"Do not be defined, be your unique self", Huang Lan's new book "Live Up to Love: Live Your Shining Self"

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Gold TV drama producer and guest of "If You Are the One" Huang Lan came to Beijing with his new work "Live Your Love: Live Your Shining Self" a few days ago, and opened a new book sale event at PAGEONE Wangfujing apm store, well-known film and television actor Wu Yue attended as a special guest.

​​This book is Huang Lan's first collection of women's inspirational essays, published by Zhejiang Literature and Art Publishing House , and ranked TOP1 on the Dangdang Literature Soaring List during the pre-sale period. At the event, two guests, Huang Lan and Wu Yue, shared their experiences on topics of common concern to contemporary women, such as emotional management and female growth mentioned in the book.

'Do not be defined, be your unique self', Huang Lan's new book 'Live Up to Love: Live Your Shining Self' - Lujuba

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​​When it comes to TV producers and film and television actors, what do you think of? In this regard, Huang Lan said frankly: "The work pressure behind the scenes for TV drama producers or film and television actors is not small. Sometimes I will be 'sent a blade' by the audience because the plot of a certain drama does not meet the public's psychological expectations. In the book, I also shared the setbacks and ups and downs I encountered on the road of being a producer."

​​Wu Yue also said that he had been criticized because of certain roles, "I felt aggrieved at first, but I never regret taking over these" A real role script." Wu Yue said, taking Lingling in "My First Half of Life" as an example, her inner world is complex and multi-faceted: she is gentle and simple in life, and works hard for her children; In calculation; in the marriage, fighting the fire for love, and successfully replaced the position of "Mrs. Chen" by retreating. Although this role is not accepted by the public, Wu Yue believes that there is such a real situation in the real world: premarital love is greater than everything else, and it can even face social accusations for love, the difficulty of reorganizing the family, and the all-round challenges brought by it. , but ended up trapped in a dull life of chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea after marriage. "People are complex. When I grew up, I realized that human nature cannot be judged simply by 'good people' or 'bad people'. I want to bring the audience some thinking about the real world through the interpretation of such characters."

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​​At the event, Huang Lan shared the way of life he learned from his children in the process of parenting: "My son is more 'Buddhist', and it is difficult to use the way of the older generation. Communicate with him. For example, when I ask him who or what he likes, he often says that he is a 'wild match' person."

​​At this stage, what is a wild match? What is the meaning of all-match for life? In Huang Lan's view, the contemporary social environment is complex and changeable, people are prone to feel insecure and uncertain, easily fall into anxiety and confusion, and "all-match" is to be able to freely retract and adjust themselves to actively adapt to various situations A state of the environment in which one does not insist too much on something. Wu Yue said: "Sometimes in life, you need to be in a daze, let yourself be free, and then try to adjust the channel to accept different things, and don't let time stagnate on some 'meaningless' things."

​​When a live reader asked about "modern women strive to improve I want to achieve something, but sometimes people around me don’t approve of what to do.” Huang Lan also shared her views: “Being a strong woman means success, showing weakness does not mean failure, these are actually defined by the outside world. Yes, what we need is to remain 'real', instead of always defining ourselves by the standards of others, just try to be yourself." The sincere and sincere answer won rounds of applause from everyone present.

Source: Beijing Daily Client | Reporter Lu Yanxia

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