TV series " exam ", the soup that has been simmered for more than 20 days in a pot of slow fire is boiling!
Candidates from Jinhe County, after the epidemic, floods, and the postponement of the college entrance examination , completed their answer sheets and bid farewell to the middle school era;
Shi Aihua, the principal of
No. 4 Middle School, sent away the last batch of students in their careers and ushered in the moment of retirement without any regrets;
Principal of No. 1 Middle School Wang Benzhong , sent the high-spirited students back to their parents, turned around gracefully, and walked to the school;
busy with their livelihood, parents who never stopped running, put everything down, came to the school gate, and welcomed the children who had finished the exam ;
children, let go of the long-term pressure, responsibility and anxiety, and welcome the arrival of a new life... The
scene is truly touching!
is full of youthful atmosphere and full of positive energy.
Whose youth is unassuming? The warm and touching pictures of
trigger the audience's memories to kill.
's delicate and real emotional expression moved the audience in a mess. Netizens shouted:
"real enough!" The end of the plot: The big exam of
school is over!
The children's big test is over!
However, the big test for parents is not over yet! This drama
still leaves many unfinished topics for parents, which is worth thinking about by parents!
Score or growth, which is more important? The finale of
was very successful, but there were a lot of suspense left for the audience:
many people wanted to know how many points they got in the exam; did
Zhou Bowen get into the target school?
Are Tian Wenwen and Zhou Bowen University in the same city?
Has Wu Jiajun been admitted to art school?
Where did Gao Mingyu go to school, what about his grandfather?
However, the plot ended in joy and did not give an account of these practical problems.
This leads to a question: which is more important, grades or growth?
Looking back, in recent years, most of the film and television dramas about children's education have focused on topics such as chicken , extracurricular classes, specialty training, and the complex of famous schools.
's pursuit of scores has reached a high point, and parents are anxious.
This drama, on the contrary, does not focus on scores, but shows many factors behind the scores that affect the growth of children: parental company, parents' marital feelings, family atmosphere, and the school's educational philosophy, the impact on children. influences.
looks at what children go through as they prepare for exams, in their home and school life, and how they grow. In the
play, there is Wang Benzhong, the principal who attaches great importance to scores, and Shi Aihua, the principal who attaches great importance to growth. The collision of the two concepts runs through.
Wang Benzhong attaches great importance to grades, the rate of further education, and his management is more strict, but his original intention is not because of his traditional ideas, but because he loves children from the bottom of his heart, can put himself in the students' shoes, and influence students every bit.
Shi Aihua, as an old principal who is about to retire, has a higher educational pattern and vision. He has strong educational acumen, is more tolerant of students, and is very good at doing students' ideological work to stimulate students' emotions and fighting spirit.
When the college entrance examination was postponed for one day due to the flood, a small number of parents and children who arrived at the examination room in time and failed to take the examination after waiting for a day were very dissatisfied.
Among them, one parent was clamoring to take their child out of the school's uniformly arranged accommodation and go home. In fact, he took the opportunity to express his anger at the postponement of the exam.
Principal Shi Aihua captured that the postponement of the exam would affect the balance of students' mentality, and gave a speech to all the candidates temporarily.
He started from himself, and talked about the fate of one generation after another. He let the candidates know the fairness of the college entrance examination system, let the students look at the college entrance examination from the perspective of the country and society, and understood the difficulties and setbacks they encountered. There are only moments in history.
He sees growth as more important than grades.Huahua audience's cognition of the college entrance examination. After the double reduction of
, the question of score orientation has always been the focus of parents. In the
educational field, there are still rough waves under the calm sea, and the pursuit of scores has not been completely eliminated. Parents remain anxious about their students' learning. The drama
also gave parents an answer to this question. I hope parents can see more of the great value of children's mental and emotional growth behind the scores.
Goals and feelings, which one makes you happier?
On the first day of the exam, the other students were accompanied by their parents. Gao Mingyu could only talk to his grandfather on the phone. In the
picture, grandpa is sitting at the door of the house, looking very good, and there are people helping in the house. Grandpa tells him that he lives well at home and that the villagers take great care of him.
Needless to say, this should be because Grandpa was afraid of Gao Mingyu's worries, and showed Gao Mingyu the best mental state and life scenes of the day.
, as an old man with stroke , even if he is taken care of by the villagers and is alone at home, the loneliness and sorrow in his heart can be imagined!
