In 2006, Han Han wrote in his blog: "Ordinary people are not allowed to keep a large dog in the city, why can Sun Li raise wolves in Shanghai?" In a short sentence, the white-eyed wolf vividly satirized his revenge against Hai Qing'en.
The story between Sun Li and Xiang Haiqing is a typical story of a farmer and a snake.
On the morning of March 10, 2002, Sun Li, who was filming " Jade Goddess of Mercy " in Kunming, happened to see the " Hope in the Mountains " program broadcast by Chongqing Satellite TV , reporting on the poverty-stricken senior high school student Xiang Haiqing of study. Seeing the difficult Xiang Haiqing, she couldn't help thinking of her unfortunate childhood.
Her parents divorced since she was a child
In 1982, Sun Li was born in an ordinary working family in Shanghai. Since hitting her sensible, her parents' quarrels have never stopped. The long-term disagreement between her parents has made her inferior and sensitive, so that she was afraid of marriage for a time as an adult.
When Sun Li was 12 years old, her parents finally divorced, her father only left them 2,000 yuan, and then left without looking back. The mother and daughter rely on 2,000 yuan to live a full and hungry life. At that time, what she looked forward to most was the New Year and the festival, because she could eat meat.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong. In order to give her daughter the best education, Sun's mother worked two jobs by herself, going to work in the factory during the day and cleaning in the shopping mall at night.
looked at her mother who worked hard day and night, and Sun Li hated her father one more point.
In 2000, Sun Li started life in Beidri with 2,000 yuan given by her mother. At that time, there was no filming, and with Beijing's consumption level, 2,000 yuan could not last long. In order to save money, she could only live in the basement and eat mustard and steamed buns every day.
There was a time when she couldn't even pay the rent, and the landlord blocked her to urge the rent: "If you don't pay the rent again, believe it or not, I will throw your things on the road."
received an anonymous letter at her most difficult time, with 4,000 yuan in the envelope. The money helped her through the toughest times.
In 2001, Sun Li finally received the script for the TV series "Jade Goddess of Mercy". But before the filming starts, she needs to receive training. During this period, she not only has no income, but also has to pay for her own living expenses, which makes her stumped. Just when she was worried, the kind person sent her another 4,000 yuan.
The person who helped Sun Li time and time again and did not keep his name in good deeds was the father who "abandoned" her for many years. Perhaps because he was worried that his daughter would hate her and would not accept the fee, he chose this method.
People who have been in the rain always want to hold an umbrella for others. After learning about Xiang Haiqing's situation, she, who was originally not wealthy, still extended a helping hand without hesitation.
Doing good without asking for anything in return
On that day, Sun Li sent Xiang Haiqing 500 yuan in the name of her mother, Aunt Deng, and wrote a letter to encourage him to study hard. In the future, I will be admitted to good universities in big cities such as Beijing and Shanghai, and I will go out of the countryside on my own.
Xiang Haiqing's hands trembled when he got the first payment, and tears welled up in his eyes. He didn't even feel the teacher pat him on the shoulder.
At this time, he has not seen the big world, and he still has a grateful heart.
Then Aunt Deng called him again and asked him to study hard. In the future, she and Sun Li would bear his expenses until he graduated from university.
may be a good person with good news. In 2004, Sun Li won the Golden Eagle Award , Chunyan Award and many other awards with "Jade Guanyin" in 2004, and became a household name. In the year of
, Xiang Haiqing failed the college entrance examination. Sun Li's mother and daughter encouraged him to repeat his studies for a year and fight again the next year. In order to help him study, Sun Li bought a lot of tutoring materials and sent them over.
In 2005, Xiang Haiqing was admitted to and of Shanghai Fisheries University. On that day, Sun Li's mother and daughter picked him up at the station, sent him to school, and helped him buy daily necessities. After Xiang Haiqing went to college, Sun Li would transfer 500 yuan of living expenses to him on time every month, and told him to call her if he was short of money. At that moment,
Xiang Haiqing knew that it was the superstar Sun Li who had been supporting him for so many years.
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Sun Li initially said that he would subsidize Xiang Haiqing to graduate from college, but ended his funding before he finished his freshman year. The
incident aroused the curiosity of Qiu Chaoju, a reporter from Chongqing Satellite TV. In order to find out the details, he asked Xiang Haiqing to send him the details of his relationship with Sun Li's mother and daughter and the details of the bad relationship.
wrote 6,000 words to Haiqing. In the letter, he wrote himself as a filial good boy and a good diligent student. Between the lines, he accuses Sun Li and his daughter of "abandonment".
After school started, I became the head of the office, and later I became a student union cadre. After I became a cadre, I had to make a lot of phone calls every day, and I spent 90 yuan a month in phone bills. Auntie Deng asked me to quit the student union when she found out.
It costs about 400 yuan per month to eat at school, and about 500 yuan for water and electricity. Aunt Deng has always paid me living expenses at this standard, but I spent 175 yuan for the hepatitis B vaccine in September. I told my sister's assistant about the situation, and then Aunt Deng called me and said that I was annoying.
I don't understand, she clearly said that she would call them without money, why did I call them but I was annoyed,
In fact, in order to reduce their burden, I worked as a counselor assistant in the school. It's just that I sent my mother's salary for the first two months, because my mother was very ill and had no money for treatment. After that, I never dared to ask them for money again.
In fact, Sun Li's mother suggested that he quit the student union because he was worried that he would spend too much time on the student union and delay his studies. After all, his main task at this stage is to study and find a good job in the future.
Judging from the consumption level in 2005, the living expenses of 500 a month are already a lot, so I can live a good life in school. Xiang Haiqing's remarks are obviously unreasonable. Some netizens on
complained about Sun Li, and they called the school to find out the situation.
In fact, Xiang Haiqing's living expenses are far more than the 500 yuan they subsidized. At the same time, he also applied for a poverty subsidy of 6,000 yuan. In addition to the monthly income of 300 yuan for the part-time counselor assistant, it is calculated that there is a monthly living cost of 1,000 yuan. And the poverty subsidy he applied for will rise to 12,000 yuan in the second year.
Even so, he still calls Sun Li's parents every month, saying that the living expenses are not enough.
At that time, the prices of school cafeterias were very cheap. Only students with very good family conditions would spend 400 yuan in the cafeteria.
In fact, when Xiang Haiqing learned that Sun Li was a big star, his heart was already unbalanced. He thinks that it is easy for celebrities to make money, and it is appropriate to spend a little more for himself. After
entered university, he began to spend a lot of money, not only wearing famous brands and watches, but also talking about his girlfriend. And the reason why he keeps asking Sun Li for money is because he and his girlfriend want to buy famous brands.
After Sun Li found out about the situation, he was worried that the situation of his spending money would become more and more serious, so he suspended the funding. After the
incident came to light, netizens attacked Xiang Haiqing one after another, saying that he was a white-eyed wolf who didn't know how to be grateful. And after graduation, because of this experience, he encountered obstacles everywhere when he was looking for a job, and finally had to go back to the small county town of his hometown in Chongqing.
Originally, he could find a decent job in Shanghai and have a different life, but he played a good deck of cards to pieces, and now he can only "hide" back to his hometown. Today's situation is caused by his own hands.
People like Xiang Haiqing, no matter how nice they are to him, will not be grateful. He took the help of others as a matter of course, and he instantly turned his face when he didn't help. Who would dare to get close to such a person who does not know how to be grateful?
