The gossip is false and true, so it is better to talk about it at the technical level.

Paparazzi rushed to achieve results at the end of the year and held back a big one on December 26.

The hero and heroine are the extremely incompatible musical prince Ayunga and the national female host Chen Luyu. The man is 34 years old and the woman is 53 years old. There is a 19-year age difference between the two. If the news is true, then there will be another brother-brother love camp in the domestic entertainment industry. Team up with heroes.

In fact, as early as 2018, the two of them were photographed with some "hidden clues" that they were suspected of being in love. However, Chen Luyu's studio personally issued a statement at that time to refute the rumors, and then this scandal, which seemed slightly outrageous, disappeared. That’s it.

But five years later, the suspected love affair surfaced again. Is it possible that the two of them kept the secret to the end and had a secret love secretly for five years?

Anyway, this time, neither party has refuted the rumors or even made any response. It can only be said that silence is also a kind of response~~

Since there are all kinds of falsehoods and realities about love, we might as well start a "side-topic discussion" with images as evidence. The reason why this pair of

has attracted so much attention is not only because of their huge differences, but also because of Chen Luyu’s high popularity. Let me ask, from the stage of television to the booming development of the Internet today, from fans who "back-up" idols to entertainment editors who find evidence for their opinions, from seventy-seven to sixteen-seven, who has not watched a few What about the issue of "A Date with Luyu"? Who doesn’t know Chen Luyu with his iconic hairstyle?

Even if you haven’t seen the complete film, you have seen the embarrassing clips that have been widely circulated in the past two years, right?

The fragmented communication of the Internet and the entertainment-oriented atmosphere have not spared Chen Luyu, who was born in a major. "Why don't you eat meat?" "Shouldn't I laugh?" "Really, I don't believe it" and an overly thin figure have become many The source of people's preconceived impressions of her.

These elements are enough to piece together a comic-style tag that is easy to laugh at - is funny, rude, and witty , which is very consistent with the entertainment spirit of deconstructing everything.

Many netizens even judged from this - "What a famous speaker, I don't think she can host at all, I don't know how she got into it."

In this regard, I can only say that teasing is still teasing, this argument cannot stand Stop.

"A Date with Luyu" has lasted for more than 20 years, produced more than 3,000 issues, and received more than 10,000 interviewees. However, only a handful of "ghost scenes" were singled out and repeatedly ridiculed. This is certainly not enough. This partial generalization completely denies Luyu’s overall business capabilities and all achievements. The parts produced by the

factory still have a defective rate. How can you avoid getting your shoes wet when you often walk along the river? After doing something for a long time, it is normal to not be able to do it thoroughly every time.

In addition, as an old viewer of "A Date with Luyu", although I sometimes feel embarrassed for her, I never equate some live performances with her true thoughts. Let's just say, is there a possibility that she Do you need to play a certain persona to achieve your interview goals?

She is not that stupid

The host of a talk show is not sitting there to talk loudly and express himself. Their core responsibility is only one, and that is - to let the guests opposite speak , for Therefore, you don’t hesitate to act stupid or have some conflicts with each other. The key is not to let the words fall to the ground.

I think this is also the goal pursued by a host like Lu Yu. After all, no matter how much she makes a fool of herself, she never has a quiet scene in her underworld scenes, but Xu Zhiyuan's "Thirteen Invitations" does, and it's also called "Thirteen Invitations". "Silence is also a type of true reaction", which belongs to the "rising star". In fact, most of the talk shows we watched when we were young had the primary goal of "eliminating cold spots".

So, what did Lu Yu do to make the "throw the ball - catch the ball" game go smoothly?

First of all, she set up a persona for herself - the straightforward and arrogant stupid green .

Regarding the speeches of the guests, when it is time to question, interrupt, and refute, it may not be supported by rigorous logic and solid theory, but the main point is to refute one first, so that the other party will not have to explain immediately, and there will be no further explanation. Is it ready?

It's like asking the children in mountainous areas why they don't eat meat, "Why don't they eat meat? Is meat easy to spoil?" "You all know the price of meat, I don't even know!"

