Mother Zhang occasionally learns that her daughter-in-law, who has low eyebrows and pleasing eyes in front of her, actually has the identity of an "emotional writer". She uses her own privacy to post some sensational articles on the Internet, selling anxiety, and even regards marriage as a Occupation to operate.
's mother Zhang, who has to intervene in everything, even expressed her dissatisfaction to Ren Duomei: uses her privacy to make money, aren't you dragging Weichen's hind legs?
Ren Duomei did not dare to disobey her mother-in-law, and she was afraid that her mother-in-law would look down on her even more when she saw the articles she wrote " mother-in-law is the boss, husband is human resources ", so she quietly asked Shen Jianan for help and asked her to log off herself. 's public account.
, the mother-in-law who once said that entering her son's house without permission, and kept saying that she would not disturb the husband and wife's life and would never cross the boundary of the husband and wife's small family, made people suffocated and chilled.
, especially her mother-in-law's pervasive blending of young couples and families, makes people see that under her seemingly friendly and friendly mask to Ren Duomei, she hides a mother-in-law's greatest malice and selfishness towards her daughter-in-law.
The price of having a baby
Hearing the daughter-in-law said that she wants to take care of her body and have a baby, her mother-in-law brought Ren Duomei to the supplement store and bought a bunch of bird's nest supplements. Got such a good mother-in-law ". If
hadn't seen her mother-in-law "buy" her belly with 500,000 yuan, I would have believed her a good mother-in-law.
Zhang's mother doesn't like Ren Duomei. In her eyes, Ren Duomei is a "gold worshiper" with a clear price tag. No matter what she wants to do, as long as the price is right, she can get her.
Zhang Weichen didn't want children. Instead of urging her son, Zhang's mother kept urging Duomei, and offered her daughter-in-law a degrading condition of " a child 500,000 ". She is regarded as a "reproductive tool" to carry on the lineage.
Ren Duomei married Zhang's family as a non-local woman, and the distance from Zhang's family is not a star or two. In addition, when she got married, Ren Duomei's mother once asked for a high dowry, although in the end, she didn't pay a cent for the dowry. She married Zhang Weichen without asking, but this didn't make her mother-in-law look at her highly. Instead, she felt that she wanted to marry her son after lowering her social status, but she wanted more. .
So in Zhang's house, her mother-in-law never gave Ren Duomei any face, and she was not polite to talk to her. She had to control how to serve her husband with all her heart and how to have children every day.
It seems that her only worth is to serve her husband and have children. There is no need to discuss anything with her, nor to talk about respect. As long as the price is right, she has to do it. This is her duty as the daughter-in-law of the Zhang family.
Zhang's mother never concealed her contempt for Ren Duomei, nor her disgust for her. Every time she said a word, it was either a mockery or a thorn in her words.
It's impossible for Zhang's mother not to know that Ren Duomei is insincerely pleasing to her, and it is impossible that she doesn't know Ren Duomei's suffocation and forbearance, but she just wants to humiliate Ren Duomei, she wants to trample her on the soles of her feet, and she is humble to please her Submissive look of suffocation.
Who let her be a money-sucking girl, and who let her "seduce" her son to disobey his mother would marry her.
How humble and flattering Ren Duomei is in front of her, how much she dislikes and looks down on her, but she would be an obedient nanny, serving her son's food and drink, and giving birth to her family's children. I don't mind playing "harmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" with her, and I don't mind giving her some sweetness, but this does not mean that she accepts Ren Duomei as a daughter-in-law.
Remote control in life
Zhang's mother is a very controlling person. It can be seen from the fact that she let Zhang Weichen give birth to a child earlier. Zhang Weichen is very afraid of disobeying her and dare not talk back to her, even admitting to her in front of her. I don't even want to have children.
Although Ren Duomei does not live with Zhang's mother, this does not prevent her mother-in-law from controlling their lives.
not only has a hand in giving birth to a child, she has to control her daughter-in-law remotely, whether it is big enough to eat, drink, lasa, or buy a mop, , vacuum cleaner, , and how to mop the floor.
Mother Zhang keeps saying that they are open-minded parents,She won't interfere too much with the life between their husband and wife, but she has strict requirements on what the daughter-in-law and son usually eat and drink.
