"You said that I also want a child..."
In 2018, Chen Luyu interviewed Huo Jianhua, who had semi-retired from the industry, on the program "Luyu has a day trip". The other party talked about how he was extremely emotional when he held his daughter for the first time. , she was also moved to tears as the host.
This year, Chen Luyu is 48 years old.
At that time, she had been in the industry for 25 years. She had reached peaks and doubts in her career, experienced sweetness in her relationship, and experienced "storms", but she did not have a child of her own. At that moment, she seemed particularly regretful.
But a year after this interview, Chen Luyu suddenly reported that he was in a relationship with the singer Ayunga, who was 19 years younger than him.
At that time, when faced with the scandal, her studio immediately issued a statement denying it, saying that the two were just colleagues.
Until now, four years later, they were photographed again, and they were suspected to have been living together for many years, but neither the man nor the woman came forward to respond.
In fact, throughout the 30 years that the woman has been in the media industry, whether it is career or relationship, her choices and handling are worthy of the phrase "big heroine"! Although
is questioned by the outside world and only asks "Is it true?", she is actually much more powerful than the public imagines.
1. "Xueba" host
According to the paparazzi's revelations, Chen Luyu and Ayunga's acquaintance dates back to 2016.
It is reported that the two met at a charity event and took a group photo together. At the end of the following year, they attended the concert of Jixiang Sanbao's daughter.
In the year when the two met, the woman had been divorced from her second husband, Zhu Lei, for two years.
Zhu Lei and Chen Luyu are the same age and have known each other since they were 13 years old. Later, they were admitted to the Communication University of China together, which was still called the Beijing Broadcasting Institute at the time.
Zhu Lei is studying in the Department of Television, while Chen Luyu is studying in the Department of Foreign Languages, majoring in International Journalism.
Like many ignorant men and women who fall in love for the first time, they also have childhood sweethearts and secret feelings.
Chen Luyu comes from a very good family. Although she was born in Shanghai, she soon followed her media parents to live in Beijing.
Because all his family members are top academics, Chen Luyuâs academic performance is also very good, especially in terms of language and memory.
What she excels at most is English. She was the top student in the class when she was in middle school. She could always answer questions that the whole class couldn't answer fluently.
At the age of 18, Chen Luyu and Zhu Lei were admitted to university together, and then "destiny opened another door" because of their English advantage.
In 1992, she participated in the Beijing English Olympiad and successfully won first place. The following year, under the arrangement of her teacher, she participated in the CCTV interview at the school.
At that time, facing director Zhang Xiaohai, one of the examiners, Chen Luyu asked his exam question:
"Why do you want to grow a big beard? Why do the directors of the Literature and Art Department like to grow big beards? You, Zhao An, Zhang Ziyang." "
, this wanton and flamboyant girl, immediately made the examiners present shine. Everyone was surprised by her bravery and delighted by her unique perspective.
Because of this, when Chen Luyu was 22 years old, he successfully entered CCTV's "Art Garden Landscape" column and became the host of the column.
Far away in Inner Mongolia, Ayunga was only 3 years old, and had a bad fate. In the same year, his father, a versatile musician who was a musician, died unexpectedly of a heart attack.
Whatâs even more unfortunate is that when Ayunga was 6 years old, her mother died of stomach cancer.
As a result, he became more taciturn, often herding cattle alone and never saying a word to others.
In desperation, Ayunga was sent to a local dance school by his relatives, but he did not live well there. In addition to intense training, he was also bullied by older children.
Until 2003, at the age of 14, he was selected into the Inner Mongolia Military Region Art Troupe for his outstanding performance, and gradually became the lead dancer, often appearing on local TV stations.
In contrast to Ayunga's hard-working teenage life, Chen Luyu appears even more carefree and free.
During the two years she worked at CCTV, she felt like a fish in water. The following year, she successfully won the title of "Top Ten Most Popular Program Hosts" and was highly recognized in the station.
As the saying goes, success in career and failure in love-at the best stage of their career, the relationship between Chen Luyu and Zhu Lei encountered an unexpected event.
Because they are too young, they cannot deal with their feelings well, and their working environments are different, so conflicts often arise.
During a cold war, she and Zhu Lei were separated inexplicably.
2. The bumpy love of "career brain"
Perhaps it is to pursue a better self, or perhaps it is to change the environment and change the mood.
In 1995, Chen Luyu went to the United States to study alone and bid farewell to the CCTV stage.
Just as she said, "I have never experienced the difficult starting point that a newcomer usually has to go through, poverty, and humiliation." Therefore, giving up seems particularly cool.
But it is actually easy to say that in order to take the TOEFL, she works very hard every day and actively loses weight.
In the end, Chen Luyu succeeded - before departure, she only had 90 pounds left.
Since then, she has never been fat again, and she was even nicknamed "big-headed doll" by the outside world.
While in the United States, Chen Luyu met a handsome local guy, and sparks flew, and they soon got married.
While studying abroad, she was not idle because she found a show that she liked very much: the host Oprah was sitting on a sofa, chatting with the guests like friends.
Chen Luyu would follow this program every day, and secretly made up his mind: One day I will also make a program like this.
