After Wu Jing suddenly caused controversy over "macho chauvinism" due to his previous variety show, his wife Xie Nan posted a long response a few days ago, saying, "Mr. Wu is very nervous, afraid that I will never be with him."
From The side responded that the marriage relationship between the two was not as bad as the outside world imagined.
Indeed, since they got married ten years ago, they have always followed the route of "low-key love", and their love story is also full of "fairy tale color" - because the woman once regarded the man as her childhood idol, and was also called " The highest realm of star chasing."
Especially before Wu Jing got married, he encountered financial difficulties while filming "Wolf Warrior". It was also Xie Nan who fully supported her and said, "If you lose, I will support you", which made many people start to believe in love again.
But such a marriage, which looks like a dream to the outside world, is in danger due to various "disharmony" in the recording of the romantic drama "Happiness Trio"?
In desperation, Xie Nan responded emotionally and with only one purpose: to calm the storm.
In fact, looking at the ten years of marriage between the two, of course we cannot draw conclusions from some words in the variety show, but we must remember:
Celebrities are also human beings, and they will also encounter trivial matters in life.
After all, compared with "love at first sight", "lasting love for a long time" is the most difficult.
1. Love with a "filter"
Compared with Wu Jing, who just turned 50 this year, who was born in a martial arts family, Xie Nan's family background is not bad either.
She grew up in a military family. She has been a "good girl, someone else's child" since she was a child. In her parents' education view, she has always been asked to be tolerant.
When she was studying at Anhui University of Finance and Economics, she participated in the "Charming Hosting Competition" and was signed by Enlight Media.
Xie Nan's acting career has been very smooth. After joining the show, she was quickly praised and gradually became a "leading actress", and her popularity continued to rise.
At this stage, Wu Jing has already become "famous":
His first work "The Kung Fu Kid" has a strong sense of existence, and later he acted in "The Master of Tai Chi", which became an instant hit.
Xie Nan was in junior high school at the time, and skipped class to watch TV because he liked Wu Jing. When the two met in the future, they would inevitably joke about it, which in a sense foreshadowed their fate.
However, due to the filming of this drama, Wu Jing was rumored to have an affair with the heroine Fan Yimin.
Hong Kong media reported that the man fell in love with her at first sight and immediately pursued her. He even gave up his domestic entertainment career for her and moved to Hong Kong to develop his career.
Fan Yimin, who has many suitors around him, expressed the hope that Wu Jing could earn 5 million yuan within three years, which directly led to the two of them settling down.
Fan Yimin turned around and had an affair with Luo Zhaohui, a wealthy businessman known as the "actress sniper", which ended up being lost to everyone.
Wu Jing's development in the Hong Kong circle is not smooth either. Although he has participated in works such as "Slaying the Wolf" and "The True Colors of a Man", his actual presence is still not high.
Especially at that stage, he was also rumored to have an affair again, and he was suspected of kissing actress Michelle Ye in the street, but he quickly denied it.
At the age of 36, Wu Jing chose to return to domestic entertainment development because he was "out of town, exhausted physically and mentally, and wanted to have a family."
At that time, he often posted similar feelings on social platforms, and it was obvious that he was indeed in the stage of "hating to be married".
Xie Nan appeared at this time.
The two met in 2010 on the program "Best Live" hosted by the woman. During the program, the two showed pink bubbles.
Wu Jing expressed his desire to find a girlfriend very "frivolously" in public, and Xie Nan's colleagues at the scene also took advantage of it, constantly heckled and tried to bring the two together.
At that time, Xie Nan was at the peak of her career. She was firmly in the position of "Guang Guang Dan", and she also transformed on this basis and entered the film and television industry, filming the movie "Painting on the Wall".
Because she was too busy with her work, Wu Jing often fell into passivity in the process of pursuing her. The two later recalled:
He had waited for her for 4 hours when he confessed his love; he also shouted to her on social platforms many times: "Your Is the work over yet?"
Looking back at the relationship between the two now is still very sweet: "straight man" Wu Jing is like a young boy who is always urging marriage and can't wait to get the other person's attention; while Xie Nan is very career-oriented Heart, but a new era woman who has both career and love.
However, before they got married in 2014, they encountered a test. When the husband was planning to film "Wolf Warrior", he encountered financial difficulties and had to mortgage the wedding house. The plot of
has always been regarded by the outside world as evidence of the true love between the two, but in fact, upon closer inspection, it is not without flaws.
2. "Being disgusted with each other for a long time" is no accident.
Although it is widely rumored that Xie Nan moved the audience with the sentence "If you lose money, I will support you", the actual situation is that Wu Jing first mortgaged the house before confessing, and she was under pressure So answer.
And when the two got married in 2014, Xie Nan was already pregnant.
However, she still had to prepare for the wedding alone with her big belly. The reason was that Wu Jing injured his leg while filming.
Xie Nan once again showed her gentleness and virtuousness, and even said to her husband: "Just ask the crew for a day off."
In Wu Jing's eyes, all this was "like participating in a large variety show."
What's even more rare is that Xie Nan, who has always been very enterprising, showed his determination to take a back seat at the wedding, saying bluntly, "You have me at home, go ahead!"
Everyone basically knows what happened next. The year after Wu Jing got married, he directed and starred in the movie "Wolf Warrior". He invested 80 million of his savings in this work
, and the estimated cost plus various other funds was about 200 million, but in the end the film's box office reached 550 million - he made the right bet.
