On January 28, 2024, Xu Jinglei posted recent photos of her private server.
"My sister is so beautiful, but her clothes are not that good. I'd better not dress like this next time, otherwise she will be rumored to be pregnant again!"
But in the face of netizens' ridicule, Xu Jinglei said bluntly: Hahaha, I can only take it as it is! Then the topic exploded and became a hot search topic.
Xu Jinglei entered the film and television industry with the movie "My Deskmate". Now, at the age of 49, she has been in the industry for many years and has become a senior in the industry. After spending most of her life in the entertainment industry, Xu Jinglei has already settled down and developed her own unique style of doing things and value perception.
She now lives in the United States and lives a loving life with her husband Huang Lixing. Faced with rumors and marketing rumors, Xu Jinglei chose to deal with it casually by lying down.
Xu Jinglei is keen on sharing her daily life on Weibo and interacting and chatting with fans. Casual and comfortable private photos are the theme of her Weibo. Xu Jinglei likes to wear loose and casual clothes on weekdays. She focuses on being comfortable and casual, so she doesn't think much about styling.
These clothes cannot bring out Xu Jinglei's beauty and figure very well, and may even make her look more bloated, especially her abdomen, which looks a bit like a full-term pregnant woman.
This gave the marketing accounts an opportunity to make a big fuss about these pictures. Rumors about Xu Jinglei's pregnancy can be said to be rising one after another.
"I agreed not to have children, but ended up getting pregnant in the United States!" Such eye-catching headlines, coupled with articles taken out of context, have pushed Xu Jinglei to the forefront of the topic again and again. As a public figure, I can only stand up and refute rumors again and again.
's repeated refutation of rumors has long since developed a Buddhist mentality in Xu Jinglei. Her excellent strength and capital, as well as the support of her lover, are enough to support her in facing these rumors with a smile. In addition, as the saying goes, rumors stop only among the wise, so let these unfounded rumors ferment!
Xu Jinglei never took it to heart when netizens teased her about her poor clothing quality.
As an artist in the entertainment industry, he can entertain the public and bring laughter to everyone, so why not? In addition to this reason, it is also because Xu Jinglei has already matured and will only accept the comments of others indifferently and will not let these small things affect her emotions.
What's more, clothes are just tools for human beings. The most important thing is their practical properties. They only need to be comfortable and close to the body. Not everyone pursues the extra visual effects. Wouldn't it be better to be like Xu Jinglei, reduce the burden on small things and live a simple life?
Faced with Xu Jinglei's casual reply, netizens couldn't help but praise: "You know how to entertain people!" Such a comfortable attitude was appreciated and praised by many netizens.
Xu Jinglei has lived in the United States for many years. Nowadays, her acting career is not the most important thing. She only focuses on her current life. Xu Jinglei has a very good relationship with her lover Huang Lixing, and the two often appear on talk shows together.
When asked about her love life with Huang Lixing on the Venus Show and why Huang Lixing liked her, Xu Jinglei made a playful joke: "It's not because I'm beautiful!"
When asked why she liked Huang Lixing, Xu Jinglei put away her joking attitude and replied seriously: "He is like a medicine prescribed to me by a psychiatrist."
She said that her lover Huang Lixing was never anxious or in a hurry, and always became her most reliable person behind Xu Jinglei's back. of support. Such a lover is like a reassurance.
For an artist like Xu Jinglei, work in the entertainment industry has always been turbulent. Huang Lixing is like an anchor in the waves, able to stabilize her panic and give her the greatest sense of security.
The emotional lives of celebrities in the entertainment industry have always been chaotic, making it difficult for onlookers to understand and understand. Compared with those artists, Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing are low-key and sweet. It is no wonder that Xu Jinglei, who originally did not want to have children, would consider freezing her eggs.
Also in a talk show, Xu Jinglei was asked about her attitude towards marriage.Xu Jinglei believes that the biggest benefit of marriage is that it provides a guarantee for children under the law, which is good for social stability.
However, love cannot be proven by whether you are married or not. When you meet the right person, whether you have children or not, whether you are married or not, loving each other is the most important thing.
Many of Xu Jinglei's ideas are very progressive. Her seemingly "lay flat" attitude actually demonstrates her self-consistent and calm way of doing things. Only after experiencing the impetuousness of domestic entertainment can we calm down.
I really hope that my sister’s coolness and calmness can be carried forward in domestic entertainment, and she will be less impetuous and more calm. In this era of fragmented information, use your own attitude to repel those exaggerated and unrealistic rumors.