The relationship between people, when you think about it, is really delicate; a relationship that you think is solid and stable may actually be shaky; you think that if you treat others sincerely, others will treat you sincerely, but you don’t think that it is only yours. Wishful

The relationship between people, when you think about it, is really subtle;

The relationship you think is solid and stable may actually be shaky;

You think that if you treat others sincerely, others will treat you sincerely. But I don’t think that it’s just your wishful thinking;

interpersonal relationships, to put it bluntly, are a process of value exchange and a cruel game between people;

Once you lose value, others will treat you The attitude often changes greatly;

Generally speaking, people who can reply to you like this on WeChat obviously look down on you and should not interact with you anymore.

He is very perfunctory to you

There is a kind of person who always seems careless when chatting with you on WeChat. The things you have stressed and the feelings you expressed will automatically disappear when you get to him;

You seem to never It's like you've never been seen before;

You will feel very lonely when you chat with this kind of person;

Because he never takes your needs to heart and always treats you perfunctorily, in fact, this is for you A kind of disrespect;

People who really care about you, even if they are across the phone screen from you, even if you only have a momentary mood swing, they will catch it immediately and give you encouragement, listening and comfort;

They I will worry about your worries, think about what you think, and be polite to you no matter how difficult it is;

If you say something to a person on WeChat, but the other person completely forgets it and is always confused and neglectful, This means that you have no weight at all in his heart;

People naturally do not need to pay enough attention to a person who lacks value and weight;

When you meet such a person, please stay away decisively. He will only hurt your feelings and waste your enthusiasm.

Treat you as an audience

Each of us, throughout our lives, longs to be seen, listened to, valued, and loved;

However, you will find that some people are indeed enthusiastic about you. ;

But this kind of enthusiasm and friendliness is based on the fact that you can help them relieve their boredom and you can be their listener willingly without any complaints;

There is a secret between people. Boundaries:

When getting along, there will always be one person who is relatively "upper" and another person who is "lower";

It is difficult for a person who is in a upper position to consider that a "lower" person, in his heart what they are thinking;

The 'superior' often only cares about talking endlessly about his worries and concerns on WeChat, making the 'lower' the object of his emotional vent;

Once you want to say something When it comes to their own affairs, the other party will make excuses and prevaricate. They will not accompany you at all, let alone take the initiative to find opportunities for you to talk about their own affairs and the pain and depression in their hearts.

If you go back and forth like this, you will feel helpless. If he turns a blind eye to your choice, then your relationship will no longer be maintained, and it will be meaningless.

Taking you as the object of ridicule

What is worse than the second situation is that a person becomes the object of ridicule by others;

What we call "superiors" are nothing more than some people who don't know the heights of the world. People who have a sense of superiority, lack empathy and respect, and have a high self-esteem;

Such people, on the surface, appear to be well-off and confident and enterprising;

In fact, they are just healthy narcissists who need to be devalued. Only others can satisfy the narcissistic poor people;

Even if such people hide their pride and vanity very well, as your chat and interaction deepen, they will gradually reveal their true colors;

You You will find that they always habitually judge your affairs excessively, as if they are the authority and you are just a "clown" who has no vision and has never seen the world; people like

tend to Inadvertently, show their bad taste, make fun of you, and tease you at will to balance their fragile self-esteem.

When you meet the above three types of people in WeChat chat, I advise you not to contact them unless necessary;

gives the other person the opportunity to hurt your feelings in vain, and also loses valuable time to improve yourself and enrich yourself;

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