's " exam ", in order to become "a dragon and a phoenix", Gao Mingyu spoke madly, but was "utilized" by public opinion. Is "utility" wrong for the children who came out of the mountains?
Gao Mingyu is the most difficult child in the family in the "Big Exam" drama. He was born in the mountains, his parents died early, and he has only one elderly grandfather. However, when Gao Mingyu took the college entrance examination, his grandfather had a sudden stroke, which made his life unable to take care of himself. Even in 2000 I can't even get the hospital bills.
As a post-00s generation, Gao Mingyu doesn't even have a mobile phone. If it wasn't for Pan Xiaoxuan's good heart and giving Gao Mingyu a mobile phone, Gao Mingyu would not be able to take online classes. Grandpa was hospitalized. In order to pay back the 2,000 yuan owed to his fellow villagers, Gao Mingyu did not hesitate to delay his study time and went to work at the construction site.
It's really not easy for the children who came out of the mountains. Going to university is the only way out for Gao Mingyu. Whether it was grandfather or fellow villagers in the mountains, they put their hopes on Gao Mingyu. This pressure can be imagined. Gao Mingyu has no other way out.
In order to get into a good university, Gao Mingyu studied like crazy, got up at 5 in the morning to memorize the questions, and went to the toilet to study at 12 in the evening. For Gao Mingyu, only when he gets admitted to a good university can he be a "dragon and phoenix" and change his destiny.
A child who is only 18 years old bears so much pressure that ordinary people can't imagine. It is also doomed that Gao Mingyu cannot enjoy the wonderful life like others. Reading, raising pigs, and taking care of his grandfather are Gao Mingyu's life.
Gao Mingyu's speech on the school podium, I have to say, is still a bit extreme. For him, the college entrance examination is competition, elimination, and cruelty. You failed the exam alone."
's words are really easy to sting others, after all, Gao Mingyu still has low self-esteem, grades and scores are the only weapons he can use to compete with others, he wants to change his fate through the college entrance examination , to change other people's views of him, "Leave all those who look down on me behind me, and I want to be a dragon and a phoenix." Because in the eyes of others, although the college entrance examination is also very important, it is a very important choice at most, but Gao Mingyu knows that he has no choice. Only by surpassing others can he succeed and live up to the high expectations of his grandfather and fellow villagers. If you don't go crazy, you can't survive, this is probably Gao Mingyu's state.
Who said that children in the mountains can't be "utilitarian"! There are utilitarian people everywhere now, but for most children's lives, before they entered the society, adults were whitewashing peace. No one experienced Gao Mingyu's incident, but gave Gao Mingyu the most vicious Internet violence.
This is the horror of public opinion now. While the network environment brings convenience, it also gives the "keyboard shrimp" the sharpest weapon. Don't ask the truth, take out of context, criticize others maliciously, and enjoy this "sense of accomplishment", you can Express your own thoughts, but please don't maliciously attack others and give yourself a "bottom line".
Gao Mingyu's "utility", knowing his story, he can understand his mood and practice very well, but as a child, Gao Mingyu really has character flaws, just like Pan Xiaoxuan helped Gao Mingyu so much, but Gao Mingyu There is not much gratitude to Pan Xiaoxuan.
The people in the dormitory dislike Gao Mingyu's "selfishness", only Pan Xiaoxuan stood up to speak for Gao Mingyu, and also asked his roommates to understand Gao Mingyu and consider Gao Mingyu's family situation more.
can be "crazy" Gao Mingyu, but he thinks that Pan Xiaoxuan is making fun of him and will hit someone if he disagrees. His roommate wants to hit Gao Mingyu, but he is stopped by Pan Xiaoxuan. Shot Pan Xiaoxuan.
Gao Mingyu with such a personality is really unpleasant. EyeIn addition to studying, he can't see the kindness of others to him at all. He doesn't know how to be grateful, and he only knows how to take responsibility. This will only make himself more and more narrow. ?
hopes that Gao Mingyu will reflect on it, the most important thing for "the dragon and the phoenix among people" is Jackie Chan, not whether he is "among people". Wang Benzhong is really a very, very responsible principal, but it is time to reflect on it. The psychological education of children cannot be ignored either. Educating people is always more important than teaching. From this point of view, Jiang is still old and hot, and Wang Benzhong's father-in-law is really sober.
