Shi Boxiong and He Youjun hit it off in the variety show "The Educational Journey of Love". When they first met, they could smell that the other person had a lot in common with themselves. Wu Qianyu and Xi Mengyao, as (quasi-daughter-in-law) daughters-in-law who are recognized by wealthy families and cherished by their partners, also have similar temperaments.
Strategy There are so many beautiful actresses from wealthy families, why do Wu Qianyu and Xi Mengyao get love freely and without any means?
Comparing the characteristics of Shi Boxiong and He Youjun, we can get a glimpse of the "secret of choosing a husband".
1. Both of them are young people struggling in their careers.
He Youjun is devoted to starting a business, thinking about making money and success; Shi Boxiong started from the grassroots, worked in a company in London, and climbed all the way to the general manager of the Asia-Pacific region.
Xi Mengyao has complained many times that He Youjun has a tight work schedule and has no time to accompany herself. Shi Boxiong also regards work as the way to realize the value of life and cannot be an idle young man.
Therefore, they also prefer independent women who have achieved something in their own industry.
Wu Qianyu achieved financial independence early on through his career as an actor. When he met Shi Boxiong, Shi Boxiong had lost his family aura and was no more than a clerk, while Wu Qianyu was already a big star who made headlines with every emotional update.
There are so many actors, Wu Qianyu is not a first-line actress, but she is also a female star who stands at the top of the industry.
After getting in touch with her, Shi Boxiong discovered that Wu Qianyu was not the gold-worshiping dodder flower rumored in the tabloids at all. Instead, she was tough and determined.
He mentioned many times that the character traits of his fiancée that attract him and make him feel distressed are: strong.
is so strong that he rarely reveals negative emotions to outsiders. Shi Boxiong is unmarried. Apart from admiring her, he also hopes to protect Wu Qianyu and make her softer after marriage.
Xi Mengyao, even with the tragic fall in the Victoria's Secret show, still cannot erase her status in the supermodel industry that most of her colleagues can't match.
As early as 2011, Xi Mengyao was ranked 42nd on the world's most authoritative international model ranking list.
What's more, there are very few supermodels whose looks conform to Chinese aesthetics, whose emotions are stable, and whose emotional intelligence can pass the stringent standards of Fourth Lady Liang Anqi.
In terms of IQ, Xi Mengyao graduated from Donghua University in 2007 majoring in fashion design and performance, a 211 university. After getting married, she went to Peking University for further studies. Her thinking style is more rational and logical, so she has no pressure to communicate with He Youjun, a top student at MIT.
2. Both of them are big boys who value feelings and need their wives as spiritual support.
Shi Boxiong’s mother passed away early, and the elders in the family were very good at mentoring others. They had to provide guidance on everything from hairstyle and clothing to life planning, which made Shi Boxiong a rebellious man. Before he met Wu Qianyu, he was unhappy with what his elders said. The type that just slams the door and leaves.
After falling in love with Wu Qianyu, Shi Boxiong was influenced by Wu Qianyu and gradually became emotionally stable and able to communicate well with his elders. It can also be seen in daily interactions that Wu Qianyu is the backbone of the relationship between the two, and is more mature and stable.
Shi Boxiong once took Wu Qianyu to worship his mother. Wu Qianyu promised in front of Shi Boxiong's mother's grave that she would take good care of her son. Later, Wu Qianyu thought of this during the quarrel, calmed down instantly and stopped arguing with Shi Boxiong.
She is generous and tolerant, and has no intention of trying to please the rich generation. She is not a dodder flower, but a tree.
When Shi Boxiong suffers from inferiority complex when faced with the success of his pursuers, he will effectively comfort Shi Boxiong: Don't compare with people who are in different stages of life than yourself.
He Youjun has a complicated family, and he hopes that his small family can be different from the He family and have the warmth of simplicity and happiness.
He admired his father and was favored by his mother when he was young. He has always grown up in a loving family atmosphere. The gambling king will return home to spend time with his children during the countdown to the New Year. Even though he is busy at work, he will take time to accompany his children on outings.
For his son, the gambling king has repeatedly told him the family motto: Listen to your wife and you will get rich.
After marrying Xi Mengyao, He Youjun devoted himself to work and desperately needed Xi Mengyao as a haven. He slept in Xi Mengyao's arms and relied on Xi Mengyao to help him take care of his daily life.
Xi Mengyao is willing to cooperate with his childish side, coaxing him like a child and giving him enough emotional value.
3. The two of them have sunny and cheerful personalities, and they are not discouraged when looking for the other half.
Wu Qianyu was raised strictly by a tiger mother since she was a child, which formed a character that is not good at expressing emotions. This is the shadow of her childhood, but it also gave her the habit of being sunny and positive, and only sharing happiness with others.
There is no pretense. Whether it is the initial dissatisfaction of Shi Boxiong's father or the worries about work and life, Wu Qianyu responds head-on. She will not appear like a "whispering" little woman or vent her complaints. Instead of being dissatisfied, focus on solving the problem.
Such a temperament is so charming.
Xi Mengyao has extremely high emotional intelligence and can handle any situation with positive emotions. Dissatisfaction with He Youjun will be communicated through coquettishness, and some imperfections in details are simply "invisible". The
program team asked the guests to recall "old pain". Xi Mengyao thought for a long time and gave an example of being forced to feed by an aunt in a kindergarten, but she couldn't eat quickly and was scolded.
She doesn't have any heavy memories, saying that she has always grown up peacefully, and even though she was nicknamed "White Bone Demon" because of her height, she didn't feel too big about it.
Occasionally during emo moments, after being enlightened by He Youjun, I will immediately switch to the "I am too good" mentality. Good at encouraging and praising, cheerful and very relaxed every day.
Shi Boxiong and He Youjun are both described as "sunshine" by the outside world, so their partners will also give priority to women who have no sense of despair and are full of vitality.
Somehow, whether it is Shi Boxiong, He Youjun, or Wu Qianyu Xi Mengyao, they have chosen the most suitable partner. From an economic point of view, they are high and low, but spiritually, they are comparable to each other.
As the old saying goes, fate is destined.
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