Xiao Dongpo can be said to be a well-known host.
In 2003, the large-scale blind date program " about " hosted by him was widely acclaimed on CCTV's seven sets. Since the revision, the ratings of this show have been increasing year by year. In the
program, Xiao Dongpo's witty and humorous hosting style left a deep impression on many people. With his excellent professional quality, Xiao Dongpo has done a great job of hosting many famous CCTV programs.
"Sannong Memory", "Wheat Harvest Story Meeting", etc. are all his outstanding hosting works, and Xiao Dongpo, a well-known host award in China, was once soft-hearted.
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In the program "Country Date", Xiao Dongpo, as the host, has helped many players from the private sector to pull strings and lead to a series of beautiful love. But in real life, Xiao Dongpo's personal emotional life is not very happy. In order to pursue his career,
missed a marriage that should have been very happy, and his beautiful "school flower" wife also left him.
But what everyone did not expect was that Xiao Dongpo, who just got divorced, immediately got together with a businesswoman who had only known him for 55 days. What happened?
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In engineering, he is a literary youth
Xiao Dongpo is not only eloquent, but also versatile. Whether it's singing drums or playing guitar, he can play a few times.
But such a proper literary and artistic youth is not from a professional school.
In 1969, Xiao Dongpo was born in Jinan, Shandong where his parents worked. Here, Xiao Dongpo spent nearly two years of his time. Later, because his parents had been busy with work and had no time to take care of the young Xiao Dongpo, he was sent to live with his grandmother in Harbin.
In the Northeast, Xiao Dongpo has stayed for more than ten years. Xiao Dongpo, who has lived with his grandmother since childhood, is not at all timid. Although
didn't have his parents by his side, he never felt lonely and lonely, and he didn't develop an introverted and shy character. On the contrary, no matter at school or at home, Xiao Dongpo's liveliness always brings happiness to those around him.
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Because my grandmother was known to be a warm-hearted person in the village, many young people from all over the country would ask her to match. For Xiao Dongpo, his greatest joy as a child was to follow his grandmother everywhere to say kisses.
Whenever a marriage is negotiated, my grandmother is always happy, and Xiao Dongpo is also very happy after receiving the wedding candy.
Accompanied by his grandma, Xiao Dongpo spent a very happy time. After graduating from high school, Xiao Dongpo was admitted to Xi'an Highway College with excellent grades.
Xiao Dongpo, who entered the university, did not feel uncomfortable or unfamiliar. His optimism and humor quickly integrated himself into this new life.
Unlike many engineering students, Xiao Dongpo did not let himself soak in drawings and textbooks all day. In addition to studying, Xiao Dongpo also found a lot of more interesting things.
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College students have a lot of extracurricular activities. In addition to classes every day, Xiao Dongpo actively participates in various literary and artistic activities in the school whenever he has time.
With his cheerful personality and first-class eloquence, Xiao Dongpo quickly became a frequent visitor in major literary and artistic activities. He is omnipotent in playing, playing and singing, and he is even more handy in hosting various activities.
But what's even more surprising is that he, who doesn't seem to care about his studies, can get good grades every year, and he has always been among the best in the class.
During his four years of college life, Xiao Dongpo not only cultivated many interests and hobbies, but also developed a good eloquence. After
graduated, he did not choose to develop in a big city, but returned to Shandong, where his parents lived, and worked in a local traffic hospital. Staying with your parents is also a good option.
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Xiao Dongpo's work is not very hard. In addition to commuting to get off work on time in the hospital every day, Xiao Dongpo also visits his parents when he is free.
Although this kind of life is not very exciting, but for the family, it is enough to be able to live in peace and stability.
What everyone did not expect was that Xiao Dongpo made an unexpected decision soon after, that is, to change careers to become a host. Although he has been working in the hospital for three years, Xiao Dongpo is not satisfied with this ordinary life. While he was still young, he wanted to fight again.
Unsurprisingly, the family did not support Xiao Dongpo's decision. It is really not a wise choice for an engineering student to change careers to become a host. Moreover, Xiao Dongpo has reached the age of marriage. If the job is not settled at this time, I am afraid that no girl will consider him.
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Although Xiao Dongpo's decision was strongly opposed by his family. But not long after, Xiao Dongpo resolutely resigned from the hospital job.
