got excited and saw Gao Yuanyuan’s cityboat!
In the documentary "Why Not Travel by Candle", Gao Yuanyuan is walking in the streets of Beijing under the soft moonlight, looking back and smiling. The atmosphere is really amazing.
The blue waves were rippling. She was lying on the side of the boat or sitting on the bow, looking at the hazy night scene, as if it were a painting.
Who would have thought that she is so soft and beautiful, she is already 44 years old this year.
In the video, she said, I have always felt that I am waiting to grow old, but I don’t dare to grow old too fast because of the arrival of my daughter.
People say that time is like an art knife, which will carve mark after mark on people's faces, but only on Gao Yuanyuan's face, he showed mercy.
Previously, she shared a set of random photos taken in late autumn in Beijing. In the photo, the sun is just right and the fallen leaves are all over the ground. She is strolling leisurely in the alley. The relaxation that fills the screen seems to make time stand still at this moment. Her eyes are as clear as autumn water, making people feel an indescribable tranquility and comfort.
adds a touch of charm given by time to the beauty.
Sure enough, loving people is like growing flowers. After marriage, a woman's temperament will become better and better. There is nothing better than having a happy family and a man who loves her.
Of course, it is definitely inseparable from the self-cultivation of women themselves.
1. Love of life and depth of self-understanding.
Gao Yuanyuan once said in an interview: "I think the meaning of life is to experience life and feel everything around you. Whether it is happiness or sadness, it is an indispensable part of life." A positive attitude towards life, in the fast In the era of rhythm, you don’t have to be trapped in a corner or family, take as much time as possible to feel the beauty and tranquility that life brings, experience and try as much as possible, and find your own sense of relaxation.
2. Establish a sense of boundaries and know how to "not worry".
After marriage, many women are often upset by too many trivial matters. They lose energy and gradually lose their enthusiasm for life. Moreover, if you simply feel that you have the right to intervene in the realm of your partner and children and force the other party to change, you will only make yourself worried and frustrated, and the relationship will become more tense. Therefore, you must know how to return other people's problems to others, so that you can have the energy to live your own life well. Put yourself first, then relationships. A woman's condition after marriage will get better and better if she doesn't worry too much about her partner.
3. Break the solid subjective impression and understand the language of love.
Many conflicts between husband and wife are actually caused by the subjective impression of each other in our minds. Just like today when he came back and threw his socks on the sofa, our first subjective impression was that he was lazy, so the bad words came out. Conflict occurs. It is true that he put his socks on the sofa, but laziness is our subjective impression of his behavior. But if we look at it from another angle, is it possible that he is just too tired to go back to the washing machine and wants to slow down for a while? What about throwing socks in the washing machine? Therefore, we must know how to break subjective impressions, establish a language of love, and find the most suitable and comfortable way to get along with our partners in order to live a "comfortable" life.
