So, today I want to talk about the Internet explosions I have suffered, most of them are based on my age and appearance, to be honest, I never feel ugly, but I am not a beautiful woman, I am a woman with ordinary looks and ordinary qualifications , I have always been the inconspicuous one in the crowd since I was a child. As for age, it is a matter of security and privacy, and I just passed my birthday recently.
Why do many people like to judge women's age? In the past, I thought it was really old to be 30 years old, but when I stepped into this threshold one year, I didn't feel that way. On the one hand, the current society has changed. 60 years old is not old, let alone 30 , 40 years old; on the other hand, my psychological age is relatively young, and I will try my best to protect my innocent heart. Moreover, I really like the state of myself after 30+, self-confidence, self-reliance, hard work, positive, it's amazing!
I remember that after breaking up with my first love, he suddenly called me big sister, I was very upset, he said you were older than me! In fact, I was only 2 months older than him, and for the first time I realized that age can be a tool for attacking others.
, like the later cyber riots, it is impossible not to be hurt, because my heart is also fleshy. I am a hard-working and caring girl. Of course, I also like to be praised. I have seen evil in the middle of the night several times. I was so angry that I couldn't sleep, but not anymore.
Because I really love myself and identify with myself, I feel that I have done a great job, although there are shortcomings, shortcomings, and mistakes, but so what? Life is not easy, why are you being so harsh on yourself!
When I was in school, I was always questioned. I like writing poetry and painting. My classmates said I was unrealistic and romantic. In my first job, I liked to read a book about studying abroad. Saying you read this book is useless, you can't go abroad in this life! However, I have done all these things now, insisting on painting, reading, and going to several countries.
Although I look ordinary and get older, I will arrange my life. In my spare time, I will plan my time and future so that I don't waste time. I love traveling, painting, exercising, and maintaining health. Life is much more positive, sunny, and fulfilling than when I was in my 20s. Instead of giving up on myself because of getting older, I cherish it even more.
So far, I still have a dream and believe I can take it step by step! I still believe that I have other possibilities. For example, I used to be a reporter, and now I am a travel blogger and travel self-media person, but in the future, I may also become an illustrator, art therapist, and curator, as long as I pay attention to it. Go towards it with the goal!
Some people say that since you want to post your photos on the Internet, you should endure other people's comments or even bad comments. Yes, comments are okay, but please don't attack yourself, please don't use malicious language! Besides, as a travel blogger, I share photos in order to have a real sense of reading and let everyone have a more vivid sense of experience. This is my job.
Some people also say that you should not post photos online, I think there is no problem with sharing, especially positive and positive sharing, whether it is a travel blogger or an ordinary person, everyone has the right and freedom to share, just like we usually buy If you have a beautiful piece of clothes or a bag, you will want to wear it for shopping and travel, and show your beautiful side, and the world will be more beautiful and colorful. If everyone doesn't show it, and hides themselves tightly, is it a form of self-enclosure? How many beautiful landscapes will be missing, but we live in the 21st century with ever-changing and fashionable trends!
Besides, if you post your photos online, should you accept other people's language violence ? This is a connivance of online violence. It’s like, we usually dress beautifully and even go out very sexy. It’s not to criticize others, and no one has the right to scold others for their clothes, or speak badly. Some When people say bad things online, it's just because the Internet is separated from the screen. If they were in real life, they probably wouldn't dare to rush over to say you are old, ugly, or ugly.You shouldn't be wearing this, are you? ! However, don't forget that the Internet also has memory, and your IP will also give you nowhere to run.
said this because I hope no matter who you are, don't easily deny yourself because of others, don't be easily negatively influenced by others, and believe that you can become a better version of yourself.
also hope that netizens will not easily speak ill of a stranger. Sometimes your words of encouragement and praise can bring strength to others and bring a good mood all day, and this will also be a blessing, not ?
