On the dining table, there are so many fish and meat, but Ma Youtie eats a bowl of white rice with two white steamed buns . He didn't stretch out his chopsticks to pick up the dishes on the table.
Ma Youtie's third brother is called Ma Youtong. According to the logic of "gold, silver, copper and iron", it also implies the place of iron in his family.
The third brother's son is going to get married and start a family, and he dislikes Ma Youtie to live with them, so the third brother famously gave Ma Youtie a blind date to make him start a family, in fact, he wanted to kick him out.
Cao Guiying was also disliked by her brother-in-law, and her situation at her brother-in-law's house was also very bad, because she gave a steamed bun to a homeless person, and was beaten by her brother-in-law.
So when Cao Guiying and Ma Youtie had a blind date, the two people were numb, silent and at the mercy of others.
After the two got together, Gui Ying made a donkey out of straw and asked Youtie: "Is it like our donkey?" Grass will not be called by others." You Tie was not talking about the donkey, but himself.
Gui Ying said: "The first time I came to your third brother's house, I remembered that he beat the donkey. I see you in the backyard feeling distressed about the donkey, feeding it Baogu..." Gui Ying said, "This is the first time I come to you. "Third Brothers" refers to the time they had a blind date.
Gui Ying paused and said, "This donkey... this donkey's life is better than mine." Youtie didn't say anything, but he wiped the corners of his eyes and wept.
, these two people who are unloved and ruthlessly ignored by their families, have a complete emotional flow between them, seeing and understanding each other's hearts, Gui Ying understands the hardships in Tie's heart and the difficulties in Tie's heart for Gui Ying.
The real pity of a person is not how miserable he is, but the pain in his heart that has never been seen.
Love is an instinct, but based on this "seeing".
You Tie and Gui Ying's brothers and sisters-in-law "can't see" them, so in front of their families, You Tie and Gui Ying are numb and silent.
02
Love can make a person live like a human
There is a small detail in the movie, I thought the director did a great job. When
was harvesting wheat, Youtie asked Guiying to help him deliver some bundles of wheat to the donkey cart. Loving and being loved creates expectations and makes one feel like a whole person.
But Gui Ying's strength is too small, she tried several times but failed. Youtie got angry all of a sudden and complained to Gui Ying, "You can't even hand me several bundles of wheat!..." After he jumped out of the donkey cart, he pushed Gui Ying aside angrily. At this time, a couple in the distance who were working together to load wheat into the truck appeared in the camera.
This is not a comparison, but a demonstration.
This is the only time You Tie has emotions, and it is also the only time Gui Ying is petty and angry.
Gui Ying was disliked by Youtie, so she got angry and ignored Youtie, and Youtie caught up and tried to coax her for a while.
This is the normal noisy between husband and wife.
You must know that You Tie and Gui Ying have been neglected for a long time. They are numb and silent. They were used to the state of blindly enduring silently.
However, a normal and complete person is emotional.
Also, a person only has emotions when he feels safe and knows he can be seen by others.
So Youtie gets angry and complains at Guiying because Guiying can handle it; Guiying is also angry at Youtie because she knows Youtie cares about her and will coax her.
People like to say that it takes love to be capricious.
is like this, love is a sense of security, being recognized and cared for, making people live like individuals.
03
Once a lonely person feels love, he can't stand loneliness any more Although the ending of the
movie is very obscure, it should be dead if there is iron. There are hints in the movie.
Finally, when iron finished eating the egg and lay on the bed, the process of changing the wheat ears of the wheat ears appeared in the camera.
When you combine Tie and Gui Ying to harvest wheat, Tie gives Gui Ying a mature wheat. When the top of the wheat awns is facing the direction of the wheat, the wheat is ripe. To be mature is to die.
and in the end some iron sold all the wheat, let go of the donkey...etc, all hints.
has a detail:
neighbors said to Youtie: "You now have a house and food, and it's good to live alone."
Youtie silently walked away without saying a word. .
saw this and I cried the most.
For Youtie, even if there is a house and food, a place without Guiying is not home.
People who have not seen love will not know how wonderful that starlight is; ;
Those who have not loved and been loved will not understand that once a lonely person feels love, he can no longer stand alone.
Love makes people hopeful and not afraidhardship.
Love is not just about giving or getting; love is a kind of motivation, a kind of wonderful and warm creation.
Youtie is a gentle and good guy.
He understands that the lack of love is the deepest suffering of a person compared to the lack of material.
Youtie went with Gui Ying.
In this vast wasteland of life, they are each other's only.
Speaking of suffering, is it true that only those with Tie and Guiying on the ground have suffering?
We are busy in the city, don't we have our own difficulties?
Therefore, in my opinion, "Hidden in the Dust" is not a bitterness film, it is not just about suffering, but a beautiful fairy tale that happens in suffering.
Fu Seoul has an argument about fairy tales in "Wonderful Flowers", she said:
"Many people understand fairy tales as children, but I understand them as the original people. If you experience all kinds of hardships in reality, look back at fairy tales , will still believe it is true, you are still the original you, what a happy person you are."
You Tie and Guiying are fairy tales on the land.
I would like to believe they are real.