She may not be able to guess that the children Why they don’t eat meat may mean that they don’t know the price of meat. She just uses this as a breakthrough to advance the topic, trying to get a glimpse of their real living conditions through the small section of “eating meat”.

And the pampered urban elder sister who "why not eat minced meat" is just a persona she gave herself.

Of course, the reason why I chose such a personality must be because it is close to her own identity and personality. She was born in Beijing, has a smooth path to study and work, has been visionary since she was a child, and became famous very early. She must not be like her. Dou Wentao puts himself very low in public, so it would be more comfortable to adopt a posture that does not require too much pretense.

However, in essence, the host wants to hide the edge of . Lu Yu also has her own bottom line and sense of proportion. Although seems to always "singing against others", it is mostly "clear and solid support". When

interviewed Zhou Xun, Zhou Xun said that when she learned that she was going to cooperate with Tony Leung, Liu Qingyun, Er Dongsheng and other big names, she was very excited and couldn't help but hide in the corner and laugh out loud. She asked Lu Yu, can you Can you imagine my happiness?

Lu Yu replied expressionlessly: I can’t understand.

Embarrassed, Zhou Xun immediately stood up and left the field.

The clip you are watching may end here, but it is not over yet. Lu Yu quickly smoothed things over: Listen to my explanation, it belongs to Aunt Jiang! I can understand if you are a newcomer, but you have been in the industry for many years and have experienced various big scenes. Logically speaking, you should be very calm inside.

This section is actually much more soothing and clever than the "eating meat" section. On the one hand, it praises Zhou Xun - "I think you are also a big shot", on the other hand, it also sends words to others, and on the other hand, it strengthens the audience's respect for Zhou Xun. Pure memories of a little girl, what a successful public relations interview, Zhou Xun’s team has to pay more for Ms. Chen, right?

There is also Zhou Xingchi's time, the overall effect is not as smooth and round as Zhou Xun's time, but Lu Yu actually wants to praise it, and there is no malicious intention.

Stephen Chow joked to himself: "When I say I am handsome, others will laugh." There was distress and helplessness in his tone. Lu Yu agreed, because you said it, it is indeed funny.

But Stephen Chow, who has a sensitive and fragile personality, seemed to really care about this. He asked again: No, I mean if I say I am handsome.

Lu Yu seemed to have sensed something, and replied: "Yes, it will be very funny if you watch the movie, because it is your movie."

Up to this point, it is all praise.

Then she may have caught the message of "the answer was not as expected" from Mr. Zhou's eyes, so she added the famous rhetorical question - "I shouldn't laugh, right?"

As soon as these words came out, the atmosphere was indeed He immediately froze, but fortunately there was a young Xu Jiao next to him. Lu Yu had an idea and made good use of this third party. She asked Xu Jiao: "Do you think I should laugh?" ’ Finally, when she received a positive reply from Sui Si, she breathed a sigh of relief: “If you say you should laugh, then I’ll be relieved.”

and Chen Peisi were also complimenting that time.

Chen Peisi talked about his creative experience there, how he worried about amusing everyone and worrying about the box office, looking like a humble ascetic. Later, Lu Yu leaned on the sofa with one hand and asked: Don't you have to worry about ? You won't keep us from laughing!

This is of course a compliment, praising Chen Laosi for his excellent business ability and how he can easily make others laugh.

It's just that the words are somewhat flattering.I would like to ask, would an old artist who downplays honor and disgrace care about your compliment after expressing his creative ideas? No, he prefers that you understand what he says, otherwise he will feel like he is "playing the piano to an ox".

So Lu Yu’s compliments and skills were completely misplaced. Chen Peisi replied, "That's because I was worried," and then turned his head disdainfully, silently rolling his eyes.

I thought that "I praise you" will always help to greatly stimulate your desire for expression, but it turns out that this method is not suitable for everyone, especially those guests with an "artistic brain" who are eager to understand.

In addition to boasting, Lu Yu also has another principle, which is that is aligned with the audience's cognitive average level of . That is to say, maybe I am not that stupid, I am not that unenlightened, but the audience may have a certain stereotype, so I will ask for them.