For example, Ren Duomei went shopping with her mother-in-law in the supermarket. Mother Zhang would put all the things she wanted to eat on the grounds that it was not good for the child or was not nutritious. But for the things her son liked to eat, she could not wait to give the whole supermarket to her. move back.
She hopes that Ren Duomei can take good care of her son like an old mother, take care of her son regardless of the size of the matter, eat everything based on her son's taste, and do everything based on her son's work. Hand him a piece of paper to wipe his ass.
But even if Ren Duomei sleeps later than Zhang Weichen, wakes up earlier than Zhang Weichen, washes, cooks soup and cooks for hygiene every day, and takes care of Zhang Weichen like a "giant baby", Zhang's mother is still dissatisfied with her and feels that she "even Housewives can't do well":
Being a leisurely housewife at home, I don't even understand, Wei Chen is under a lot of pressure in the work unit, I think you're going to be stupid when you stay at home.
's accusations and insults to Ren Duomei, Zhang's mother has always disdain , she thinks that Ren Duomei is supported by Zhang Weichen, she thinks that she is too leisurely at home, and she thinks that her work is dragging her son's hind legs.
No matter what Ren Duomei does, she can't get her eyes, because no matter how well she does, she will never be a qualified daughter-in-law in her heart.
Mother-in-law's evil
Zhang Weichen once coaxed Ren Duomei and said: My mother is not satisfied with you, thinks that you have no job, thinks that your family is not good, but I still insist on marrying you.
Zhang Weichen's "rebelliousness" made Zhang's mother instantly hostile to Ren Duomei.
Many people speculate why Zhang Weichen is reluctant to have children. Some people say that he is Dink , some people say that he does not love Ren Duomei, and some people say that he is infertile.
Here, I also boldly speculate that Zhang Weichen is reluctant to have children, maybe not because he doesn't like children, but because he was controlled by his mother too strictly since he was a child, and he doesn't want to have another child to repeat his life.
Zhang Weichen had said to Ren Duomei very dissatisfiedly before: My mother is used to giving orders, and now she is in charge of our lives. We live our lives and don't have to listen to her.
However, he can't get rid of his mother's control at all. Although they don't live together, but through Ren Duomei, his mother still arranges their daily life pervasively. Forbearance can coax, can help him share some of his mother's attention and help him avoid his mother's war.
Although Ren Duomei married into Zhang's family, she originally wanted money, but a controlling mother-in-law like Zhang's mother, no matter who married Zhang Chuanchen, she might be an "evil mother-in-law".
She accounts for almost all the evil that looks like a "bad mother-in-law": A daughter-in-law is not worthy of a good meal and a good rest; a daughter-in-law should be a babysitter and surround her son; a daughter-in-law should do housework as a matter of course, but if she thinks about her son's money, she No; my daughter-in-law will never be worthy of my son's excellence; I look down on my daughter-in-law's lowliness, and my daughter-in-law says she doesn't respect her elders;
Zhang Weichen does not reject his junior sister's blatant courtship, nor does he refuse to be ambiguous with her, but he will never marry her, because she is not the type of daughter-in-law that Zhang's mother can control, nor can she be submissive to Ren Duomei.
Zhang's mother's almost suffocating desire for control made Zhang Weichen have to marry Ren Duomei, who "has a plan". Such a daughter-in-law can let Zhang's mother handle it, let Zhang Weichen handle it, and Ren Duomei's humbleness and flattery can make him escape temporarily. mother's control.
A mother-in-law like Zhang's mother is strong and selfish. On the surface, under the guise of "for your own good", she pervasively invades the families of her sons and daughters-in-law, and dictates all aspects of their lives.
Wu Zhihong wrote in "Why Does Love Hurt People": The most obvious feature of
's "evil mother-in-law" is her deformed love for her son. In her eyes, her son is always her own, and her daughter-in-law is just someone who forcibly inserted into the family the third party, she hates her daughter-in-lawThe woman robbed her son, but had to accept her because of her son.
Zhang's mother once said that she was an open-minded mother-in-law and would not interfere too much in the life of their husband and wife, but everything she did and every word she said showed her selfishness and evil towards her daughter-in-law.
No matter who Zhang Weichen marries, in Zhang's mother's mind, that woman is an evil daughter-in-law who "robbed her son".
