text / Yingtong
The representative of "can carry clearly": Zhu Zhe
representative of "unclear": He Minhong
First, people who can "carry clearly" are thoughtful and meticulous about their work. Since the broadcast of
" Ode to Joy 3", the character Zhu Zhe has countless fans, and the key is that she is "clear" in life. In terms of work, Zhu Zhe showed her wisdom in the face of customers sexually harassing service staff and maliciously complaining about "the problem of the suitcase being stuck with glue". With the hotel manager's attitude of keeping things calm, Zhu Zhe not only tried his best to find out the evidence of the client's crime and returned the justice to the waiter, but also protected the hotel's interests through the " confidentiality agreement ", and the hotel manager was embarrassed to scold her. , the staff praised her. In the play, He Minhong , who "can't handle it clearly", handles the work crisis very well. He Minhong wants to help Song Li ask for the manuscript fee. Yu Chuhui, who is a typical person, is not clear about things, or has no idea of how to deal with it at all.
Second, people who "know clearly" treat family relationships with both love and boundaries.
Zhu Zhe went out to work after graduating from vocational high school in order to provide for his younger brother and sister to go to college, and spends tens of thousands of yuan every year to support them. But the younger brother and sister have graduated from college, the younger sister is about to get married, and the younger brother is in love, and they are still counting on this older sister, who has been paying so much, to continue to be their cash cow when they get married, get married, and see a doctor. Zhu Zhe, who "can carry it clearly", can only pretend to be poor and pretend to be heavily in debt. Zhu Zhe is not kidnapped by the so-called family responsibility morality, she has her boundaries, her long-term consideration. Zhu Zhe's sobriety, in the eyes of many native families who only love their children and daughters, is how well they can protect themselves and are good at planning their own life. They are not dragged down and have spare strength to help in the future. It is rare for her to live such a transparent life. . In the play, He Minhong , who "can't carry it clearly", called her parents when she encountered difficulties, causing her mother to go to Shanghai overnight to accompany her, which was still immature and independent.
Third, people who "know clearly" do not lose their independence in love.
Facing the entanglement of his predecessor "Chen Zufa", Zhu Zhe staged a textbook-style "resignation plan". Since my predecessor waited downstairs every day to show his sincerity, then I will fulfill your sincerity, eat together and settle the account. Seeing the expensive menu, Chen Zufa began to hesitate. He pretended to be generous and asked Zhu Zhe to order, and Zhu Zhe specially ordered seafood and Squirrel mandarin fish . Before the dishes were served, Zhu Zhe began to take out the book and asked Chen Zufa about his marriage plan. He also asked him about his annual income, whether he had bought a house, and how much he could spend on her every month. Chen Zufa felt a little guilty, and she didn't dare to let her see the salary income of the past two years. The two hairy crabs ordered for this meal were packaged by Zhu Zhe, and Zhu Zhe paid for the meal himself. Zhu Zhe properly handled the problem in his own way, without tearing his face to expose Chen Zufa's hypocritical face, and thus letting him retreat in spite of difficulties. Her trick is called "defeat magic with magic" by netizens. Did you learn?
