After Shen Meizhuang was released from the ban, she has been refusing the emperor on the grounds of physical discomfort. Even the emperor himself came to see her, but he was cold words.
A nobleman, why would he dare to slap his face like this in the face of the emperor?
Some people say that it is because of Sister Mei's arrogance that she would rather die with her head on her head than to blow into the north wind.
is not so much arrogance as it is the transparency after the catastrophe.
Because of the fake pregnancy incident, the emperor directly found her guilty when there were many doubts, and punished her to ban her from the Xianyue Pavilion and forbid anyone to visit.
not only that, Hua Fei also sent her a tea set for the epidemic patient, trying to use the epidemic to kill her.
Fortunately, Zhen Huan quietly asked Wen Shichu to see her doctor, otherwise she would have died long ago, not even knowing whether it was a natural or man-made disaster.
Sister Mei, who turned around before the gate of hell, was enlightened.
The meaning of her life is no longer to pursue the emperor's favor and stable status, but to live well in the harem and seek revenge for Concubine Hua.
Of course, to achieve this goal and regain the emperor's favor is the most direct.
Her talent and beauty are completely in line with the emperor's taste, and the emperor has already cast an olive branch on her.
As long as she is willing to go down the stairs, she doesn't have to bow her head, and it will only take a minute to gain the favor of the past.
However, Shen Meizhuang did not choose this path, but chose to stay away from the emperor and not give the emperor a good face.
why? Could it be that
is hanging on to the emperor hard-to-get?
From the perspective of the whole plot, it is not so simple.
But she has a cost thinking, that is, she sums up this matter. If you do this, the cost is too high and it is not worthwhile.
first, emotional cost.
She was completely hurt by the emperor's ruthlessness, and she completely saw the nature of the emperor's scumbag.
came over to show her favor now, just to make her sleep and covet her beauty. Sister
Mei felt disgusted when she saw him. If she was flattering, she would have to endure a lot of torture emotionally.
Because, hating someone, but pretending to like it is also a very tiring thing.
Second, the cost of risk.
has a saying since ancient times that the emperor is like a tiger.
is like what she said: it is just a fluke in favor of honor, but it is only thirty years in Hedong, and the current situation in Hexi has changed in thirty years, and there is no stable theory.
So, even if you are favored for a while, how can you guarantee that you will always be favored?
and when he is favored, he will definitely become the target of public criticism, and when he falls out of favor, he will be trampled by everyone again.
It can be seen that it is difficult to save one's life after being favored, let alone take revenge.
Third, the cost of friendship.
The person on the top of the emperor's heart now is her best sister Zhen Huan.
Although Zhen Huan always persuaded her not to keep the emperor out, she still had to fight for the favor.
However, once Sister Mei is favored, she will share Zhen Huan's favor to some extent.
has been around for a long time, and it is inevitable that there will be no rift. Because Meizhuang gave up on the emperor, Zhen Huan did not.
Zhen Huan once said that there is no woman in the world who is willing to share her husband with others.
Even if the queen has been arguing for the emperor to choose his concubine, she is pretending to be virtuous, so why don't you hate it in your heart.
If, for the sake of a scumbag, the love of the sisters is ruined, Meizhuang thinks it is not worth it.
Therefore, with such a high cost and low profit, Sister Mei chose not to do it.
Therefore, she no longer blindly pleases, lives against her will, and flatters and competes for favor for the illusory Jun's grace.
that still wants to achieve the goalHow to do it?
She chose to support Zhen Huan, standing behind Zhen Huan, not only to help her, but also to help herself.
Because, their enemies are Hua Fei.
As long as Zhen Huan is favored, she will have a backer. Even if there is no emperor's favor, others will not neglect her too much. The matter of
dealing with Concubine Hua is not a one-time affair, as long as she and sister Zhen Huan are united, there will always be a day of revenge.
Therefore, Sister Mei dared to shake her face with the emperor confidently. The worst result of
's face-shaming was nothing more than annoyed the emperor and stopped coming to see her, which made him quiet.
She didn't want to see the emperor anyway. What
didn't expect was that the emperor still had a crush on her.
Because the emperor is also a man, he also has the desire to conquer.
This tells us a truth, that is: the more you dare to be yourself, the more charming you are, the more you love yourself, and the more attractive you are! It can be seen from
that if you blindly please, you will not only lose yourself, but also reduce your weight in the hearts of others.
Only when the mind of pleasing others is spent on pleasing oneself, is it a sure-fire business.
Mei sister rejected the emperor, in addition to the above-mentioned cost is too high, there is another important reason.
is just afraid that he will be fascinated by glory and wealth again, and the scar will forget the pain.
She once said: people are greedy, always take one step further, and want to go further, enough is enough, is the long-term way.
She was afraid that after she was favored, she wanted to be favored even more, and she forgot her original intention and revenge.
went all the way up, and in the end, the higher you climbed, the more painful it would be to fall. Not as good as
, don't work hard for favor, spend time and energy on supporting Zhen Huan, so that you can solve problems with clear thinking.
Sure enough, without the entanglement of love and hate, Sister Mei opened up and showed her calmness and wisdom.
After Zhen Huan had a miscarriage, she didn't just feel sad, but asked , Imperial Doctor Wen, to check the prescription and dregs of the anti-abortion pill, whether there was any problem.
wants to help Zhen Huan find out who is behind her.
Then, tell Imperial Doctor Wen not to tell the Zhen family first, in order not to make Zhen Huan's parents sad.
When Zhen Huan couldn't get out of the pain of losing her child, she was self-indulgent.
She dragged Zhen Huan to the cold palace to see those concubines who fell out of favor, all dirty and speechless, almost insane. The purpose of
is to wake Zhen Huan and let her fight again.
In Meizhuang's view, Zhen Huan is different from her. Zhen Huan has feelings for the emperor, and it was Concubine Hua who caused Zhen Huan to lose her child, not the emperor.
Therefore, whether it is to avenge the child or to survive by herself, Zhen Huan has no reason to sink.
When her life was on the line, it was Zhen Huan who saved her. Now, Zhen Huan is in distress, and she has to save her.
Zhen Huan also lived up to the painstaking efforts of Sister Mei, and finally cheered up.
Although Shen Meizhuang did not have the emperor's favor, he gained a friendship with Zhen Huan and lived as he liked as much as possible, not to please or harm others.
not only obeyed his heart, but also saw the downfall of Concubine Hua with his own eyes and avenged himself.
In her whole life, although she was confined in the red wall, she made a red apricot out of the wall once, and it was considered a success.
Sometimes fate is not a choice, but you can always choose to live for yourself.
As long as she can bear the result, nothing is impossible, even in the face of the emperor, she dare not show a good face.
A person's time and energy are limited, and his life is not long. Focusing on the most important things is the best choice.
please rememberLiving: The cost of pleasing others is too high, and being yourself is a huge profit.
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