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Ren Duomei is a veritable fishing girl.
There is no love between her and Zhang Weichen, just an employment relationship.
When Ren Duomei abandoned her poor first love boyfriend to marry Zhang Weichen, she was destined to become a fishing girl.
Zhang Weichen asked Ren Duomei to be a full-time housewife after getting married. Ren Duomei asked Zhang Weichen to pay himself 20,000 yuan a month. After the deal was reached, the two started married life.
In the more than ten episodes of " Their Names ", we found that Ren Duomei and Zhang Weichen have a close relationship with each other, and Ren Duomei has always been gentle and not quarreling.
Even if her husband and green tea are constantly ambiguous, even if she notices the difference, she still forbears. She should bring food to her husband, and she should accompany her mother-in-law to the supermarket.
She showed her best side to her husband and mother-in-law. She felt that this was the professional ethics a housewife should have. But in essence, she was trying to please the Zhang family.
Because her husband and mother-in-law are her bosses, she must treat the boss well before she can get a salary. This is the principle that Ren Duomei has been insisting on since her marriage.
In order to be a fishing girl, Ren Duomei even deceived Zhang Weichen that her own father died, and she seldom contacted her parents' family in order to be her fishing girl well.
She wants to live a good life, so she has to cut ties with her old life.
In the marriage, Ren Duomei endured her husband's control and her mother-in-law's nitpicking, for her own benefit.
She has longed for a day like this for a long time since she was a child, and now she has finally lived it, so she cherishes it even more.
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Everything Ren Duomei has done in marriage is painful.
A marriage without love can do such a false thing.
It seems that Ren Duomei is very happy, with freedom of life and money. In fact, her self-esteem and soul are tightly held by her husband and mother-in-law.
This is what she asked for.
had always wanted to live such a life, but now she has to pretend to enjoy it no matter how painful it is.
But she awakened .
lived the life of a fishing girl because she longed for security in her heart.
But such a life without worrying about money did not give her a sense of security, but made her live a painful and aggrieved life.
She always thought she wanted this kind of life, but she was not happy in this kind of life.
What does this mean?
means that this life is not what she wants at all.
When I was young, I just wanted to pursue what I lacked since I was a child.
is now mature enough to realize that what she pursues doesn't bring her joy.
What about that?
started to fight back.
, on the surface, it seems that Ren Duomei started to fight back because he was persuaded by friends, is essentially because Ren Duomei has matured.
became a fishing girl not because she was bad, but because her childhood experience made her take a detour.
It takes detours to find mistakes. In the last few episodes of
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, Ren Duomei began to fight back against her husband's control and her mother-in-law.
She's no longer the one who lets anyone knowMum, my husband wanted to eat sweet and sour fish , she politely refused, and her mother-in-law asked her to make fish, she secretly added more salt to make them empty.
Instead of waiting at home for her husband to come home for dinner, she went out to secretly pursue a career.
Ren Duomei's awakening makes many people very happy, after all, women who are engaged in career are the most attractive.
Actually, this is the process of a woman's growth and awakening.
Take Ren Duomei as an example. She married Zhang Weichen and she lived the life she wanted, but she did not find the sense of security she lacked.
Zhang Weichen said that he loved her, but he was not clear with his little junior sister.
She did not feel the deep love from her husband, but felt the crisis. The mother-in-law
wants her to take good care of her husband and not drag her back.
also wants her to have children, 500,000 for one, and 1 million for two.
's mother-in-law didn't care about Ren Duomei at all, she just calculated and despised.
Because Ren Duomei became a fishing girl, in the eyes of Zhang's family, she was a nanny who could be manipulated by anyone with money.
They lacked respect and care for Ren Duomei, and lacked the enthusiasm to be a family. Ren Duomei could only be a smiling vase and nanny in this family.
The relationship between their family looks harmonious, but in fact it is cold and has no feelings at all.
As she grew older, Ren Duomei gradually realized her mistake, and her heart began to wake up. Instead of being looked down upon by her husband's family all her life, it was better to stand up and be herself.
So what's behind the fight back?
It must be that the fishing girl is mature and doesn't want to be a fishing girl anymore.
have tried the taste of getting something for nothing, and also the taste of being looked down upon. After a long time of hypocrisy, life will be boring. It is better to live and be free on your own.
People are most prone to detours when they are young, especially beautiful girls like Ren Duomei who were injured in their original family and raised in poverty. They will always use their beauty to exchange the life they want.
All the gifts from fate have been secretly marked with prices.
Ren Duomei's marriage in exchange for self-esteem and beauty also has its price.
When she recognized the price and decided to break out of the siege, she was her hero.
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