I am a post-00, and I only had a one-sided understanding of pregnancy to delivery. After watching " Dear Life " in a row today, I feel that giving birth to life is a great process, and it is also very sad.
After watching six episodes, I saw two completely different "beliefs" of pregnant women.
Some expectant mothers are "strong women", they are very assertive and require that they not delay their career and family. It is very realistic. This society is very realistic to women. Women will take maternity leave when they become pregnant. Most people take maternity leave for several months at a time, but this expectant mother only took less than a few weeks. It's not that she doesn't love her children, and it's not that she doesn't love her body, but she knows how difficult it is for a 40-year-old woman to climb to the position of CEO of a company today.
I was impressed by her quote, "There is only one CEO in a company, and as long as I am not there, there will be another person in my place. I have to do my job perfectly, but the person who replaces me is only a little bit stronger than me. Then everyone will think that he is also very suitable for this position, very good. Then my decades of hard work will be in vain."
In order to reduce her hospitalization time, the expectant mother did not listen to the doctor's advice. private hospital brought oxytocin , ready to fight by himself. In the end, due to the wrong location of the oxytocin injection, the delivery was premature, and at the same time, the uterus was removed to save her life, which meant that she could no longer conceive and have children in the future.
The other is a mother-to-be who prefers "family", and she has no opinion at all.
She told the doctor that she had lost two babies, but the reality is not the case. The expectant mother had four children, two miscarried and two others who died at birth. Under her mother-in-law's decadent old thinking, she hid the situation from the doctor.
Her mother-in-law thinks slipping through the tire is not a good thing and can't tell others. The doctors of the other two babies who died at birth felt very strange and asked for an autopsy to find out the reason, but the mother-in-law still firmly disagreed. Even when the fifth child was difficult to deliver, the mother-in-law insisted on giving birth naturally. The husband of
is also a "mother boy" and obeys his mother in everything. In the end, even in labor, it was too late for the woman to tell the truth, and the child was not breathing soon after birth. There are many examples in
. There are expectant mothers who ask for the cheapest price for everything because their family is poor, and rural girls under the age of 19 who were tricked by their uncles to work in the city...
sincerely recommend everyone to watch this " Dear Life".