He knows that this step-by-step life is not what he wants, and young people always have to work hard.
In order to realize his dream, Xiao Dongpo often worked several part-time jobs by himself before he found a regular job. From working in a bar and playing drums to participating in the Jinan Qingge Competition, Xiao Dongpo has suffered a lot, but he has also increased his life experience and trained his adaptability.
hard work pays off, finally, Xiao Dongpo encountered an opportunity to realize his dream. Shandong TV is recruiting hosts for the society, and many young people with hosting experience have chosen to sign up for the test. Xiao Dongpo was no exception, and this interview directly changed the trajectory of his life.
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Having a successful career but missing the "school flower" wife
After layers of selection, Xiao Dongpo successfully stood out from the interviews attended by more than 1,000 people. Relying on his rich hosting experience and good adaptability during his college days, Xiao Dongpo has passed the test all the way and conquered many critical examiners with his extraordinary eloquence.
It is worth mentioning that the selection of the hosts this time is truly one in a hundred. Even many professional hosts who were born in professional classes have not been selected, so Xiao Dongpo's success is not accidental. After
learned that his son had switched careers to become the host of Shandong TV, Xiao Dongpo's parents no longer opposed his choice.
In 1994, Xiao Dongpo, who was born in engineering, finally realized his dream and entered the TV station to become a host.
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But since he had no formal hosting experience before, Xiao Dongpo just started doing some simple program creation work. But it didn't take long for Xiao Dongpo's efforts and eloquence to be recognized by the leaders, and he also got his wish on the TV station and started to host. At that time,
had an unknown program on Shandong TV called "Advertising Style and Style". Although this program is relatively unpopular, it is the first TV program Xiao Dongpo started hosting. Here, his hosting ability has also been honed and matured. When
entered the TV station, Xiao Dongpo was already 25 years old. After the job stabilized, the family began to worry about his marriage.
Although Xiao Dongpo is devoted to his work, starting a family and starting a business is a major event in his life. Finally, under the persuasion of his parents, Xiao Dong also began to think about his marriage.
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During a blind date, Xiao Dongpo met a pretty girl. This girl is not only beautiful, but more importantly, she has a rather unique temperament, not an ordinary rouge powder. After chatting a few times with
, Xiao Dongpo finally decided to choose the girl in front of him as his life partner.
But what he didn't expect was that the blind date didn't like him at first. Although Xiao Dongpo is first-rate in eloquence, his appearance is mediocre. What's more, this girl is also the school flower of Shandong Normal University . She has a stable job and naturally has higher requirements.
But Xiao Dongpo, who is a first-rate eloquent man, has started to pursue this girl unremittingly in order to bring her beauty home. Whenever he has time, he will accompany this "school flower" to eat, go shopping, and buy things.
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When the two got along, Xiao Dongpo's humor and thoughtfulness deeply moved the girl. She knew that although the person in front of her was not very handsome, it would bring warmth and safety to her.
It didn't take long for Xiao Dongpo's efforts to pay off. The girl
finally began to fall in love with him, and then both of them entered the palace of marriage. What surprised Xiao Dongpo even more was that soon after the marriage, the two had a lovely daughter. Xiao Dongpo, who became a father for the first time, was very excited, and he was very satisfied with the happy life of a family of three. After
solved the problem of starting a family, Xiao Dongpo started busy with his own business again. With his outstanding work performance, Xiao Dongpo has become a well-known host of Shandong Satellite TV , and he can be seen in many important programs and evenings.
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But Xiao Dongpo is not satisfied with this. He wants to enter CCTV and let the TV programs he hosts on a higher platform.
In 2003, Xiao Dongpo signed up for the election of a CCTV host again, because he felt that he was very suitable for the host of seven new CCTV programs, "Country Pact".
However, this choice was strongly opposed by his wife. It is not a wise choice to leave his happy family and stable job and go to Beijing alone to host a new program with an unknown future. "For your own work, can you not even have your wife and children?"
These were the last words that his wife said to Xiao Dongpo before he left, but Xiao Dongpo did not give up his idea. After patiently explaining it to his wife, Xiao Dongpo left for Beijing to start a new career, but his wife still did not support his decision.
