, Li Yifeng and were accused of prostitution, which was ridiculed by the whole people and boycotted by the whole network. And Zhang Han and 's new drama "Mr. from the East Eighth District" was launched at the same time. After seeing a "salty pig hand" clip in Zhang Han's new drama, sharp-eyed netizens resolutely urged the matter to be exposed. The articles published by the authoritative media are real, objectifying women in an instant, and the topic of disrespecting women has once again set off a huge wave.
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Originally, such a topic is not bad, it can increase the importance of respecting women in all walks of life, and deepen people's thinking about gender equality in this social environment.
However, with the encouragement of some "concerned people", the topic of respecting women has once again become a debate between men and women, and the relationship between the sexes has once again become tit-for-tat.
has this line in "Mr. East Eighth District": "Women, after being injured, they are the most terrifying animals, and they will not die after 10,000 years of bleeding." The original meaning of this sentence is a kind of ridicule for women's moon knot. It has existed many years ago. Just like the sentence "men are all animals thinking about the lower body", it is just a kind of ridicule, and there is no discrimination. Women, do not respect women's meaning to exist.
But when such a sentence appears in this sensitive time period, even if it does not mean that it is discriminatory against women, it will become something in the fermentation of public opinion. And now people's focus is no longer on whether or not there is, but on the issue of the confrontation between men and women. Zhang Han's new drama is already a victim.
It is worth noting that whenever there is such a topic, the question of male and female opposition will not be absent. For example, the "Tangshan Beating Incident" and "Wu Yifan's Prostitution Incident" some time ago. Moreover, on many platforms, when it comes to the topic of relationship between men and women, someone will provoke a confrontation between men and women.
Is it really a normal phenomenon for such a high density of confrontational topics between men and women? In my opinion, it's not. The main reasons are the following five points:
1. The normal group of men and women
What we cannot deny is that there are many men and women haters in this society. In their opinion, this kind of topic belongs to As long as they see their home stadium, they will most likely participate and promote the fermentation of public opinion.
2. Ordinary people who are easily driven by emotional environment
Once there is a topic of opposition between men and women, there will inevitably be devaluation of women or men. At this time, there will also be an emotional environment, and some are easier Ordinary people who are driven by the emotional environment will also join the topic battle.
3. Media
who are interested in opposing traffic between men and women will inevitably bring traffic, and traffic is the most profitable thing in this era. Some platforms can directly turn traffic into revenue, which is undoubtedly very attractive to those in the media industry. They will participate in various forms such as videos and articles to gain traffic. I am writing this article, no doubt one of them.
Fourth, the involvement of foreign capital
In the era of the epidemic, many foreign countries are not doing well. Naturally, those countries don't want China to do well either. China is now the second economy, and it's one step away from rushing to No. 1 and accomplishing a great renaissance. However, many countries are obviously not happy to see such a situation happen, and will try their best to prevent it. Some methods are on the surface, and everyone can see them. Some methods are carried out in the dark, and not many people can see it.
For example, Northwestern Polytechnical University was attacked some time ago. If it wasn't for the school's exposure, I believe most people would not know about it. These secret methods are various and hidden in our daily life. They seem to be very far away, but they are actually very close, and many people have even been recruited.
Actually think about it carefully, from the opposition between rich and poor in the past, the opposition between the government and the people, and now the opposition between men and women, the person who can get the most benefit from it must be one of the parties in the opposition relationship? For example, in the racial confrontation event of beautiful country , is the biggest beneficiary one of them?
is obviously not. Equal access comes from its own strength, not from devaluing a party. Competition drives development, but oppositionNo, there will only be conflict. The reason why
talks so much on this point is that people should take a longer view.
5. "Closed" information push on the platform
I believe that many people have encountered such a thing. Once they search for an item on , Baidu or other platforms, and then go to Taobao or other Jingdong , You will see the items you searched for on the recommendations of these platforms.
In the current era of big data, what kind of person you are and what hobbies you have are often recorded clearly and clearly on major platforms, and you even know yourself better than you. Through these data, the platform will continue to push the things you like to see to you.
For example, when you participate in a topic of opposition between men and women, you will be recommended by the platform to similar things in the future, attracting you to participate all the time, and it is possible that you will influence people around you to participate together. Under this recommendation mechanism, the topic of opposition between men and women will be like a snowball, and it will get bigger and bigger.
These reasons are my personal judgments, but I think there is some truth to them. By writing this article, I am also participating in this topic. Of course, I can choose to stay on my own and not express my own words, then nothing will happen.
However, in the overall social environment, it is not a matter of being alone, and not participating is not the best solution. There is always a need for someone to stand up and say a fair word. It is better to change a person than not to change at all. No one can be a savior, but everyone can be a savior. I'm not going to go too far with
. What I want to express is that in this conflict between men and women, we must have our own judgment.
