flashed a video.
In a program hosted by Sa Beining, Wu Jing pointed to Xie Nan on the big screen and said:
"Actually, I have been on her program several times, but I didn't think much of her.
Then I said, do you have a man? Friends? In fact, it was just a casual question.
Later, I asked someone to introduce my girlfriend to me, and they also introduced her. I didn't agree.
Why? Because I want to be down-to-earth and stable..."
Wu Jing hasn't said anything yet. After finishing, he was interrupted by Sabining. Obviously Sa Beining felt that what he said was very inappropriate and reminded him:
Wu Jing, do you want to jump off the building when you go home tonight? You know this, we are going to broadcast it!
Wu Jing said with three points being cool, four points mocking and five points nonchalantly: Girls in the hosting industry have very strong hearts.
emmm... No matter how strong your heart is, you can't stand your partner saying that you are not good when you are on the show.
And is my memory wrong? Obviously Wu Jing has revealed on many public occasions before that he fell in love with Xie Nan at first sight. On the program hosted by Xie Nan on
, Wu Jing asked: Are you married? Have a boyfriend? What zodiac sign?
The perfume Xie Nan wears is called Encounter. Wu Jing said, is it to meet me?
There are also various peacock-style displays of love.
At that time, public opinion was saying that Wu Jing doted on his wife and held Xie Nan in the palm of his hand.
But I have also seen clips of Wu Jing and Xie Nan appearing in variety shows together before.
Wu Jing cooked a bowl of noodles and started eating by himself without calling Xie Nan. Xie Nan complained, "You should call me when it's done." Wu Jing went crazy: Haven’t you seen ? After
finished speaking, he walked into the bathroom and beat the towel to vent his emotions.
Of course, it could also be a script.
But from these two clips, I can think of many shadows of husbands in traditional families:
not communicating and impatient. He yells at his wife, thinking that his wife's emotions are superfluous - it's not that he doesn't know that you are unhappy, but he pretends not to know, and if you can't help showing it, he accuses you of being unreasonable.
Do these husbands really not understand the emotional needs of their wives? Just wearing the skin of a straight man. When facing their superiors, they are more attentive than anyone else.
By the way, belittling and being mean to your partner in public will not make a man look powerful, but will make him look ridiculous and low.
A few years ago, I attended a dinner party.
There was a leader with a high status who went to the banquet with his wife.
During the dinner, his attention was almost entirely on his wife next to him. He keeps picking up food for his wife and turning tables; probably because he is afraid that she will be bored, he also talks to her in a low voice from time to time.
Later someone would persuade him to drink, and he would already drink until his face turned red. His wife angrily told him to drink less, and he put down the cup he had just picked up.
Because of this leader's selfless and resolute work style, some people laughed at him and said he was afraid of his wife.
He was not offended at all. Instead, he smiled and said that only when a man knows how to listen to his wife's opinions can his life get better and better. After
finished speaking, he added that he couldn’t drink too much, so he always brought his wife with him to every meal. Because he has high blood pressure.
The wife nodded, picked up his glass, and toasted to the person who persuaded him to drink. He said that Lao Li couldn't drink, so I had fun for him and everyone else.
I was not married at the time, but I just felt that their relationship as a couple was really good.
After getting married, I learned that only such a man has the wisdom of marriage:
He is good to his wife, good to his children, and has a harmonious family. Only then can he work hard in his career without worries, instead of being consumed by family conflicts every day and making a mess;
After getting married, , a family is a whole. When his wife is yelled at and belittled in various ways outside, others will not think that this husband is very powerful, but only think that his quality is low and his vision is worrying.
The higher the status of a person, the more he respects his wife.Because I know that if my wife is happy and the core of the family is stable, life will be a virtuous circle;
The more chauvinistic a man is, the more his heart will break at the touch of a touch. My wife can get furious with a simple word.
Why do some men always complain that they are lonely after middle age, and their wives are not considerate of their emotions and become an ATM machine for the family?
It’s better to look back at when you were young, whether you were indifferent, irritable, and impatient towards your wife, and you were the nanny that she was supposed to be.
Marriage is the exchange of sincerity for sincerity. No one gets married to have frequent quarrels and be full of grievances.
The way you treat the person next to you is how he will treat you in the future.
About the author: Ring the Bell, Changsha Sagittarius, wild emotional writer.
