I've been in love since I was 19 years old, and my boyfriend has never stopped... So what if I don't get married, I don't think a relationship can be bound by certificates and promises, and the fact that there are certificates in the circles Too common in ! "
Indeed, for Xu Jinglei , the certificate of commitment and marriage contract is not very firm. It is a green certificate.
also squeezed away the goddess Gao Yuanyuan .
held the Zhang Yadong, who had given Gao Yuanyuan birthday wishes for several years in a row, and promised to "love you forever" in his hand.
The end of a relationship is really It means the beginning of another relationship.
has the titles of "talented girl", "witch" and "group pet in the Beijing circle". Xu Jinglei is not the most beautiful in the circle.
but definitely has a place in the echelon with the richest love history.
and a Boyfriends that can't be counted broke up one by one, but there was no ugly scene of tearing each other.
Some people say that this deserves to be named "best ex-girlfriend" because she can break up with every ex We are friends.
From 19 to 48 years old, playing the grass for 28 years, has a boyfriend of 12 years Huang Lixing, but he is still reluctant to get married.
Xu Jinglei is satisfied with today's life - doing what she likes, talking about it No one can control it.
is just the retired old father in the family, and there is another who wants to be a father-in-law, and his wish to be a grandfather has not come true.
Watching his younger son get married, he worries about his eldest daughter; look With his younger son Tim Zi, he worries about his older daughter.
Seeing that his younger son and his wife are happy, he can't help urging marriage - "Lei Lei, are you getting married? ..."
The ultimate rebelliousness under obedience
In 1974, Xu Jinglei was born in Sanlitun in Beijing.
Her grandfather was a "hero" who once embarked on the road of defending her family and the country for her beliefs. Descendants, the descendants of grace.
Although Xu Jinglei's father did not have much success in his early years, the family always had no worries about food and clothing, and they had Yuqing in the years.
Due to the relationship of the age, he lost the opportunity to go to school. Xu's father was very good in the word education. Regret has almost become a knot in my heart.
After the birth of her daughter Xu Jinglei, the thought that regret must be made up for it cannot be suppressed.
So from the time the child can hold the pen, he has to practice copybooks, memorize Tang poetry and Song poetry, and three "artists" Words are often talked about.
"When I was a child, the concept of learning was that we must learn well and be excellent. My younger brother also grew up like this, but I was rebellious on the outside, but he was as good on the outside as in his heart, which made me feel bad for . "
has grown up a little, and the expenses for the two children's interest training classes other than calligraphy have become the biggest expense for the family.
tightened his belt and still felt that the funds were tight. The father of the Xu family came out of the light bulb factory and started his own business. .
just caught up with the entrepreneurial tide, and the Xu family's neon light box factory quickly developed.
At that time, unlike now, the characters on the light signs were not made by computer, only handwritten and processed by hand.
Instead of spending money to find a master or master Writing, it is better to let the teacher praise the good writing, and try the daughter who is good at drawing.
So the little play time was reduced again, and Xu Jinglei's words appeared little by little in the streets of Beijing.
Neon signsHow flashy, how busy and lifeless Xu Jinglei's childhood was.
"I'm actually not very happy. Which child is holding his head down and can't resist at all and can only learn, and still think that his parents are for my good? Besides, I can't understand it when I grow up, I would rather be happy when I was young. Great mediocrity ."
Girls' Generation, Xu Jinglei's expression was mostly heavy.
In order to give her younger brother some of the childhood time she deserves, she stood in front and resisted the pressure.
Later, the daughter's uncontrolled and self-constructed worldview and emotional outlook took shape.
The father of the Xu family realized that what he did to his children when he was young was inappropriate, but it was too late to reflect in his later years.
At the age of 17, she was obsessed with art and set her heart to study. Xu Jinglei set the goal of making up at the Academy of Arts and Crafts and the stage beauty department of Chinese opera .
has fallen behind for various reasons. My father's words "must be admitted to university" were in my ears again.
thought that she was not bad looking and had a good temperament, so she went to Beijing Film Academy Acting Department the next year.
The control of 18 years was once released, and the sense of freedom exuded from her heart made Xu Jinglei unable to resist her rebellion to the end.
Skip classes, have fun, make friends, and do whatever you want.
In the early 1990s, the rock music with dense drum beats and frenzied emotions was popular among young men and women.
danced to the music, Xu Jinglei indulged in the deafening voice, rocked 's attitude of breaking everything.
takes " as long as you want, as long as you are happy, " as the creed of life, and the obedience on the face fades to become self-contained and neat.
At the age of 19, Xu Jinglei met Wang Shuo, an already famous talent, through a friend's introduction.
has also opened up the road of rich love history that has been criticized and envied by others. Wang Shuo was born in 1958, 16 years older than Xu Jinglei.
is different from Xu Jinglei, this man is not outstanding in appearance, but he was born in the military compound and has been in the first echelon of the Beijing circle since he was a child.
is famous for his writing, and he compiled the story of his childhood into the script of the movie " Sunny Day ".
created the script of "The Story of the Editorial Department", the originator of Chinese sitcoms.
published novels "Half is flame, half is sea water", " stewardess " and so on, which caused a sensation.
gathered around great friends like Ye Ying, Zhao Baogang , Liang Zuo , and Zheng Xiaolong.
The now well-known director Feng Xiaogang also used to be Wang Shuo's younger brother, standing on the roadside lighting a cigarette for him.
Someone once said in the circle that if there is no guidance and introduction from Wang Shuo.
Feng Xiaogang couldn't get into their circle, and he didn't have the achievements he has today.
As for Wang Shuo's evaluation, it is not surprising that some people turn around him.
Because he moves his finger to write and write, he can support many directors.
