Ren Duomei stepped on 8cm high heels, and when she slapped her husband Zhang Weichen on the right cheek, Zhou Min widened his eyes and shouted, "Why do you beat people?"
"Then why do you kiss someone?" Someone else's husband?" Ren Duomei looked at Zhou Min with burning eyes,
"I don't hit women, but when you kiss someone else's husband, you're causing trouble for someone else's family. And that slap just now is you Trouble for Zhang Weichen!"
Zhou Min hesitated. She feels that she and Zhang Weichen are in love with each other, while Ren Duomei is just a "housewife", not worthy of Zhang Weichen at all.
Ren Duomei saw Zhou Min's thoughts, she looked at Zhang Weichen: "Husband, do you think my existence is a stumbling block that hinders your happiness?"
"No!"
Zhang Weichen didn't even look at Zhou Min At a glance, he blurted out decisively.
Ren Duomei was very satisfied after getting Zhang Weichen's answer, but Zhou Min, who was standing beside her, was in a mess.
She doesn't know what Zhang Weichen is worried about? It's obvious that Zhang Weichen's actions are exuding "love" to her, but why does Zhang Weichen show an indifferent look every time in front of Ren Duomei? Is
because Ren Duomei is beautiful? But Zhou Min felt that she was not bad, and she was younger and gentler than Ren Duomei. Is
because Ren Duomei does beautiful housework? But for a man, isn't a woman who can help a man succeed in his career what a man wants in his life?
Zhou Min is very disappointed, because no matter what the reason, Ren Duomei is always luckier than her. So at this moment, Zhou Min can only watch Ren Duomei pull Zhang Weichen away.
But if Zhou Min really knew Zhang Weichen one step earlier than Ren Duomei, would Zhang Weichen really marry her?
I'm afraid not!
Because Zhang Weichen only has calculations and control over his wife, and Zhou Min is obviously not a woman who can be manipulated at will.
1.
In " Their Names ", Ren Duomei is the most beautiful and virtuous one. On the other hand, Zhou Min is Zhang Weichen's young, petite, and sensible little junior sister. She has a good family background, has her own ideals and career, and has nothing to do with Zhang Weichen.
Women all hope that they are "special" in the hearts of men, and Zhou Min is the same. When was researching abroad, Zhang Weichen was almost inseparable from Zhou Min, and his meticulous consideration made it difficult for Zhou Min not to misunderstand.
Zhou Min got deeper and deeper, so in order to continue to be with Zhang Weichen, she deliberately introduced better opportunities to Zhang Weichen abroad. But Zhang Weichen refused, because he was a married man after all, and his parents were in China, so he couldn't stay abroad all the time.
Zhou Min's own conditions are good, and there are many suitors around her, but she has a deep love for Zhang Weichen, because Zhou Min has never seen such a good-looking, gentle and elegant man.
However, a good love is about meeting the right person at the right time. For Zhou Min, Zhang Weichen is already married, obviously not the right person.
Zhou Min was very disappointed, she felt that Ren Duomei was a hindrance. But, without Ren Duomei, would Zhang Weichen really choose Zhou Min?
Zhou Min couldn't sleep, she recalled everything Zhang Weichen said and did, anxious and hated in her heart. Looking at herself in the mirror, Zhou Min's gloomy expression suddenly lit up.
all say that only by hitting the pain point can you capture the hearts of people. Zhang Weichen is very ambitious. After returning to China, he always wanted to run for the head of the new technology department of the hospital. Zhou Min thought to himself that as long as he could help Zhang Weichen get elected, he would definitely make a choice.
is better than Zhou Min in terms of connections, resources, and family background. Zhang Weichen attaches great importance to his career, and he really needs someone to help him.
So, will Zhang Weichen really choose Zhou Min for his career?
2.
Zhou Min expressed his intentions to Ren Duomei for the first time after Zhang Weichen refused to drive her home again. Zhou Min said confidently to Ren Duomei:
"To be honest, I didn't think that you were very loving before returning to China. But I think the most important thing for my brother at the moment is to sit firmly in the hospital.Location. But you can't help with this, but I can help him! "
No woman can accept her incompetence, or tolerate other women protesting against her. Zhou Min understands the truth, so she deliberately uses her strengths to directly poke at Ren Duomei's shortcomings. One is to anger Ren Duomei. , The second is to let Ren Duomei retreat.
can be Ren Duomei's reaction, but Zhou Min is unexpected. She is not impatient, neither humble nor arrogant:
"School girl, you are beautiful and your family is beautiful. Well, if you have a proper affection for my husband, there's nothing wrong with that in itself. But the world has rules, and if you break the rules, or cross the line, you are wrong. Since Zhang Weichen chose to marry me, with his character and maturity, he knows very well who and what is most important to him! "
Zhou Min looked embarrassed. At that moment, she knew that she was not Ren Duomei's "opponent". But the more she did, the less Zhou Min wanted to give up. Because since childhood, Zhou Min has never been so defeated.
people Once caught in an obsession, she will try her best to find reasons for herself, even if it is wrong, she will try to rationalize it.
Zhou Min is like this.
