As the saying goes: there are nine out of ten differences between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become one of the biggest conflicts in every family! But for the family of , Song Dandan and , there is no such problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The most important thing is that she has a daughter-in-law with high emotional intelligence, and she can be said to be able to handle this complicated relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law!
In the fourth season of "The Man Doing Housework", the way Wang Bogu and her mother-in-law Song Dandan got along has aroused heated discussions among many netizens!
In the eyes of outsiders, Song Dandan has a strong personality and is too controlling. Especially in " 50 kilometers Taohuawu ", Song Dandan frequently appeared on the hot search because of his strength! This time I participated in the show with my son and daughter-in-law, and I obviously felt that Song Dandan was much more restrained than before, for fear that he would be scolded again for saying the wrong thing!
Wang Bogu quickly comforted: "Mom, this is not a disadvantage!" In fact, most reality shows are edited, which will focus and magnify the contradictions and conflicts, but in fact, it is the family who know them! Although Song Dandan is strong, her starting point is good, and she will listen to the opinions of others, and will often reflect on her own shortcomings!
So Wang Bogu doesn't think her mother-in-law is strong, but thinks her education method is very successful!
mother-in-law can teach Batu such an upright, kind and good-looking child, Wang Bogu really admires her from the bottom of his heart. In fact, it can be seen from the communication between the two that Wang Bogu has always called her mother-in-law "you", which is enough to show how much she respects Song Dandan in private!
Wang Bogu also said in the show: "If there is a father, there must be a son. If you look at Batu, you will know that the two children are not a problem!"; After that, it will be even better if you take away education!"
Wang Bogu didn't try to please him, but Song Dandan was very useful. Probably this is the real high emotional intelligence, Batu really married the right person!
It is reported that the difference between Wang Bogu and Batu is 7 years old, their family background is average, and their appearance is not too beautiful. In her capacity, it is not easy to marry into such a family! But she didn't accept her fate, she conquered her mother-in-law with her high emotional intelligence, and used her strength to make Song Dandan recognize her!
Of course, in addition to Wang Bogu's high emotional intelligence, Song Dandan's attitude towards his daughter-in-law is also very important!
As we all know, Song Dandan has experienced three marriages, and she has suffered from her mother-in-law. So I don't want to let my daughter-in-law repeat the same mistakes and go my own way!
Song Dandan also often warns his son to be diligent after marriage. After all, he is now a father of two children, and he must take the initiative to assume the responsibility of a man and set an example for his children!
As a mother-in-law, Song Dandan did not blindly stand on the united front with her son, but considered the problem from the standpoint of her daughter-in-law. It is no wonder that the relationship between the two of them is so harmonious!
Of course, the most important thing is that distance creates beauty. Because we don't live together, we avoid the increase of many contradictions! As a mother-in-law, Song Dandan knows how to quit at the right time, is not unfamiliar, and has a sense of distance. This may be the best relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law !
Wang Bogu has a high EQ, Song Dandan also has a high EQ, the happiest person is actually Batu, right? As the saying goes, the greatest happiness of a man is to have a mother's love and a daughter-in-law's love! Now Batu and Wang Bogu have a very happy life, and they have two lovely sons.Batu is really a winner in life!
