" Their Names " is a female-themed TV series co-starred by Bai Bing , Qin Hailu , Wei Wei and others. After the show was broadcast, the response was not bad, and the acting skills of Qin Hailu and Bai Bing were also recognized by the audience. , Among so many roles, the audience pays more attention to Ren Duomei, a housewife played by Bai Bing.
Bai Bing's Ren Duomei is a full-time wife. Although her husband is rich and powerful, he pays 20,000 yuan a month for living expenses, but he lives in her husband's house. Her mother-in-law looks down on her, and her husband is still outside with his junior sister. So life is not very happy.
Ren Duomei's ability is quite strong, but under the control of her husband, she has gradually become a senior nanny who can only do laundry and cook, and ask her husband for money every month. Her low self-esteem from a small place made her sometimes difficult to ride a tiger and faced an embarrassing situation. Later, under the persuasion of her best friend, she also experienced a lot of things, and her heart became stronger and stronger. She finally made up her mind to become independent, start her own business, and stop being a canary trapped in a cage.
When she didn't know that her husband was having an affair with her junior sister, Ren Duomei still insisted on taking care of her husband's housework. She was willing to wash her hands and make soup. She even wanted to have a baby to get economic income under the urging of her mother-in-law. His position in the family, but when he lied to his husband, flirted with his junior sister, even threw the blame for infertility on himself, and even said that his PUA was for the better of the two, Ren Duo said. Beauty is disappointed.
She finally understands that if she is not an independent woman and always depends on her husband, then she can only always look at other people's faces and be a puppet that depends on others.
So Ren Duomei finally got up and started to grow up and start a career, and was about to open a beauty salon. Facing her husband's objection, she retorted firmly: "Why do you think I like that kind of life, if someone takes care of others and Doing housework is the center of finding happiness willingly, and the housekeeper is the happiest person in the world. If you need Mrs. Zhang to sacrifice herself to fulfill you, then I can make way."
These words made her husband speechless. That's right, she wants to stop Ren Duomei's economy to take advantage of her, but at this time Ren Duomei is no longer the former Ren Duomei. Before doing this, she had already prepared reserve funds, just for fear of having One day will be kicked out like this, and then be penniless. Sure enough, an excellent, beautiful and independent woman, so sassy!
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Therefore, in real life, many housewives live very hard, they are too dependent on their husbands and dependents on the family, any family needs two people to pay together, not one of them sacrifices himself in exchange for it The stability of this family will certainly not last long.
And the efforts of housewives are often not seen, the daily maintenance and three meals a day are so hard, and they are also disliked by people who are idle at home and rely on their husbands to support them, and their self-confidence is hit.
In fact, it is rare for a woman to be willing to give up her career and give up many things to return to the family and manage the housework. Women also have the strength to work hard in their careers, and they also have the ability to make money, but for the sake of their families, they are willing to be the women behind them. How much sacrifice does it have to make? But in the eyes of some men and mothers-in-law, such sacrifices are insignificant, and they don't even know how to cherish them, which often leads to women's disappointment.
Therefore, a woman must be an independent woman, even though she is a full-time wife, she must also have the economy in her hands and hold a certain amount of economic power.
is like Ren Duomei. Although he finally divorced, he still retains his strength and has the ability to make a new breakthrough. Women are not accessories, so you don't have to kowtow to live at home, this is the confidence of a confident woman!
