just finished Ode to Joy 3 today, a total of 33 episodes of TV series, here are only some opinions on the content of this season. He Minhong in the
TV series seems to be a character that makes mistakes everywhere and makes people hate it. In the unit, colleagues didn't like it, and the leader wanted to drive it away; on the 22nd floor, the neighbors ignored it, and the roommates all denied it; in the circle of friends, Song Li posted on Weibo, and Yu Feixue broke up in person. If you only look at these results, it seems that He Minhong is simply a model of poor character in the Ode to Joy community. But in fact, the starting point of almost all of He Minhong's things is good intentions. He Minhong's problems lie in "nosy", "low emotional intelligence", "inexperience in society" and "idealism". But can the above questions really make He Minhong such a hated person? I don't think so? So what caused this result? I think it's because the characters in the TV series have an unbalanced evaluation system for the severity of their faults, exaggerating Ho Min-hung's problems, narrowing down other people's problems, and the ubiquitous large-scale double-standard scene throughout the show.
Ye Zhenzhen, rich second generation, scientist, doctor, EQ and IQ are all online, everyone likes it. After Lucy found out that her brother was the one stalking her, instead of apologizing immediately, Dr. Ye threatened to tell the secret in public. Promised to keep a secret for Lucy, and told David when he arrived at Chongming Island . Later, when I received a call from Professor Tao at 3:00 a.m. and learned that Ah Chu's mother was missing, Ah Chu, who did not wake up the perpetrator and knew her mother's whereabouts, didn't care why He Minhong was crying in the early morning, but asked the woman who had just finished crying. He Minhong went to find someone with her, but after being rejected, he decided to ignore her for three days. If Ah Chu's mother had an accident that night, the possible consequences would be greater than the sum of Ho Minhong's mistakes, but Ah Chu was not angry that Dr. Ye didn't inform him in time.
Ah Chu is a high-achieving student at SJTU and a part-time dance teacher. Ah Chu is a righteous person with high emotional intelligence and rich social experience. But also the most terrifying character. Asking Lucy for her advice, and then blaming Lucy for her advice when it fails. This is actually different from the Weibo that Ah Chu wrote to He Minhong. If you leave the TV scene, a person who understands the whole process of what happened, or even understands how He Minhong talked to Song Li, would definitely think first. He is a friend of He Minhong, Xiao He is 100% allowed to leave, but because Ah Chu is out of kindness, he will not criticize. Maybe due to family reasons, Ah Chu is very good at pua, through mind control, denying others to achieve their own goals. The control of her mother is the most typical. Her mother is a cowardly person who bears hardships and stands hard work. On the one hand, she is full of complaints against Ah Chu's father, and on the other hand, she relies on Ah Chu's father. Only Ah Chu can determine the direction of her happiness. and Ah Chu's father. After Ah Chu deceived her to Shanghai, she forced her to choose between herself and her father on the grounds of immigrating, cutting off all her social interactions. This kind of oppression from both sides can drive a person crazy. She brought her mother to live in 2202 for a long time, and turned the original three-person shared rent into four people, and quarreled frequently at night. He Minhong never complained, but when He Minhong brought Yu Feixue for two nights, he was already suspicious of life. Ah Chu constantly denied He Minhong's value and frequently double-standard, making everyone hate He Minhong. Ah Chu said that He Minhong had no eyesight and disturbed Zhen Zhen who had not rested, but in order to succeed in the interview earlier, she made Zhen Zhen work at night and explained sports anatomy to her with an ice pack. Ah Chu said that Aunt Han had a hard plan, but he also used the same method to ask Zhen Zhen to help him find a nanny job at Professor Tao's house. Obviously feel that it is impossible for him and his suitors to still accept gifts from others. He was criticized for not accompanying Dr. Ye to find his mother, and the priority was reversed. Moreover, Ah Chu has the potential to be really bad, and ignores all the efforts He Minhong has made for Yu Feixue, just because He Minhong is crying, he will say that He Minhong is a ghost in the group, and he doesn't care about the possible results. Instead of criticizing Chen Zufa, I would criticize He Minhong for forgetting to remind Yu Feixue that there is an internal ghost and that he should be responsible for all Yu Feixue's losses. There is no such logic in law. I help others because I did not remind them comprehensively. Should be held responsible, how ridiculous. And no matter whether Chen Zufa was arrested or not, the part of Yu Feixue could not escape at all. This can be known from the ending. In fact, many of Ah Chu's behaviors are no longer the ethical standards that Lucy and Dr. Ye said, butBreach of contract, illegal behavior, Ho Minhong's reminder as a friend is not wrong. A Chu asked Aunt Han to sign the contract, but she broke the contract midway, without the basic spirit of the contract. And morally kidnapped and asked Xiao He to take care of the elderly of the Han family. Ah Chu's mother took care of the Han family based on contractual obligations, and He Minhong himself had no obligation to take care of the Han family. Ah Chu was actually able to accept selling the patent to the next company. The patent was an act of duty, and the patentee was the company.
