting at home when the plane lands, or as big as the loneliness of having to bear all the fragility, collapse, and illness alone, and the inescapable scrutiny of others.
But she said that she was ready to go against others, "I am still more willing to give in to myself, even if it is my own weakness."
Sheep does not want to put Lu Yu on the altar again. People have many sides. What is more worthy of reference is how a person who is not so free and easy can be consistent with himself, and how a person who is not so fierce can guard his life.
For Lu Yu, no matter whether her character collapses or others scold her, she will remain unscathed. Because she is the one who paid for herself first, she can accept the risks or gifts of fate calmly.
