" bottom line " is a drama created by the guidance of Supreme Court . The drama has a total of 40 episodes, including 10 cases, namely
"Sudden Death of Anchor", "Mother-humiliating Murder", "Custody Change Case", "Drunk Death Case", "Milk Tea Franchise Case", "Murdered by Best Friend Boyfriend", "Mother Killing Case of Top College Students", "Dink Couple Case", "Cancer Mother Case" and "Musician" case".
In most of these cases, similar prototypes can be found, and the most obvious one is that the corresponding prototype of "Mother Humiliation and Murder" is Yu Huan's case, and the corresponding prototype of "Murdered by Girlfriend's Boyfriend" is Jiang Ge's case. . The
TV series is a very good TV series by showing how the judges deal with these cases and letting everyone know why the court made such a judgment.
However, because the plot is too real, the actors' acting skills are all online, which makes many people feel a lot of shock when watching this drama. The following 5 points are some of my insights when watching this drama. I have sorted them out, hoping to give you some resonance or thinking.
01, Your kindness needs boundaries
This drama has caused a great response when it first aired, and the most discussed is 's "Murder by Girlfriend Boyfriend" in the drama. Various discussions were held in real cases, and the parties were once again pushed to the forefront.
Up to now, rather than accusing Ge Qingqing of being shameless, I actually hope everyone can recognize one thing, that is, your kindness must have boundaries.
Mu Ziqi actually knew that Ge Qingqing was in conflict with her boyfriend before the crime, but she was too kind, so when Ge Qingqing proposed to live at her house, although she was reluctant, she was embarrassed to refuse.
tells us that when people around us have emotional disputes, especially when she herself is a person who can't figure it out, she must not help at will, even if you want to help, you must pay attention to the boundaries Go back to your own house, because you never know how much trouble her screwing up will cause her, or even you.
02, everyone can lie, and children are no exception court.
He originally thought that there must be no problem with his verdict, because he not only took into account the situation of both parties, but also patiently asked the child's own opinion.
But what he didn't expect was that the child lied to him, and the reason for the lie was because the child's mother told the child that as long as he told the judge's uncle that he wanted to tell his mother, she would take the child to Disney to play. And Fang Yuan almost affected his future because of the child's lie.
This incident tells us that everyone can lie, so in life, we should watch what someone does, not listen to what he says, because actions are always more credible than words, words can be irresponsible, but actions But need.
03, sometimes, admitting defeat is for a better start.
In the "Milk Tea Franchise Case", the young couple held an art exhibition in order to make money as soon as possible to buy a house, so they listened to the lies of the merchant and invested all of 's own savings. The milk tea shop, as a result, not only did they not make any money, but they lost everything.
After they found out that they were trapped by the merchants, they wanted to protect their rights and interests through legal means, but unexpectedly, the other party had already made perfect preparations. If they insisted on prosecuting, not only the chance of winning is very small, but also there may be face greater losses.
Ye Xin saw their difficulties, plus she was an idealist, she firmly believed that the law would give them justice, so when they decided to withdraw the lawsuit, she also tried to persuade them to continue defending their rights, but she slapped her nose Ash. The
incident tells us that when we suffer injustice, we are really angry and want the bad guys to be punished by the law. butIt is the law that pays attention to evidence. When the evidence is insufficient, even the most powerful lawyers and judges cannot help us.
Therefore, sometimes learns to admit defeat, in order to avoid getting into trouble, in order to make his life less painful, in order to give himself a better start.
04, stereotypes , it is easy for us to make wrong judgments She is not a serious girl, so when she wanted to stand up for her rights, she was criticized by others and forced to face various false accusations.
And another girl, Momo, because she is a young female subordinate, when there is sexual harassment between her and her male boss, everyone thinks that the male boss must use her position to sexually harass her. Whether
thinks Li Fangning has behaved badly or Momo is the victim, it is actually the stereotypes in our brains that affect our judgment.
In everyone's cognition, female salesmen like to do performance through less legitimate methods, and male bosses like to do something with beautiful female subordinates. Therefore, when we find that the client has these conditions, we will look at these things with preconceived thinking, which leads to ignoring the truth. The
incident tells us that when we don't understand the ins and outs of something, we should not jump to conclusions. Only by repeated verification can what we see be the real facts.
Too well-behaved children, the hidden problems may be more serious.
From childhood to adulthood, Tang Xiaoyun was a child of someone else's family. He not only achieved good academic performance, but also developed in an all-round way in moral, intellectual, physical, aesthetic and labor, and his relationship with his parents was also very harmonious.
later graduated from graduate school, and he was successfully admitted to a famous company. His annual salary was several blocks below his peers, and he was very filial to his mother and obeyed his mother's words.
But this is such a person. On his mother's 50th birthday, he suddenly killed and dismembered his mother with extremely cruel means. The case of
tells us that if a child is too well-behaved and sensible, it is not necessarily a good thing. The so-called well-behaved is very likely that the child is suppressing his own nature.
I hope that all parents understand that every child is also an independent individual, and they also have their own personalities and pursuits. No child can live completely according to the wishes of their parents. nature. And over-pressing yourself is a very dangerous thing.
The above are some thoughts and insights I gained from watching the TV series "The Bottom Line". I don't know if it can resonate with you. Welcome to the message area for discussion.