Lucy, victim, professional elite. There is nothing to say about Lucy, a smart, studious person. But it needs to be pointed out that this TV series conveys a wrong legal knowledge. Li Xun's behavior towards Lucy is not sexual harassment, and the attempted rape can be resolved by calling the police. Lucy can be said to be the opposite of He Minhong. She doesn't care about other people's affairs. All she cares about is what happens to herself. In the convenience store, she didn't care when she saw an unfamiliar boss brought out a girl who was not very experienced in the world. Seeing He Minhong asking whether to resign, she also refused, and criticized He Minhong for doubting Sister Zhu's suggestion, yes, so for such a major issue, can't you ask a few more people. However, Lucy and He Minhong did not gather too much, and most of the comments she received about He Minhong came from Ah Chu. After Yu Feixue was defrauded, all her help was for her own research. After all, what was needed at that time was to find out Chen Zufa, not to investigate how others were deceived.
Sister Zhu, a hotel dispute resolver, capable, kind, smart, and smooth, the most suitable person for marriage. From a certain point of view, Sister Zhu was the first person Chen Zufa wanted to cheat on marriage, and also the person Yu Feixue approached. In other words, without He Minhong's meddling, all of Yu Feixue's grievances might be directed at Sister Zhu. After He Minhong had already stated that he didn't think there was a ghost inside, he still insisted that He Minhong go to Yu Feixue. There are two views on whether there is an inner ghost. He Minhong thinks no, and Zhu Jie thinks there is. Zhu Jie does not convey it herself, but must be conveyed by He Minhong, who thinks there is no such thing. Both of these were speculations at the time, and there was no proof at the end of the TV series. Who is right? Abandoning the screenwriter's perspective of God, Chen Zufa and his accomplices are on one side, and Yu Feixue is on the other. Of course, the more people, the better, and Dr. Ye has already reminded them the night before. However, Sister Zhu did not complain against He Minhong, she did very well indeed. After all, Sister Zhu herself almost became Yu Feixue, and she might have known about He Minhong at that time.
Song Li, cartoonist. He claimed to believe in any Minhong, and finally put all the problems on He Minhong. Before signing the contract, He Minhong told the truth. She signed the contract for the first time and only knew that the wages of the employees of the unit were paid normally. Song Li blamed He Minhong for not checking whether there was any money in the company's accounts, dear, it's not a joke for a social animal to check the accounts.
Yu Feixue, no comment. Weird, wonderful. He Minhong invited you to dinner, and the third time he broke up with him because He Minhong proposed to change the restaurant. Such a person would eventually call Ye Zhen Zhen to express his gratitude. It seems that the screenwriter has really worked hard to show that Xiao He has poor ability and popularity.
To sum up, there is actually nothing wrong with He Minhong's many things. The problem is that He Minhong is not high in emotional intelligence. Others exaggerated her mistakes and guided public opinion. Even to show Xiao He's mistakes, the screenwriter also deliberately exaggerated the consequences, such as changing A restaurant caused Yu Feixue to break up with each other. He Minhong's truthful statement caused Song Li to break up with him. If the problems of many people here are singled out, they are much more serious than Xiaohe's problems. But any problem with only Xiao He will have a bad result. For example, if Xiao He sees the boss trying to deceive a female subordinate in a convenience store, do you want Xiao He to mind his own business? In fact, everyone in the play is meddling, but Xiao He's meddling is only what the other four think should not be meddled. If you give me a choice, I don't want to know Ah Chu the last thing. It's a nightmare. If the relationship is good, it's okay, but if the relationship is not good, I will be stunned and doubt myself every day. Listen to me, if you are communicating with someone every day about your own humanity, character, please remember to stay away from him immediately.