So, she decided to divide the relationship between Zhang Weichen and Ren Duomei.
in In palace fighting dramas, we have all seen that in order to compete for the emperor's favor, the concubines often adopt a "diversion" method. uses some "paradoxical" words to praise on the surface, but in fact provoke. Through some "cross-border" behaviors, On the surface, she doesn't care, but she is deliberately provocative.
Zhou Min has a similar pattern, not only demeaning Ren Duomei inside and out, but also deliberately putting perfume on Zhang Weichen's car to block Ren Duomei; in order to get closer to Zhang Weichen The distance between them, Zhou Min will deliberately put the high heels under Zhang Weichen's desk, and even take Zhang Weichen to eat and go home together. It's just that she never expected that Zhang Weichen had a deep scheming, he only loved himself, and only calculated for women.
3.
combined with Zhang Weichen's dependence on Zhou Min abroad, when Zhou Min learned that Zhang Weichen gave Ren Duomei every month, opened the door When the salary was 20,000 yuan, she was very sure that Zhang Weichen didn't love Ren Duomei.
So, when she learned that Ren Duomei started her own business, Zhou Min couldn't help provoking, "Master, you are so good, why do you want to Going to work? Do you feel that you have been out of society for too long and have no common language with you? "
Zhang Weichen is noncommittal, he is indeed dissatisfied with Ren Duomei going out to work.
Then, will Zhou Min be a "housewife" at home for Zhang Weichen?
Of course not! The relationship between Ren Duomei.
Simply, Zhang Weichen's attitude made Zhou Min smell the rift between Zhang Weichen and his wife. She thought her chance was coming, but she didn't know that Zhang Weichen only wanted a wife who could control.
Ren Duomei is not a local hukou, and her parents are ordinary people. The two families only met on the wedding day. Without parents and relatives as backers, after Zhang Weichen married Ren Duomei and entered the door, there were a lot of unnecessary human exchanges. For Zhang Weichen, who has been tired of being interfered by his parents since he was a child, it is an easy task.
Zhang Weichen is very poor at taking care of his own life. On the day he proposed to Ren Duomei, his father had just been pushed into the emergency room. Outside the emergency room, Zhang Weichen recalled that when his father was ill, his mother was in a hurry, and he couldn't quench his thirst with his own distance. He felt both scared and confused.
His parents were old, and he had to find someone to take care of them. So Zhang Weichen took Ren Duomei Married in the door. After
got married, Zhang Weichen asked Ren Duomei to quit his job and gave her 20,000 yuan a month to concentrate on letting Ren Duomei take care of her parents and family at home.
sacrificed her career for the family, which was actually to It takes a lot of risk. Because the work of a housewife cannot be quantified.
So, no matter how much you do, as long as you don't say it, your husband and in-laws will think you are very leisurely; and if you say it, your husband and The in-laws will not feel bad for you, but will say 'this is what you should do'.
But once the husband changed his mind, the original promise of "I will support you" was broken into the glass ballast of "I don't want you" today, whether you want it or not, you have to have it.
Zhou Min is also very professional. Zhang Weichen knows that she can't give up her career, and she can't cope with the odds and ends of family life.
Therefore, even if Zhou Min can help Zhang Weichen in his career, he is at best a good business partner and not suitable for marriage.
4.
Before watching "Their Name", many people had misunderstandings about "housewives". Zhou Min was the same at first, but she didn't really understand "housewife" until she listened to Lei Li's explanation.
Lei Li said: "A housewife is not what you think. She opens her mouth with food and stretches out her hands with clothes. She gets up two hours earlier than her husband every morning. In addition to making breakfast for his husband, she also prepares two completely different styles. When they have no children, they have to take care of their parents and their husbands.
What about after they have children? They have to take the children to early childhood education, and after the children go to school, they have to accompany them to various tutoring sessions Class. The housewife's work will not become less and less with age, it will only become more and more. She can't do your work, how long can you hold on to her work? Do you think Zhang Weichen pays her a salary It's a very ridiculous thing, and we think it's very ridiculous. But if it were you, with the salary he offered, do you think it can equalize the career and ideals you gave up for this?"
Zhou Min did not Answered, but her twinkling eyes had already explained everything.
Only at that moment did Zhou Min know that what Zhang Weichen wanted was actually a wife who could "sacrifice" for him.
Zhang Weichen grew up under the doting of his mother since he was a child. Therefore, after getting married, I especially hope that my wife can be like a mother, focusing on him in terms of clothing, food and daily life, and take good care of him.
While studying abroad, Zhou Min temporarily replaced Ren Duomei in terms of food and clothing. But after all, she is the eldest young lady who has no worries about food and clothing. She has the support of her parents and professors, and she has complicated human relationships on a daily basis.
and Zhang Weichen understands that Zhou Min takes care of himself, just for a while, it is impossible to only revolve around him for a lifetime, and it is even more impossible to give up his career for the sake of his family.
But Zhang Weichen got married and wanted a woman who could meet his needs. And Ren Duomei is the woman who is most suitable for her.
Therefore, even if Ren Duomei's family is not good and cannot help him in his career, even if Zhang's mother is not satisfied with Ren Duomei, he will marry Ren Duomei against all odds.