The following year, Wu Jing began to prepare for the filming of "Wolf Warrior 2". The film was released in 2017 and the box office exceeded 5.67 billion, breaking the global single market box office record.
Xie Nan's career took a sharp retreat for a while after giving birth to her child - the same year "Wolf Warrior 1" was released, she came back to record variety shows.
This time, she also brought her husband with her, and they both appeared in the reality show "Let's Go to Love".
It is from this variety show that the husband and wife show a more realistic relationship with each other.
Wu Jing is obviously a "straight man" in the show and has a rather aggressive temper.
For example, when the two of them were in a "you make gestures and I guess" session, because Xie Nan was dissatisfied that he was too slow and asked to change positions, he became impatient, and then he gave up directly. This move directly Causing his wife to cry in public.
Another time, the two of them wanted to cook together. Since Xie Nan was always "talking" around, Wu Jing "exploded" again. In the end, it was his wife who took the initiative to reconcile with him.
However, Wu Jing did give people the impression that he was a "straight man in kung fu" at the time, and Xie Nan's emotional intelligence was very high, so the little turmoil between the two was quickly submerged.
But in 2020's "Happy Trio 3", Wu Jing has transformed into the top of the "Forbes Celebrity List" and the "Ten Billion Box Office Movie Maker".
In addition to "Wolf Warrior", he also has excellent works such as "The Wandering Earth" and "The Climber". He is a filmmaker with excellent popularity, reputation and actual performance.
Therefore, the audience's evaluation of Xie Nan has also changed: from the original "Variety Show Xiaohuadan" to "Mrs. Wolf Warrior".
There is no doubt that many people are envious of her good luck, and her relationship with Wu Jing also has some "favored" characters.
However, in this variety show, the two parties who have been married for 7 years once again exposed fragments of their lives to the public's view, and there are still many "grooves".
The most controversial clip that was unearthed some time ago may be that Xie Nan did not call Wu Jing before eating at a certain time. The two then had a quarrel, and the man got angry directly, and his eyes looked very scary.
There are many similar situations, and every time the person who comes forward to solve the problem is Xie Nan.
She also analyzed the relationship between the two on the show. It is true that "he can always finish explaining the truth, and it is obvious that the truth is on my side..."
And this situation is not an isolated case.
For example, Huang Lei and Sun Li, who have always presented themselves as loving people, have also encountered this. The woman bluntly said in an interview that she would be "circled in" by her husband, and in the end it really became 'I was wrong'..."
3.gui How fake is the "love" in the media?
Sun Li and Huang Lei were only 18 years old when they were together, and had just entered college - she fell in love with her husband at first sight and pursued her until she is now 47 years old.
Throughout the nearly 30 years that the two have been together, they have shown affection in most cases.
Sun Li expressed in an interview many years ago that when they first fell in love, Huang Lei compromised when they encountered conflicts, but over time, he changed his mind and compromised.
For example, when the two of them found that the light in the bathroom was not turned off at home, Sun Li thought that Huang Lei had forgotten it, but Huang Lei would keep saying that she had a bad memory. If she said too much, she would be pua: "This matter is really my problem..."
In addition, the two have been married for many years, and Sun Li still does not have control over the family's financial power - Huang Lei once said smugly in an interview that all his family's money lies with his sister.
Not only that, Huang Lei also felt very relieved when his wife gave up her entire acting career for him: "Did she complain? No."
Therefore, netizens labeled him as an upright pua wife, but Sun Li said This seems to be a pleasure.
However, when similar things happen to Hu Ke, it seems that he is not so calm.
She and Sha Yi got married in 2011, when Hu Ke's career was on the rise. On the other hand, the man's career was not that good.
But Sha Yi was eager to get married at that time, so she left the sentence "get married or break up" to force Hu Ke, and finally she compromised.
Hu Ke gave birth to a son soon after getting married, and he also took care of everything at home virtuously. On the contrary, his husband did not develop the habit of doing housework - which later became a key point in the couple's frequent quarrels.
Although men often show off their affection in programs nowadays, Hu Ke has publicly expressed "regret getting married" many times.
There were rumors in 2019 that the marriage between the two had long been in name only.
Another "loving" couple who fell over due to recording a variety show was Wang Cho Lam, the "maniac of doting on his wife".
In "The Man Doing Housework", he showed extreme machismo and always pointed fingers at his wife.
Even though he knew his wife was pregnant, he still kept accusing her of dirty housework, which was very different from his previous role as a doting wife.
Although the marriages of the above couples are still going on with stumbling blocks, it is not easy for Xie Nan to respond to her husband's reputation.
However, there are also many couples in the industry who are in love and have divorced long ago:
For example, Dong Jie, who also had a pregnant belly to prepare for the wedding, and Li Xiaolu, who complained about eating cold hamburgers during pregnancy, both ended up cheating;
once made a high-profile statement in a love TV show, " The big boss of "Peeling the Shrimp Theory" is also at odds with Wang Xiaofei...
Although these stories have different versions, they all illustrate the same truth:
Don't overestimate the stars who have achieved freedom in material life. They are just ordinary people. , living a life that looks glamorous but is actually a mess, each with its own pain points.
Perhaps love is only in front of the camera. Beings like Wu Jing who can't "pretend" in front of the camera will appear more real, right?
