Director Huang said to Li Junxiao: "When you truly realize your own problems, you have really improved."
As the plot progresses, I understand more and more why Director Huang said this.
Li Junxiao's inferiority complex is too annoying. Although he was a top student who graduated from medical school, his inferiority complex never really made him stand up.
He is a top student who graduated from a well-known medical school. With his excellent communication skills and surgical skills, he worked in the hospital for only two years and became the chief resident doctor, but these external auras cannot completely eliminate his deep inner feelings. inferiority complex.
His inferiority complex makes him not open enough in both work and life, and it also makes the people around him feel aggrieved.
When Li Junxiao was ten years old, his parents died unexpectedly at work. His older sister, who is six years older than him, took on the responsibility of being a parent, doing odd jobs outside, doing coolies on the construction site, and earning money for him to go to school until he graduated from college.
Li Junxiao, who was poor in material conditions since childhood, lacked the teachings and love of his elders, could not afford a decent meal, could not afford decent clothes, lost his parents since he was a child, and had no parents to support him. bud.
He can only repay his sister and fight against fate by studying hard. He hopes to study hard and find a way for himself to be a successful man.
But Li Junxiao's inferiority complex deeply affected his life.
Don't love his girlfriend, but want to marry her
When Li Junxiao was studying in medical school, he liked a female classmate in his class, her name is Wu Congrui, just because she was a girl who grew up in the city, so she never had the courage to pursue her.
instead took the second place and chose to pursue Wu Congrui's good friend Du Di. Because Du Di was also a college student from the countryside, he felt that they were equal, and there was no regional inequality or discrimination.
When it rains heavily, he will pretend to meet Wu Congrui with an umbrella. Du Di has moved several times, but he has never helped him because of the lack of things.
After graduating, he stayed in the hospital to work and never dared to slack off. He worked hard, and finally, after two years of work, he became the chief inpatient of the hospital, becoming the youngest doctor who became the fastest inpatient.
's career has risen to a new level, and he thinks it is time to consider marriage. So he proposed to Du Di on the day of his promotion. Unexpectedly, Du Di rejected his marriage proposal on the grounds that his work was more important.
Li Junxiao believes that women are born to sacrifice their careers for the family, and a woman's womb is naturally used for childbirth. Now that he has a stable career, the time to get married will come.
He hopes that Du Di will focus on family, if he wants to balance career and family, it is impossible.
and Du Di's idea is completely the opposite, she thinks, why women must sacrifice their careers for the family?
Her dream is to become an excellent obstetrics and gynecology doctor like a mentor. If she chooses to get married and have children during the rising stage of her career, when will she realize her dream?
Li Junxiao doesn't understand Du Di, maybe he doesn't want to understand at all, because he doesn't love her, he proposes to her, just because it's time to get married, so even if he doesn't love her, he will still choose to marry her.
He is a person who makes do with marriage.
Because of his inferiority, Li Junxiao missed the girl he liked, and because of his inferiority, he thought that Du Di looked down on him and thought he was poor, so he refused to marry him.
He thinks his career is very important, but he can't respect a woman's choice to respect her career.
He said to Du Di: "I thinkHaving been in love with you is nothing to brag about. "
This is such a contempt for Du Di.
Sister Li Junxiao said to Du Di: "I think the worst thing about my brother is that he chased you in college. "
Really, siblings see things from the same angle.
boyfriends and girlfriends, if they find it inappropriate, they can be separated. Sister Li Junxiao regards Du Di as someone who dislikes the poor and loves the rich, and if they attack her personally, it seems Too small.
has a small heart and slandered his girlfriend
After Li Junxiao broke up with Du Di, he never let go. He always thought that Du Di looked down on him and thought he was poor, so he broke up. At work, he and Du Di were tit for tat. I hope she will become the new hospital chief, and slander her in front of her good friend Wu Congrui for being dark.
In order to encourage Wu Congrui to compete for the hospital chief's confidence, Li Junxiao said that Du Di's study and hard work were all due to resentment, but Wu Congrui did not It's the same, she is a genius.
Du Di did not betray him, and did not do anything wrong to him, but he broke up Du Di with him. He has always held grudges.
He satirized Du Di whenever he got the chance.
Li Junxiao had dreams, but he couldn't understand Du Di's dreams. He had been traumatized in his growth, but he would not sympathize with Du Di's injuries in his growth. Excuses, and her efforts to attack her are just because of resentment against the idea of patriarchal.
Li Junxiao's heart is really not worthy of a man's heart.
Maybe all along, he loves himself more. Even his own sister, He also refused to recognize her because he was afraid that she would smear his image.
regarded the nurse's sister as a stranger.
Li Junxiao's sister was called Li Qiaoer. Because of her infertility for many years, she was disliked by her husband, although her mother-in-law forced her to eat it. A lot of unpalatable traditional Chinese medicine, but they are completely ineffective. She can't give birth to a child, her husband wants to divorce her.
Although Li Junxiao is Li Qiaoer's younger brother, and is an obstetrician and gynecologist in a big city hospital, she will never I have asked him to see a doctor. Just imagine, Li Junxiao casually introduced a well-known infertility doctor to his sister, which is more useful than eating those miscellaneous Chinese medicine prescriptions? It can be seen how worried Li Junxiao is about being known. He has this country sister who can't make it to the table.
Li Qiaoer is like Li Junxiao's mother and sister, who is unconditional for him. After her divorce, the first thing she thought of was Go to the big city to take care of him.
Li Junxiao is afraid that others will know that Li Qiaoer is his sister, just want her to hurry up go back. Li Qiaoer said, don't worry, I won't embarrass you or embarrass you.
Li Qiaoer knows that Li Junxiao loves face and is reluctant to admit the relationship between siblings in front of others, but she never gets angry. She voluntarily pretends to be ignorant in front of outsiders.
Li Junxiao was relieved after hearing what her sister said, and promised her to stay.
Coincidentally, Li Qiaoer became a nurse in her brother's department.
Li Junxiao did not dare to recognize his sister who had no knowledge or read any books for the sake of face and to conceal his identity as a rural person.
In his perception, rural people are a bit shorter than urban people, and a sister who has no knowledge can't do it well.
He is afraid that people will make fun of him and despise him after they know that he is from the countryside. Afraid that others will make fun of him for having an uninformed sister and lose his face.
This inferiority complex is really terrible.
That is the dearest sister, the sister who has suffered a lot for his schooling, but Li Junxiao is ashamed to recognize her sister for the sake of his own face. I have to say, I really feel that it is not worth it for Li Qiaoer.
Li Junxiao did not dare to recognize his sister, and it was not only his sister who humiliated, but also himself. A person who even dislikes and feels ashamed of his own origin is a person who forgets his roots.
inferiority complex is not terrible. After realizing inferiority, find a way to overcome it and make yourself a person who can be confident from the inside out, without external packaging, is a truly confident person.
Only when Li Junxiao realizes his own problems can he really have a chance to grow up. Otherwise, no matter how successful his career is and how famous he is in the future, he is still an unsound person.
Li Junxiao can only become the chief director of Shengji Hospital's Obstetrics and Gynecology Department if he realizes his own problems, no longer has low self-esteem, and learns to be generous, generous, and informal.
