Xiaohui, who has been working outside for the past few years, heard her mother say as soon as she returned home that Uncle Zhang's child was getting married, and she had found a girl ten years younger than herself. Their little family should be very happy in the future. Xiaohui felt puzzled. How could her husband still say he was very happy when he was so many years older than his wife? My mother said that if a husband is older than his wife, he will have a sense of family responsibility, and he will care more about his wife. He will not often quarrel like young couples, or the husband will ignore the family and his wife's feelings, and often make her angry.
So how many years older should the husband be than the wife, that is, what should be the age gap between husband and wife? Let’s listen to the different experiences of some friends.
The first girl said that her husband was six years younger than her. When they were dating, the adults in the family strongly disagreed with them being together. The main reason was that they were worried that the girl would be more tired at home in the future. This girl did not listen to the adults' advice. , insisted on going his own way, and married a boy. The result can be imagined, and now I really regret it. Every day is very tiring, and I feel very bitter in my heart. Because this man who is younger than her will not think about her or care about her feelings. For example, once when he was shopping, he received a call from his friend who asked him to play Landlords. He left his wife and left alone, causing her to squeeze into the bus to go home.
People in the family thought that after giving birth to a child, this man would gradually become more sensible, but what they didn't expect was that after giving birth to a child, he became more aggressive and even more neglectful of his family than before.
The second friend said that her husband is five years older than her. She is very satisfied with her marriage because her husband is older than her and more sensible than her. He will share some housework and take on some tasks. Regarding family responsibilities, he will be considerate of his wife's feelings. He said that being with this husband made her worry less.
After listening to the experiences of the above two friends, everyone thinks that the age gap between husband and wife is the best. We can also make an argument based on the best age for men and women to have children.
The best age for women to have children is probably between the ages of twenty-four and thirty, and the best age for men is between thirty and thirty-six. Because men and women at this age are in better physical and mental states. Children born in this way should be smart. Therefore, from the perspective of childbearing age, the best age difference between husband and wife is between six and seven years.
In fact, as long as there is real affection between husband and wife, the age difference is not an important issue. The most important thing is to have a happy family life and a happy married life, be considerate of each other, and share family responsibilities with each other. In this way, the baby will grow up in a family atmosphere full of happiness and care, and he will definitely be very good.
