Everyone is born equal, but the wealth and poverty situation of each person is very different;
Subject to people's innate conditions, original family, environment, and education level, people are divided into rich and poor;
Of course, people are constantly growing and changing, and cannot be determined with one stroke;
People who were poor before will not necessarily be poor in the future, and people who are rich now will not necessarily live well in the future;
It is worth noting that rich people often have The cost of trial and error, and poor people who want to try, often bear a high price;
If you want to get rich, you first need to change your thinking;
Generally speaking, the poorer a person is, the more he likes to be generous in these three things, forming a vicious cycle , hope you don’t have one.
is too generous in helping others share responsibilities and deal with troubles.
Being poor is not scary. What is scary is the deep sense of inferiority that arises from being poor.
The poorer and poor-hearted the person, the more he hopes for others. The more you think highly of yourself, the less you want to admit that you are poor;
The characteristic of people like this is that once people around them encounter trouble, they often choose to "come forward" without knowing the cause and effect;
In fact, If you don't have the ability to help others share their responsibilities, don't make a fool of yourself;
because once things don't go well, you will only be ridiculed by others and expose your own limitations;
Life is actually no big deal. How capable you are, you take as much risk as you want, it's that simple;
You insist on taking on responsibilities that are not yours, and pretending that you are capable, capable, and well-connected is actually the most stupid sign;
is really difficult Those who live in poverty are because they have weak foundations and poor ability to take risks. One mistake can easily lead to disaster;
Therefore, it is not your responsibility, it is not yours to bear, and you should not take the blame for others;
is too good at distributing benefits. Generous
The most harmonious state when we get along with others is "fair and reasonable";
In the workplace, in school, in family life, and when dealing with strangers, a wealthy person knows how to strive for reasonableness. People who distribute benefits;
It’s yours, it’s yours, it’s not yours, and you’ll feel uneasy if you take it;
However, some people pretend to be generous and hand over the benefits unconditionally to those who should clearly enjoy them. I gave it to others, but I still live a hard life, letting my family suffer with it; people like
are not poor, but who is?
A classmate of mine lives abroad. When they were renovating their house, they found that the designer had made a mistake in the drawings;
At the beginning, the other party did not want to admit it, let alone compensate;
However, her husband insisted on his principles and finally got compensation for his home. You have received justice and received a lot of compensation;
In reality, if you are still generous even though you know that you have been let down and not treated fairly, then you are stupid and cowardly.
is too generous in giving his time
There is no big difference in the intelligence and ability of ordinary people;
The real difference lies in whether we persist and move towards a goal day after day;
In life , people often complain that others come and go as soon as they are called upon;
In fact, this may be caused by two reasons. One reason is that the other person is not good enough and does not know how to respect you;
The other reason is that you do not cherish it. Your own time is too cheap, and others will naturally not value you. That’s why they consume you casually and waste your time;
If a person is always too generous with his own time, then he is not very generous. Possibly, gain a foothold in this highly competitive society.
will only become poorer, because he does not have much time to make money and think, and has been hovering at a low level without substantial progress and improvement.
As long as you live, there is no need to be too generous in many things;
What you have to be responsible for is not to let the quality of your life decline. As for the opinions of outsiders, it is not that important;
When will you not feel ashamed because you are poor? , don’t feel inferior because of poverty, be sober and rational when you are poor, and you will be mature;
because others can no longer hit you.
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