The following year, she returned to China with her husband and joined the popular Phoenix TV.
Chen Luyu's career was still going smoothly and he hosted many variety shows and travel shows, but he soon realized that this was not the life he wanted.
The opportunity will come soon.
In 1997, she participated in the live broadcast of many major news such as Hong Kong's return and Diana's funeral.
The high-intensity work did not make Chen Luyu feel tired, and he was even very excited.
Especially at that time, there was a 60-hour non-stop program. She relied on a sleeping bag to spin around on the station every day, but she did not feel tired at all.
Chen Luyu decided from then on that what he liked was the challenge brought by news reporting, so he took on the new information program "Phoenix Morning Bus" the following year.
For this show, she needs to get up at 4 o'clock every day, go out half an hour later, arrive at the studio at 5 o'clock, carefully read every newspaper of the day, and select useful information.
Two and a half hours later, the audience will see Chen Luyu sitting upright in the studio at 7:30, "reading" the news he prepared to everyone.
"Phoenix Morning Bus" focuses on professionalism and erudition, but Chen Luyu's style is also very friendly, giving people a feeling of spring breeze.
Therefore, this program quickly became popular, and it once became one of Phoenix TV's most expensive program slots for advertising.
Not only that, more and more hosts are also beginning to try to use the "telling" method to broadcast news. It can be said that Chen Luyu has made a driving innovation in the way of news broadcasting in a sense.
But people's energy is limited, and her busy career makes it impossible for her to make a balance in her life. There are also rifts in her relationship with her American husband.
Finally, in the fourth year of marriage, they divorced.
Chen Luyu never mentioned the reason for the divorce, but there were rumors that it was because the other party had been violent to her.
Many years later, she once shared a story in the "first person" on the "Speaker" program:
Her husband met his first girlfriend when he returned to his hometown during the Chinese New Year. Filed for divorce.
The woman chose to break up with the "scumbag" and went to the hospital for surgery to abort the child...
After that, many people matched this story with Chen Luyu's own experience, but she never responded once.
3. Over fifty, only love but not marriage
The year before Ayunga entered the Inner Mongolia Military Region Art Troupe, Chen Luyu reunited with his first love Zhu Lei. The man also experienced a failed marriage, and they still hit it off when they met again. Then they registered their marriage in 2002.
However, this marriage did not stop her career. On the contrary, the newly launched program "A Date with Luyu" is booming.
imitated Oprah's talk show. Chen Luyu also put up a yellow sofa at the interview site. The person he invited in the first episode was Mao Amin, who had just been involved in the scandal of the murder case.
The collision between the two women was very successful. This program won both good reputation and ratings, and also brought Chen Luyu's career to a new level.
The audience probably has an impression of what happened after that. "A Date with Luyu" has blossomed steadily, interviewed thousands of celebrities, and was named the annual program host award by "New Weekly" in 2005.
Also in this year, 16-year-old Ayunga went to Beijing alone with 500 yuan given by her brother.
In order to make a living, he first found work as a dancer in a restaurant or a singer in a bar, and worked hard day after day for three years.
In 2009, Ayunga was introduced to Zhang Xu, the dean of Beijing Dance University, and was encouraged to apply for the musical theater performance major of Beijing Dance University. This move changed his life.
Not long after he entered Beijing Dance University, he received a call that his brother, who was far away in his hometown, suffered from lung cancer and sadly passed away not long after.
The year after graduation, Ayunga starred in the musical "Kunlun Myth" and entered the entertainment industry.
But soon after, he discovered that Chinaâs musical market was deserted, and he had no choice but to pursue variety shows.
The following year, he joined "Happy Boys", and then participated in talent shows such as "Mr. Super" and "China is Listening", making a name for himself.
When recording "Mr. Super", his instructor Xie Na asked him: "Why are you always expressionless?" He replied: "My tears have dried up..."
At that time, Xie Na joked: "Don't give it to me here. Pretend to be serious!"
But after learning about his experience, Xie Na sincerely apologized: "I'm really sorry."
Chen Luyu, who is next door, is also experiencing controversy. Many of her interviews have been criticized by the outside world as "awkward conversations." She has low emotional intelligence and "only asks 'is it true?'"...
Faced with these complaints, she almost never explains because she thinks "explanations are useless."
Emotions are also frustrated.
In 2014, Chen Luyu and her second husband Zhu Lei, who had been working as a director, ended their marriage quietly and low-key.
Two years later, because of a charity event, she met Ayunga, who was 19 years younger than herself.
The story of the two of them need not be repeated in detail, and if Ayunga had not become famous through "Sound into the Heart" in 2018, perhaps he would not have received such attention so far.
But after becoming famous, he returned to the musical theater stage he loved, even if the outside world was deeply surprised by this.
Until now, he and Chen Luyu were photographed and suspected to have lived together for many years, and they were an old married couple.
In fact, looking at the two people's growth experiences, we may be able to get a glimpse of the reasons behind them if they really get together.
Although the two people are very different in age and have very different professional experiences, they have their own persistence in their hearts.
If this relationship does not involve cheating or interference, age is really not an insurmountable factor in love.
