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Recently, the 55-year-old TVB veteran who once played Xu Wenqiang in the 96 edition of " New Shanghai Beach " Chen Jinhong has frequently appeared in business performances in the Mainland, and it is the first time in 26 years Nian played Xu Wenqiang again. After the agent posted photos and videos, it also aroused the nostalgia of many netizens. Netizens who are familiar with
should also know that in addition to 's identity as an actor, Chen Jinhong is also well-known to the public because of another identity, that is, the parents of children with autism, who have spent 30 million to treat their sons, This is exactly what He is now semi-retired and basically does not act, and he frequently runs the business to show the reason for his family.
And after the performance, Chen Jinhong also made a special trip to the backstage of the commercial performance to share his experience patiently with a staff member who also has an autistic child. The staff also praised Chen Jinhong for being too friendly and down-to-earth, without star power.
Although Chen Jinhong played , Xu Wenbiao, , Hu Fei and many other decent protagonists on TVB, they were all far from the big hits. is the most familiar to mainland audiences. Instead, it is the villain Xu Wenbiao in " Genesis " .
In the play, Chen Jinhong showed a good young man who had a conscience and adhered to principles, but was forced to degenerate step by step. Heavy burdened workers feel the same way.
And off-screen, Chen Jinhong is a good husband and father.
Chen Jinhong was originally born in a middle-class family in Hong Kong, where his father ran a factory. But unfortunately, when Chen Jinhong was very young, a fire destroyed the entire factory, and his father was in a hurry and died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage.
As the only male in the family, the early death of his father made Chen Jinhong become independent since he was a child, helping his mother go out to work and take care of several sisters.
After graduating from middle school, Chen Jinhong, who has excellent appearance conditions, also passed the Hong Kong Academy for Performing Arts and officially embarked on the path of an actor. Joined ATV and TVB successively, and filmed many classic dramas such as "New Shanghai Beach", " Snow Mountain Flying Fox ", "Genesis", " Heaven and Earth Pride ", " Criminal Investigation File 4", " Wife ", etc. This is well known to the audience.
Chen Jinhong, who has always been low-key, has not had any scandals for many years. During the prosperous career, he married Du Wenhui, a singer girlfriend who had been in love for many years.
It is precisely because of the experience of losing his father since childhood and living with his mother and several sisters that Chen Jinhong knows that women are not easy and feels that women need to be protected more, so he resolutely puts all the real estate and cars under his name in his wife's name. Down.
In 2007, 40-year-old Chen Jinhong gave birth to his son Chen Jiaye. He lost his father since childhood and had a son in middle age. When he was about to raise his son well, he encountered a major blow - was two years old, and his son still He can't speak, he is only immersed in his own world, and even his parents don't seem to exist. Sure enough, after an examination at the hospital, Chen Jinhong found that his son was suffering from autism .
At first, Chen Jinhong, like most parents of children with autism, concentrated on making money outside to treat his son's illness, and pinned the hope of his son's cure on doctors and experts.
But after a long time, Chen Jinhong found that his son's condition still did not improve much. He could not learn to write a word repeatedly for several days, and even the experts did not have much hope.look. But Chen Jinhong still doesn't believe in evil : "If you don't treat your child as a normal person as a parent, then he will never be normal."
After all, no one in this world understands children better than parents. Chen Jinhong began to realize that money is endless, and the company of parents is the most important thing for children with autism. To this end, Chen Jinhong simply took a break from the shadows, devoted himself to accompanying the child, and began to study and study various autism-related materials to find a way to rescue his son.
"If he can't do it 100 times, I will teach him 500 times, 1000 times" , Chen Jinhong takes the trouble to teach his son over and over again, from reading and writing, to eating, going to the toilet and other aspects of life - Only then did Chen Jinhong realize that for For children with autism, the whole external world is unfamiliar and insecure. The first and most important thing is to build trust in the people closest to them, so that children can believe that this person is "reliable". Huangtian paid off. When his son finally began to trust his father and called him "Dad", Chen Jinhong also cried with joy, knowing that his efforts were finally not in vain.
relying on Chen Jinhong's unremitting efforts, finally let his son gradually learn to take care of himself and start to live and study like a normal person. And his son did not live up to his expectations. After he entered primary school, he once took the first place in the grade.
Just like Chen Jinhong said, autistic children are not monsters, as long as they find a suitable education method, they can find their own shining points.
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In recent years, there have been many activities in the mainland, so Chen Jinhong also bought a luxury house of nearly 1,000 square feet (about 90 square meters) in Guangzhou, and also used it as a base for his son to live and study in the mainland. In order to better integrate into the motherland, Chen Jinhong also began to watch CCTV news with his son, asked the teacher to teach mandarin , and stood up and sang the national anthem together every day.
As an influential public figure, Chen Jinhong also knows how difficult it is to have an autistic child at home, so over the years, he has been actively sharing his parenting experience, publishing books, coming to the mainland, and holding sharing sessions. I hope to use my experience to help more families like him.
Of course, every child with autism is different, and the methods of doctors and experts may not be applicable, but as Chen Jinhong said: "Every child is an independent individual, even a child with autism, Respect them like normal children, after all, parents are always the strongest backing for children!"
