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saw a movie review about " Hidden into the Dust ":
"No rose can be grown in the desert in the northwest, and the wheat flower in my hand is the most turbulent love in my heart."
Many people have learned from Ma Youtie and Cao Guiying Seeing love, I feel sorry for Cao Guiying's sudden death, and I am very sorry that their lives have gradually improved, but they have lost everything. We don't want to see tragedy. When I saw Cao Guiying's death by drowning, I didn't recover for a long time. Why did I die suddenly?
But for them, it may have been a relatively good ending.
It's just that their love is too short, and they should be together for a longer time.
"Hidden in the Dust", what really moved you?
Is it that they can still live calmly in the face of a tragic and disgusting fate; or that they "live together", in the loess world, the two of them plough, sow, irrigate, harvest, thresh, make adobe, and cover. The house, living a small life, harvesting, and other daily labors impress you.
The emotions of the two of them are very common things, and there is not much interaction in words, but it is such a very simple marriage and daily life, but it can flow into the hearts of the audience in a plain and simple way.
Shouldn't love be linked to material things?
Shouldn't love be linked to luxurious romance?
However, we were all touched by the emotion between the two of them.
and the stamina is very strong, it will not be forgotten for a long time.
Ma Youtie and Cao Guiying, they don't understand love, they probably don't know how to write the word "love", but they interpret a kind of love we all yearn for: respect, wholeheartedly towards each other, mutual support and distress Each other, and will not dislike each other, there is no calculation, only sincerity.
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Some details of their interaction A rope tied Cao Guiying, and said, "The old men and women at the bridgehead said that I wish I could tie you to the belt of my pants. I'll tie you up a little bit. Don't fall asleep until midnight and roll off the roof";
Cao Guiying She said that a donkey is better than her own life, and the reason why she followed Ma Youtie was because she thought "he is a good man";
Ma Youtie went out to help his nephew pull furniture and came back late, Cao Guiying was standing on the bridge and waiting, wrapped in clothes A bottle of hot boiling water;
They borrowed ten eggs from others, and at night the two of them watched the eggs hatch and the chicks were full of beautiful sights in their eyes.
is too much, too much, and a lot of detail.
The old wives at the entrance of the village all envy Ma Youtie and love Cao Guiying so much, but no one wants to marry Ma Youtie, why? Because love is of course linked to material things. For people who have nothing, the relationship between them is relatively equal. Where can there be calculation and disgust?
A good love still needs to be "matched". You two are in the same situation, and you can empathize with each other better.
Ma Youtie can understand Cao Guiying's feelings, because he himself is at a very marginal level and has always lived a life of "disgusting". He is an old rural bachelor, who would treat him normally? More ridicule surrounds him. He is used to this kind of life. When others make fun of him, he is not angry, he smiles. For
to live with Cao Guiying, it is already quite good for him; so does
Cao Guiying.
They all belong to humble and dusty lives. After "living together", the twoPersonal life has a rush, and there is hope.
Love is very simple, but also complicated
Love is related to a person's cognitive level. It depends on what kind of person you are. Most of us are attracted to people who are similar to us. If you want to have a good love, you can't dislike the person you love. Once you lose respect and you start to dislike it, it means that the two of you are no longer the same person, and it is not suitable for you to continue living together.
Many people meet love but eventually part ways, often because they have too many desires and want too much.
In real life, too many people are disturbed by love, and too many people do not love each other in their marriages, so when everyone sees the love between Ma Youtie and Cao Guiying, they will be moved and feel that they live like that The environment, the daily life of the two people is quite warm.
Love is simple and simple. If you don't have so many desires, maybe you will feel happy.
Ma Youtie and Cao Guiying, they don't understand love, but because they are in the same situation, they will treat each other wholeheartedly.
Some people understand love very well, but it is often difficult to have good love, because it is difficult to find a suitable person;
Some people do not understand love, but have good love, because they have met the right person people.
So, if you want to have a good love and marriage, in the final analysis, you still have to find someone who is really suitable for you.
When you find it, don't dislike him, respect him, you cherish each other, have a vision of a small life, you support each other, and you can live a good life.
Don't have too many desires, you have to know how to be content, you have to work hard and make progress, you have to know how to take responsibility, and you have to be like-minded, in order to have a good life.
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Ma Youtie and Cao Guiying have one of the most precious points in their relationship: They have returned to the most sincere feelings between people. And this kind of relationship is too rare for us ordinary people. If we have it in an intimate relationship, we will have good love and marriage, and we will live very happily.
Cherish the people around us, our life may not be as good as others, but seriously, it is quite good. People must know contentment, and only contented people can perceive happiness. While contented, have a clear goal and work hard.
To live seriously and hard, to be kind to the person who treats you well.
You have to show sincerity to your partner, since the two of you have lived together, please have a good time.
Everyone's return path is the same, and they will eventually disappear into the dust, but whether you can live seriously when you are alive, treat someone with sincerity, can you take on the responsibilities you should shoulder, and whether you can keep yourself alive Especially if you have a head, can you love someone well?
Live well and live your own life.
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