"Fashion Queen" magazine reported that a few days ago, in the news footage, I saw the chairman of Hon Hai Group, Guo Taiming, with his mother and eldest daughter sitting in the concert of Tsai Qin, and the camera was also taken to his wife Zeng Xinying, who generously joined the stage Cai Qin interacted with her, showing a gentle and sweet smile, just like on the day of the shooting, we saw her single-handedly carrying a suitcase to the studio. A warm smile appeared under her sunglasses and said good morning. She just felt the outside temperature and said that the weather was hot, Thoughtfully asked today's work partner to order a drink, maybe she is a very "different" woman in the eyes of outsiders because of her husband's relationship, but after the fate of this interview, Zeng Xinying is actually a next-door sister who has no sense of distance. Listen to us as she grows through the three roles of wife, mother and social giver.
Guo Taiming's wife Zeng Xinying
Zeng Xinying speaks in a well-spoken, slow and warm manner. She also behaves gracefully when shooting, and can adjust her posture by looking at the screen. All her actions give people a feeling of peace of mind, but she immediately blew herself up: "Actually, I'm not very confident, maybe it's because I want everyone to relax, so I pretended to be calm just now; I didn't like to face the camera or take pictures before. What's even more funny is that once I entered the studio, I would even 90 Bow down, I apologize to everyone for being unphotogenic, and I need to trouble everyone to bear it, because I have gradually gotten used to it and improved over the past few years.”
She said that the changes along the way may be related to dance, if it is not because of learning dance, Now she will be a shy person who doesn't like to be pushy. Starting around the age of 20, she has represented Taiwan in cultural exchange activities. Facing the heads of states, she began to teach dance after graduation, from children to office workers, and even boss-level students. Facing different ethnic groups, students practice dance steps, while she practices the steps of "heart" and treats everything with heart. The experience along the way has taught her to gradually learn to face herself and open her heart.
has such a gentle personality, which also makes people curious about her relationship with her husband, "My husband is domineering, but he also has a tender side in private, just like I also have a very personal side. What's more, we are very different in age and have different personalities. It is inevitable that there will be friction and differences when we get along, but I will not make trouble out of nowhere. It must be mutual respect." In the past 8 years of marriage, the two rarely quarreled, and sometimes they just said two loud words. People will stop tacitly, not you coming and I will keep arguing, waiting for the right time and then pretending to be okay, she also shared that she had communicated by letter twice, "Because there was something that was not said, the knot was always there, It took a few days to solve it, maybe the man didn't think too much, but the woman would just get sullen in her heart. Considering that he was busy with work, one day I got up and wrote a letter when I couldn't sleep. The purpose of writing the letter was not to quarrel, but It was to tell him what I cared about, he replied, signed it, and then it was all right. In fact, it was very important to find a way to communicate with each other.”
asked about her husband's tenderness, Zeng Xinying said that most of them are small things in life, very life-like actions, but she can see the thoughtfulness and delicacy in them; recalling the trip abroad together when they were newly married, she took a shower from the bathroom, When I came out of the bathroom, I saw my husband taking off the slippers and facing the bathroom, so that she could put them on as soon as she went out. Tell his wife that this is the flower he just picked; or bring back the flower from the wedding feast, take it out of his pocket and give it to his wife, or wrap biscuits and candy in a tissue, go home and give it to the child and say, "This is Dad brought it back for you to eat!" This is enough for her to remember for a long time, no romantic surprises are needed, the warmth in life is the key to maintaining a marriage.
's tender side also includes Zeng Xinying's concern about her ex-wife Lin Shuru, "No matter how busy he is, whether he is abroad or not, he will return to China on his ex-wife's death day and birthday, and offer incense to worship. This is a very warm gesture, and I am not There will be other ideas, and people have to think positively before they can have good energy."
Zeng Xinying said emotionally, the pressure that her husband faces every day is unimaginable to outsiders, he does not like to socialize, and he does not socialize much, except for work or work , after get off work is to go home, all she can do is to take good care of the home, let him feel warm and comfortable when he comes home, see the smiling faces of his children and his wife, he can relieve some work pressure, and the husband will even say to them: " Yes, yes, I just like to see your happy smiling faces!"
talked about three children with different personalities, Zeng Xinying deserves to be a teacher, she understands children's psychology very well,Everything must be communicated in advance, and the principles should be set with the child, but they will observe the child's physical and mental condition and characteristics to adjust, and will not force the child to do it. She can watch TV or tablet in time; she is not a broken-hearted, hysterical mother, she hopes that the space in the home can be very clean; adults do not break appointments when they say good things, set an example, if she really forgets it, she will definitely Apologize to the children; there is no fixed pattern for each review, and it is always adjusted, not set in a standardization, so that they can learn invisibly and without pressure, so spend a lot of time on the children.
is surrounded by 3 children every day. It's exhausting, but it's a lot of fun. It's really a sweet burden. She also enjoys the process of growing up with the children. For example, she was nervous when she gave birth to a girl for the first time, because it was the first time to be a mother. ;Recalling my daughter's first grade, because she wanted to fully understand what her daughter is learning now, she studied more seriously than she did. After sending her to bed, she helped her to draw the key points. She was the best book boy.
In addition to growing up with her child, Zeng Xinying gradually grew stronger with the birth of her child. Before she got married, she never thought that the world would be turned upside down, because her thoughts were always pure, and only after marriage did she realize the media follow-up and the outside world. How unstoppable the rhetoric is. She used to cry because of pressure, and she was saddened by negative reviews. She didn't understand why she used to be so popular, and how it would become like this when she got married. After a few years of mental adjustment, "marriage has It’s a fact, there’s no way to change other people’s minds, it’s impossible to ask everyone to understand you, accept you, like you, it’s true to be yourself, and it’s true to work hard to live your own life.”
feels that he has seen around him in recent years. In the case of a friend who is sick, now, in addition to her own family, she will spend more time with her relatives and friends. I hope everyone can be happy and safe. Nothing is more important than health. This is an ordinary thing that no amount of money can replace. She will also This love is given back to the society. In addition to participating in the Yongling Education Charity Opportunities jointly established by the husband and his ex-wife, he also privately uses volunteers to sponsor students who are in poverty, or the arts that are closely related to him. In 2018, he helped the same group of college students by providing funds for them to perform in nursing homes, and sent a letter of thanks to Zeng Xinying, "Whenever they thank me, I always say that they are great, because these students came to the scene in person, and some Money gives money and power to help, this is a good cycle of good fate, while helping others, my heart is also full of joy.”
Zeng Xinying took her little daughter on the same birthday last year to shoot a hearing-impaired public service advertisement, personal and Yongling Foundation Donated a total of 6 million yuan to assist Yawen Children's Listening Language Education Foundation, Developmental Delayed Children's Foundation, Taiwan Public Welfare Social Practice Association and other groups to help the needs of disadvantaged hearing-impaired children or developmentally delayed children. Spreading love is the best Birthday gifts, without asking for anything in return, I hope there will be more of this positive cycle of goodness in the society. After
became a married woman, Zeng Xinying became more low-key, laughing that she was actually a housekeeper, she took care of her children at home, and seldom went out. After she said another reason for not going out, it made people feel her empathy for others even more. , she hoped that the driver could leave work earlier and be able to go home to accompany the child. After the filming and interview of the day, she said that she could take me on the way. Such a humble and friendly gesture made people feel warm from the heart.