If he hadn't waited until his grandson's college entrance examination was over and watched his grandson go to college, I'm afraid it would be difficult for grandpa to support him.
Gao Mingyu naturally thinks the same way. He feels that only when he is admitted to a good university can he explain to his grandfather and be worthy of the teachers, classmates and villagers who care about him and his grandfather.
For a long time, life has forced him to make himself a tough guy who will not be knocked down by all difficulties, and getting into a good university is his death order.
However, during the call, Grandpa didn't tell him how much he expected Gao Mingyu to go to college.
What he said to Gao Mingyu:
"I know, you will be able to do very well in the test, but remember, no matter how good or bad you are in the test, you will always be your grandfather's good grandson."
Hearing these words, Gao Mingyu's face showed a long-lost happy smile.
It's a pleasure and relaxation that's hard to see in him.
Grandpa's words were so healing for him, and he felt more relieved than ever.
I am afraid that this kind of laughter also cured my grandfather, so that both grandfather and grandson no longer focus on the college entrance examination and university, and there is nothing else in life.
looked at Gao Mingyu's happy smiling face, grandpa choked and said:
"With you, grandpa is very happy!"
In the process of pursuing our goals, we often ignore our children's feelings because of our obsession with our goals.
occasionally forces the child to do things he doesn't want to do, and even takes a harsh attitude, which makes the relationship between parents and children even more tense.
At this time, the child will definitely think that what you love is not him, but the achievements he has achieved, something he has done. In the process of
accompanying the child, respecting the child's feelings may be more important than achieving the goal. Tell the child:
I don't love you because you study well, but because of you, I am happy.
Parents and children, who is the teacher? In this drama
, Tian Wenwen's parents, who have been complaining about by netizens, also left everything behind to pick up Tian Wenwen, who had finished the exam.
However, on the first day of the college entrance examination, when the flood flooded the old house, they had not thought that they should come back before the child's examination.
's absence from the little moments, important moments, and even crisis moments of Tian Wenwen's growth is the most ordinary daily life for the parents.
For Tian Wenwen, it's not that her parents are not worth relying on, but that she doesn't dare to rely on them at all.
Until she received a call during the exam, when her mother said she wanted to come back, Tian Wenwen still looked like she didn't need them. She told them not to come to see her first, saying, "I'm still quiet here!"
Her parents told her Her influence was minimal, and many of her memories of growth and inspiration came from other people around her.
Tian Wenwen set up a student sharing group at the beginning of her senior year called "Blue Light". In the finale of
, she finally revealed the origin of the name.
It turns out that she was a non-profit in 2003One of the jaundice babies born during the ceremony, Tian Wenwen said: "I feel very happy when I think of their batch of jaundiced babies bathed in blue light under the care of Aunt Xiaoyun, so I named this baby."
"The grace of re-creation will never be forgotten." This is the belief that Tian Wenwen has kept in her heart.
She volunteered to apply for the nursing major and passed on Aunt Xiaoyun's spirit of helping others. When
found her in Zhou Meiren and rescued her from the flooded home, she also said something like this:
"Uncle Zhou, you are my savior."
She also said:
"I really envy Zhou Bowen, there are You are a good dad."
can only say that sometimes, it is really difficult for a child whose parents are not around.
Even so, Tian Wenwen still deeply loves her parents and sister Feifei, and yearns for their love.
This can be seen from Tian Wenwen's sensible understanding of the difficulties of her parents and the details of her interaction with her sister.
Fortunately, in Tian Wenwen's desperate cries, the crises she experienced, and her sensibleness, her parents saw the fragility behind her strength, felt their debt to their children, and continued to grow.
For Tian Wenwen, she is very satisfied that her parents can drop everything and come back to pick her up.
Finally, she can also feel the happiness of her parents by her side.
All along, it was not her parents who educated her, but she taught her how to love. Examples such as
, and Zhou Meiren, who has been educated by Zhou Bowen.
Zhou Meiren once said that she was her son's pig teammate in front of the whole class and parents. Frankly speaking, it feels great to be educated by my son.
all say that parents are their children's first teachers, and there is no parent who doesn't want to be a good teacher.
But in life, not every parent can become a "parent with graduation certificate " like Zhou Bowen's mother.
Occasionally, we still became the pig teammates of the child, and only learned how to love under the guidance of the child.
Conclusion
has a saying:
"When you are ready, the teacher will appear..."
Actually, when the child is born, it is time for the parents to get ready to learn, this teacher is us children.
He will take us on our parenting journey.
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