In " Their Names ", Ren Duomei is a gentle and beautiful full-time housewife, who has money to drive a good car and spare time in the gym. She has neither the troubles of work nor the trouble of raising children, she is well-off and has a carefree life. It is right that she is a decent rich wife.
But as soon as the camera turned, when her mother-in-law came on stage, we saw another appearance of Ren Duomei's prosperous life: she was cautious and aggrieved at her mother-in-law's family.
Ren Duomei's mother-in-law is full of superiority, and she always misses the opportunity to stab people when chatting. The information revealed inside and outside the words tells us that this marriage is not right.
High-married women enjoy the benefits of marriage, and they will inevitably suffer from marriage grievances.
Ren Duomei is not a simple fool, just like Lei Li's evaluation of her: beautiful and intelligent Ms. Ren.
She is very smart, knows how to deal with her mother-in-law, and deftly resolves the meaning of her mother-in-law; she can also live up to the reputation of being a good helper, she takes care of her husband's life in an orderly manner, and the boss who entertains her husband in social aspects is also sensitive and thoughtful, such a perfect woman Why are you so humble in marriage?
As the plot progresses, the answer is slowly revealed, and Ren Duomei's image has gradually become fuller.
She has a father of a labor prisoner, a poor family, an unforgettable love affair, and a determination to break free from reality.
Ren Duomei and Tan Tian, went through a period of youthful youth together, loved and missed, how beautiful it was, how regrettable it was later.
Duomei, who didn't want to start from scratch, gave up Tan Tian, who was full of her eyes, and chose Zhang Weichen from a superior family, and lived the life she wanted in one step.
It's a pity that the gift of fate has already been secretly priced at a price. After a few years, when Duomei understands that all the things she has gained because of marriage need to be exchanged with sincerity and respect, will she still be willing?
Some people say that she is hateful, hates the poor and loves the rich, and deserves the suffering of her in-laws.
Is she hateful? There are some, when weighing the pros and cons and abandoning Qin Tian; when lying about his father's death for marrying into the Zhang family, when reducing contact with his mother in order not to make his mother-in-law ridiculed, when his father did not recognize each other after he was released from prison.
These all reflect her selfishness, and her authenticity.
She is trying her best to hide her past, her family, her unbearable past. And she blamed her father, a labor prisoner, so she hated him.
But watching her along the way, her mental journey, she was wronged for the choice she had made, but she couldn't hate it.
can't hate it maybe because she's not completely bad.
She will take the initiative to ask her husband for the salary of a full-time housewife and work with pay;
naturally negotiates with her mother-in-law about the reward price of having a child (one 500,000, two 1 million), and the abacus of using marriage as a business is cracking. .
, however, regularly calls his parents for living expenses every month, and when his parents moved back to their hometown, he even took out the 300,000 yuan accumulated during the marriage.
Is everything she does for herself?
She is not that kind of downright hateful. She also reflected on her dreams at midnight, struggled with reality in the noisy daytime, and occasionally fought back when she was extremely aggrieved.
also tried several times not to be a captive canary . When he woke up, he retracted back into that beautiful cage under Zhang Weichen's PUA, even if the cage was uncomfortable.
can be strong on his own, why should he compromise?
I am afraid that only when she gets out of this rich and restrained cage, does not depend on anyone, and becomes herself, can she truly face the past calmly, reconcile with the past, and live a comfortable life.