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After coming to Beijing, Xiao Dongpo successfully passed the inspection of CCTV and began to participate in the recording and hosting of the blind date show "Country Date".
is a new attempt and challenge for CCTV Seven, and no one dares to predict the future of this program.
But unexpectedly, under the auspices of Xiao Dongpo, "Country Covenant" has achieved unprecedented success and attention. But Xiao Dongpo, who is busy with his career, is about to miss his happy family.
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After setbacks, he continued his relationship, Xiao Dongpo reaps true love He couldn't even eat for a day, and he often followed the show crew everywhere. In the 30-degree weather, Xiao Dongpo stood for several hours at a time. Many male and female guests who are recording the show for the first time often make various mistakes.
Every time he encounters these emergencies, Xiao Dongpo will respond in time, so as not to affect the recording of the program.
In addition to being responsible for his own hosting, Xiao Dongpo had to familiarize himself with and understand the specific arrangements of each link of the show the night before.
Under the high-intensity work, Xiao Dongpo is often so tired that he doesn't even have the strength to make a phone call. Due to being unable to contact her husband for a long time, the wife at home has completely despaired of Xiao Dongpo.
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In her opinion, this is a man who doesn't care about his family. Maybe in Xiao Dongpo's eyes, he only has his own job.
After years of hard work, Xiao Dongpo finally succeeded in being choreographed by CCTV with "Country Date" and qualified to buy a house in Beijing.
But when Xiao Dongpo came home with the keys to the new house, what was waiting was his wife's request for divorce. When he saw his wife's determined expression and the divorce application he had already written, Xiao Dongpo fell into silence. He knew that his wife would not return to Beijing with him. The humorous host
can bridge other people's love, but he can't save his own marriage.
After the divorce, Xiao Dongpo was very depressed, and he no longer had any hope for his love life. He devoted all his attention to the recording of "Country Date", and the ratings of the show continued to soar, but his wife never came back.
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2014, a suddenThe woman who suddenly appeared broke Xiao Dongpo's gloomy life.
At the strong suggestion of a friend, Xiao Dongpo started to get in touch with a businesswoman.
At the beginning, in order to show that he had no intention of getting married, Xiao Dongpo always dealt with every encounter in a passive and hasty manner. But over time, this seasoned businesswoman Zhu Yanxia quickly conquered the dull Xiao Dongpo in front of her, and used her unique gentleness and charm to make Xiao Dongpo slowly come out of the blow.
Zhu Yanxia is not only knowledgeable and broad-minded, but more importantly, she is very supportive of her work. When she learned that she still had a young daughter, Zhu Yanxia also promised very seriously that his daughter was also her own.
Finally, after 55 days of acquaintance, Xiao Dongpo decided to start a new relationship with the businesswoman in front of him.
After Xiao Dongpo
got married, Zhu Yanxia's performance can be said to be impeccable. No matter how busy they are every day, Zhu Yanxia will always pick up and drop their children to and from school on time. After returning home, Xiao Dongpo could always see his wife and daughter who were already waiting at the dining table. Whenever he has time, Xiao Dongpo will cook himself and cook a sumptuous dinner for his wife. Zhu Yanxia is often made to laugh at the dinner table by the humorous Xiao Dongpo.
As his hosting work on CCTV has become more and more outstanding, Xiao Dongpo has also won many well-known domestic awards. After
won the host Golden Microphone Award , Xiao Dongpo was rated as the leader of "influencing Chinese media".
But no matter how high he achieves, for Xiao Dongpo, family is everything in his heart.
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Conclusion
changed from engineering student to host, Xiao Dongpo's choice changed the trajectory of his life. People just saw his current success, but they didn't notice the dedication and hard work behind Xiao Dongpo.
No matter how successful he is in his career, family is the driving force and direction of Xiao Dongpo's progress.
No matter how far you go in reality, the concerned eyes of your family never leave your side.
References
[1]Xiao Dongpo; no one can succeed casually—Li Xiaomei—“Country Covenant”—Trade Economy
[2]Xiao Dongpo: My Story with Shifeng—Du Yinshi—Industrial Economy
[3 ] "Runner" Xiao Dongpo - Yan Bihua and Li Xiangtao - "Minsheng Weekly" - Boutique Culture