’s interview with Tony Leung Ka Fai was a typical case.

Liang Jiahui considers himself a very liberal parent. His daughter fell in love at the age of fourteen and let her go. Lu Yu asked: "Don't you need to see what the boy looks like?" Liang Jiahui replied: "It's not that I want to marry him. ?"

Lu Yu asked again: "What should we consider for the future?" Liang Jiahui: "I was penniless when I got married."

Lu Yu also asked: "What kind of person am I?" Liang Jiahui; "I was also penniless at that time. Not so good."

The veteran Hong Kong star is really open-minded and upright.

But I think Lu Yu is not that traditional. She has a background in studying in the United States. The reason why she asks this question is most likely to create conflicts. She becomes a spokesperson for traditional parenting concepts and has a head-on confrontation with new ideas. Only by collision can there be a collision. Sparks, there are sparks to watch, not to mention, there is an audience below, right?

Is "A Date with Lu Yu" outdated?

In summary, we have seen Lu Yu’s methodology, but also the limitations of this methodology.

wears a shell that combines sharpness and praise, which is both slightly offensive and insincere. Especially for guests with delicate emotions and down-to-earth people, this method is very easy. Isolate their desire for “one-to-one communication.”

In fact, he just wants you to understand what he says and give a just right response, but you insist on interrupting and applauding for a while, playing tricks, but the result is counterproductive.

So we can see that Stephen Chow's condition in the episode when he was interviewed by Chai Jing was obviously better than that of Lu Yu. There was no audience, no need to exaggerate the atmosphere, just the two of them.

Chai Jing: Why do you use those words from many years ago (I once had a sincere relationship...I hope it lasts ten thousand years)?

Zhou: Maybe I have a sentimental attachment to those sentences.

Chai Jing: Can I understand it as an involuntary thought that I want to say what I want to say in my life at this time?

Zhou: Yes, do you feel this way too?

Chai Jing: Yes.

Zhou: Thank you, thank you.

may seem like an understatement, but every step hits the mark. This is another approach.

However, Lu Yu is also a growing Lu Yu. In recent years, when she worked on "Big Shots in a Day", her blustering energy was obviously less, and she was much gentler and more delicate. The interviewees generally tended to be middle-aged and above high-end people who were more experienced and calm.

Moreover, her biggest shortcoming in the eyes of the public is exactly where she always shines - she really never has stage fright! No matter what kind of celebrity the interviewee is, she can handle it with ease without being humble or arrogant. This ability is a rare asset for conducting interviews of any kind.

What's more, Lu Yu, who has been working hard in the daily morning live news, has already developed profound basic skills. Needless to say, the ability to absorb information and adapt to situations is difficult for media people who have become a monk to compare. of.

Nowadays, the self-media circle is also full of many talk shows. However, under the special ecology, it is difficult to achieve the influence of early talk shows because the operating logic of self-media talk shows is similar to "A Date with Luyu" They are completely different.

Self-media talk shows rely more on the uniqueness of guests. It is best for you to be a big celebrity or have unique experiences, so that you can bring "explosive points" to the program and allow bloggers to be better seen; and Lu Yu , Dou Wentao, Li Jing and others first use their own content to form brand influence, and then attract more big names.

To put it bluntly, it is a question of "people praise the program more" or "the program praises people more". I recall that "Happy Camp", which has disappeared for a long time, was originally a program to promote people, whoever is popular will be popular, but later it became whoever is popular, and whoever is popular will be popular, and the program itself also came to an end.

So is "A Date with Lu Yu" outdated?

Lu Yu is still improving as an interviewer. Many of her qualities are still indispensable for today's media people. "A Date with Lu Yu" is still the best among current interview programs. But this program Very lonely, coming from the previous era, like a living fossil without companions.

Lu Yu’s own views on marriage and love may still be updating, but the glorious era of talk shows has passed, and it is now difficult to come up with any new tricks. So my suggestion is: Regarding Lu Yu and "A Date with Lu Yu", just laugh at it and watch it and cherish it~~